What do you do when your ex best friend keeps giving you dirty looks with her new best friend?
Get over it and move on. As an adult, when I got married and had children, I had a best friend who didnt want those things with her boyfriend. She slowly stopped answering me then stood me up for my marriage and when I had my first child, as she was supposed to my photographer. She hurt me but I eventually had to get over it because there are way worse things to worry about.We recently lost everything we owned during hurricane Michael, and I couldnt even tell my parents in Virginia that I was alive for three days. This has been a hard lesson in life, and those that help you are the ones you should surround yourself with, and help in return. When all is lost, all you have is each other, so if they dont need you, you dont need them.
My best friend keeps ditching me...?
I've been best friends with my friend for 8 years. We've been through a lot but, you know, that's life. She met this guy about five months ago and they started going out. I introduced them, mind you. And, I was the third wheel on their first dates because they asked me to go so it wouldn't be awkward. And then I sat in the car as they snogged eachothers faces off and generally ignored me. She keeps ditching me now, too, to be with him. I know she's happy with him and I'm happy for her, but I'm a person. I have feelings. For fourth of july, we had big plans to watch the fireworks, set fireworks off, and have a sleepover. Then, her boyfriends parents ask her to watch fireworks with them. She's already met his family many times, so it's not like a big deal. So, one hour before we're supposed to hang out, she texts me and tells me that his parents asked her and she couldn't say no. How hard is it to say sorry, I have plans with my best friend? She always tells me that she's busy too whenever I try to hang out with her because she's ALWAYS with him. I never even have a chance to hang out with her anymore! About a week ago, she told me she would get me a ticket to six flags and that we would go with her and her cousin. But then she said she wanted it to just be her and her cousin, which I can understand, but then I find out a couple days after that she got a ticket for her boyfriend and they went together with her cousin. We have this other friend. We're like the three musketeers. But she's always so busy and we never get to hang out all three of us together. One day, I find that the both of them had a sleep over and I didn't find out until the week after. I told her that it made me angry so she said the next time, she would invite me. Guess what I find out they did a couple days ago? They went to see a movie together that they knew I wanted to see but didn't even bother to invite me. I don't know, maybe I'm over-reacting but she keeps lying and ditching me. And she's done this to me before with other boyfriends. It just makes me angry.
My friend keeps ditching me for her crush?
So over spring break my friend went skiing with her crush and their families for 5 days. We had been making plans to go hang out at the mall when they got back and go to do other things. They got back today and when I started talking to her about our plans she said things like "oh well I was wanting to spend time with Kyle for the rest of spring break" even though they JUST got back from New Mexico. Like anyone else I got really upset and when I confronted her she kept saying "quit being jealous" or "you hung out with your other friend so whats the difference?" We got into this big argument and now I feel really bad because I REALLY don't want to lose her as a friend...as I don't really have anyone else to hang out with and she has been a really good friend to me up to this point. What should I do? I also don't want it to seem like I want her to forget about Kyle either because although I would NEVER date him, I still think hes a good choice for her.
Boyfriend keeps ditching me for friends?
So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half, but he keeps ditching me for his friends!! Usually we spend some time together every day but Friday is our day you know. Its always been. We spend all of Fridays together because its my free day and his. But lately he's been hanging out with his friends alot...not me. I feel like I'm dating him and his friends!! Everytime I'm with him I'm always stuck with his friends too. This Friday we were supposed to hang out I made the plans and reservations (costly) and he wanted to instead go to a friends house???? Help? :(
My ex-best friend keeps staring at me in class?
So in middle school, I was best friends with this one girl. Then we came to high school and by the end of last year (freshman year) it seemed like she just decided she didn't want to be my friend anymore and went to hang out with a different group. Me, and my other friends who were also close with her, just got pissed, espcially me, and me and her just stopped talking for awhile and pretty much we stopped being friends. Now, this semester, I have her in a couple of my classes and she just constantly states at me. Its so weird! She even tells me hi now and tries to talk to me a little bit. I kinda sorts still mad at her because she was my BEST FRIEND and she just gave me the finger (not literally). Andso stares at my other who friend who was also very close to her, and she's starting to get pissedboff about it. Why the heck does she keep staring at me and my friend?! And why now would she try to talk to me when she knows how much she hurt me?
My best friend is hanging out with my ex bf?
My best friend keeps hanging out with my ex and his friends, and goes off at breaktime to meet them. At class me and her talk a lot, but I can't hang out with them. Recently my other best friend left the school, so I'm always lonely at school. Although I didn't date him for a long time, it still hurts that she would hang out with him every day. He's said bad things about me to my group of friends (he apologized later). And then when I asked her if she wanted to go to this concert with me, she said that she was going with my ex and his friends (which I didn't know of, she mentioned it for the first time), and that I could come along too. Is it selfish to wish she didn't hang out with them, because it makes me feel left out and a little betrayed? This relationship (friendship?) with her makes me feel so horrible all the time, to the point that I sometimes consider moving school. I haven't talked to her about any of this, because I don't want her to hate me.