My Best Friend Is Leaving Me Out

My 2 best friends keep leaving me out?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Hi Just wondering,

I'm sure it really hurts with your 2 best friends treating you this way. I do not feel that you should question them about it, because it will make you look like you are "too needy" - do you see what I mean? For example - it will look like you have no other friends and that if they aren't your friends then you won't have anyone. In my opinion, you should go on with your life and try your best to be the best friend you can to all your other friends. If Dani and Nicole say hello to you, then of course, say hello back to them and treat them nicely the way you would want to be treated. But go on with your life as if nothing is wrong and you are going on with your life without them. Smile, chat with your friends, go to school, do your school work, and definitely do not talk about them to your other friends because it will just get back to them and cause more problems for you. Do you see what I mean? Jealousy never helps anyone, it only hurts relationships so please, try not to display jealousy. It is best if you let this go and learn from it that some friends really aren't the friends you thought they were. Look for true friends, ones that stick by you no matter what. Have fun and do well academically in school as it will all end so fast!

I hope this helps. Best wishes.

My friends are leaving me out purposely?

So apparently, next weekend one of my closest friends are hosting a sleepover and they didn't even bother to mention it to me. I probably don't even want to go but that's not the point. When I brought up the sleepover they lied right straight to my face. They don't know that I know that they're lying. I feel pretty crappy right now because I the fact that my friends just lied to my face JUST to keep me out of the circle and what hurts more is that they're my best friends. Should I tell them that I know about everything?

My only friend is leaving me behind?

Well, I am not the one to be asking how to make friends because I really don't know how. In school I was the one everyone usually ignored. But I thought I would suggest something. Your friend may be moving to another school but that doesn't mean she is leaving you. My best and closest friends happen to me miles away (three of whom are overseas). Just because I have never met them in person doesn't mean they mean any less to me. Try to keep in contact with your friend through text, emails, and/or phone calls. Even social media can be useful. You can have a very deep friendship with someone even if you don't see them in person. As for not being alone in school... I would say just be yourself. Don't try to hide or cover up who you really are. Chances are there are a lot of people who go to your school and I assume you are in high school. If not then this next part still applies. Being yourself helps people see who you are. This means others will be able to see that they have something in common with you. So eventually one or more will come to you and try to be friends with you. Don't let age matter either. Older kids... Younger kids... It doesn't matter because real friendship doesn't have an age limit and gender doesn't matter either. Real friendship is very special too so don't turn down someone if they don't seem like you will have something in common with them at first. First impressions are usually very limiting and there are many people who make bad first impressions yet make excellent friends. But just try to be yourself and open to new friends. Don't force anything. Don't try to be someone you are not just to have friends because it is better to have friends who like you for you and not people you like you for a false you. Also, never stop being yourself. No matter what. I hope this helps some. Good luck.

My friends leave me out?

Hey everyone! So I have this group of friends, and we're basically all close. We do everything together, they're always nice & sincere, and they always invite me to everything they do. But there is just one problem: there are 9 of us - 9 is an odd number, which means everyone basically has their "close pal" except for me. I'm always getting left out from the individual cliques of 2. I don't want to look like a follower, so sometimes I branch out and talk to other people outside my group. I do this because none of my friends are all that interested about talking to me because they already have one another and I'm always feeling alone. Yesterday, I called my mom to pick me up because I was feeling so excluded being with my friends. I don't know if they notice or not, but it really does hurt my feelings.

They also almost always never want to hear what I say. They might think it just lacks of importance. Some say that I don't talk anymore - but when I do, sometimes they proceed to laugh at me or make jokes about how I'm weird.

I do have these two friends in my group, but they kind of branched out. We used to be really close, we still are, but it's just not the same because I'm not necessarily friends with who they're friends with outside the group and they're always talking to other people and don't make time for me.

Not to mention, I don't really have much in common with them. They are BOY CRAZY, I do like boys, but I'm sort of shy about it and don't like sharing my feelings, and I'm not as overboard and obsessive as they are. They also love giving hugs and those fake kisses, and I cannot stand when friends do that to each other because of how claustrophobic and uncomfortable I am.

I just think that they would much rather hangout all together without me. What should I do? Find some new friends, or try to get involved in one of the cliques...I don't know at all.

This may be a confusing topic, but if you understand and give me feed back, I really do appreciate it. You can be as honest as you want.

P.S. I am in 8th grade and next year I go into high school