Best Friend Obsessed with his GF?
Anyways yeah my best friend is obsessed with his GF, he lost his virginity to her and so basically all he wants to do is "it". Totally understand that because I would be the same way. But when I ask him to hang out by texting or calling he doesn't even respond anymore. Last time we hung out was about 3 weeks ago (we have been on a break for 2 weeks) and before that was probably 2 to 3 months. His GF has been through some hard times so I understand him wanting to be there for here but out of 3 *#*$ing months he only hangs out with me twice when we used to hang out all the time. I am pretty much giving up on ever asking to hang out. I understand him wanting to hang out with his GF but can't he even text back to say "I'm Busy today"? *Don't give me bull **** answers like, If he is in love then don't mess it up. He is 15 do you freaking realize how many 15 year olds find true love, like zero. Seems like he is way more into to "Between the Legs Love" than anything else. Also no answers like He is getting some leave it alone, yeah I understand that thanks but every 2 months hanging with me and every day with his chick is a little extreme.
My best friend said she is obsessed with me. What should I do?
I'm going to answer this with the assumption that you don't have any romantics feelings for her.If your best friend is obsessed with you, then she obviously loves you a lot. When someone tells you that they love you or any variation of that word, they are exposing a very vulnerable part of themselves in hopes that you'll reciprocate those feelings. So no matter what, you'll end up hurting her if you don't feel the same way.As her best friend, the most you can do for her is to let her down easy, give her all the space she needs, and do not — under any circumstance — give her conflicting messages.Explain to her that you think that she's this really amazing and wonderful person that you highly value as a friend. But admit that you just don't feel the same way and that you don't like her back. Tell her that this is not because of some defect she has, but that you just don’t see yourself falling for her. Be very clear that you don't like her.You might lose your best friend for a time or once easy and natural conversations may turn stiff and awkward, but if you have to let her go if you care for her.If she's a true friend and you let her down easily, then she’ll come back as your best friend again.
My best friend is way too obsessed with me?
Iminthe7thgrade mybestfrans inthe8th grade ndivebeennoticinghowobsesseshe iswithme.we arent in the same grade so i have friends that r sheisjealous of them she always has something bad to say about them she doesnt have a lot of friends in her own grade so she hangs out with my friends and she tries to get them to not be my friend by spreading lies so she can have me all to herself.nd shes even trying to get held back so she can be in my grade!shed text and call me nonstop. Thisonetimeme my friendwent to acarnival and she frickinfollowed us.Shes soo controlling cunning even my family is starting to pick up on itshe always comes over to my house without askingme ifits okand when i tell her she cant come in she tells me that her parents arent home and they locked thedoor so i have no choice mom doesnt like her and insists that icutalltieswithher but shes my bffWeve had this problem before and i tried to talk to her about it but she gets offended and mad at me. Itried distancing myself from her and thatdoesnt work because do things like bang on my door until i open it or until my parents my brothers or i tell her off and shed do things like dumpmulchonpourporch. Andas soon as i take her back shes notobsessive butaftera while shebecomes obsessive again i dont know how to get her to stop ive tried so many different resolutions tothisreoccuring problem but im starting to believe she wont ever have to change and id havetochoose to dealwith it or stop being herfriends
Obsessed with Best Friend?
Well your friend has a girlfriend so I don't think he is really interesting in having that kind of relationship with you. He might have noticed that you have started to develop feelings for him that's why he is avoiding you. I must really commend him, a straight guy, for wanting to hang out and befriend you. This doesn't happen very often. You probably already know this but one of the things most straight people fear is having a gay person "being attracted to them". I think you should control yourself or else you are going to lose his friendship. He is not interesting in having that kind of friendship with you.
My best friend is obsessed with his girlfriend?
They have been dating for a while now, he's 18 shes 15. We used to hang out every day, but now all he does is stays at his house and has sex with her. I ask him if he wants to do anything all the time, he always says "Can't, woman is over". I'll tell him to come over but when he does he either asks if they could use my bathroom for blowjobs, or they just sit on my couch. BUT, shes also obsessed with him. I went to a party with him, and his girlfriend came. It was my other friends 18th birthday party. She says that he isn't allowed to talk to my friend at her own birthday party, because she might steal him away from her. So my friend said hi to her, and then his girl friend starts screaming at him that he isn't allowed to say hi. I find that insane. I understand they like each other but he doesn't even message me any more because hes always having sex with his girl friend. Is there anything i can do about this, I understand that they like each other but its becoming ridiculous.
What should I do if my friend is obsessed with me? What should I do?
You can back off nicely and steady if you think u are going to hurt them.But if u don’t, just tell them you’re not into it. You can say you’re not into any kind of romantic/physical relationship, you can say u only like him/her as a friend, you can be honest. It’s not your fault they’re obsessing over u.The last thing you should do is being passive and not doing anything, because it will lead them to expectations, and then- disappointment.
My friend is obsessed with this guy...?
My friend is a freshman and she's got this HUGE crush on a sophomore. He would had a girlfriend at the time, but continued to text her telling her all of these "things" (dirty things) he wanted to do with her. I kept my ears open during my math class and found out that he was doing the same thing with another girl who was his age. The two of them (him and the girl his age) ended up having sex all while he was dating his girlfriend. When his girlfriend found out, they broke up and he stopped texting my friend saying stuff like, "I want to change", "I want to be a better man", and that kind of stuff. That crap only lasted like a week and he was back to normal talking to my friend the same way and the girl he had sex with as well. She's still obsessed with him and I don't want to see her get hurt. How can I help her without hurting her feelings? All of my friends and I try to say something to her but it's like she doesn't understand. What should I do?
What do I do? My friend is obsessed with being darker and “more exotic” than me, and we’re both white.
You should start by asking yourself why does it matter, and why do you care?
How can I help my friend who has been obsessed with a guy for 4 years who is totally uninterested in her?
Learn the patterns of that guy's ignorance and apply the same to your friend. When she complaints, make her realise this is something called, "ignoring and being uninterested in a person". Force her to try the same with someone else and make sure the ignorance thing is proved with her own experiments. It might work. But you got to behave in the same way as the guy does.I would say, don't start giving too much advice or get over-indulged in her life. She may react back and that might cost you your ego, your friend and her friendship. Just keep a safe distance. Sooner or later, she is going to face a breakdown. I am not asking you to wait for the breakdown to happen, all I am saying to be there, silently. When the worst time will come, she will find ONLY you to be there, in fact she will see that you had been always there. That's where you become her girl. You have seen everything, how it started and went and finished, now you have the plentiful ways of manipulating her mind to positive views.Be careful, never press her into your perceptions about life, cause she might think of you more like a guide at that time.
My friend is obsessed with kpop?
she is driving me crazy!! i mean she is talking only about kpop she tweets about kpop , kpop is the only music she likes. she doesn't even likes other guys except from asians. this is crazy cause she really thinks her biases will marry her!! i am tired of her talking ONLY about kpop. i mean i like kpop but it's not the only music i enjoy. she even tries to speak korean and throws random korean words when we talk or on the internet. she does this stupid poses trying to look korean in all of her photos but she just looks stupid to me. she's trying to look korean and i thinks she's just plain pathetic. what can i do to make her understand that she needs to live her life instead of fantasizing about her idols. she won't even go out anymore. she is always on her computer watching korean tv shows listening to korean music and looking at korean guys. she needs help. any advices?