My Best friend is RUINING my life. HELP.?
this is NOT a healthy friendship. drop this ***** now before it's too late. the only thing you can do is tell your friends the truth. your real friends will forgive you, those who don't are missing out. it may take some healing time, but you seems like a genuinely nice girl and your friends should find it in their hearts to take you back. the best revenge is not to get back at her, but ignore her. block her from facebook and your life. don't talk smack about her to others. enjoy your life, do fun things, show her what she's missing. i believe in karma, so this girl's got another thing coming. be strong! talk to someone you really trust, like your mom or a good friend, and let them help you out. tell this girl in a nice but stern way that this friendship has to end because it's is negatively affecting your life. you got this!
UGG!! My best friend ruined my date with a boy, What can I do?
Last weekend I met a really cute boy at the mall. We texted all week and made plans for friday (last night). I asked himif he had a friend for my friend so it would be like a double date or group date. We all met at the mall to see a movie. When we got to our seats the boy I was with put his feet up on the back of the seat in front of him (it was previews and no one was sitting there anyways).So my friend shouts out really load " OMG,eeeeew are those Uggs on your feet, duh guys dont wear Uggs thats so gay." i could tell he was embarrassed and turning red and I felt bad for him. So he told my friend " yeah, there Uggs so what? There a mens size 9 and they make Uggs for guys too ya know." "They are just boots anyways so who cares"? Needless to say the rest of the night didnt go so well for me.He hasnt texted me at all today. You couldnt even tell he was wearing uggs because his jeans weren't tucked into the boots they were over them. I went to uggaustralia.com and they domake the classic uggs for guys. He had the chestnut ones on. It doesnt matter to me that he wears Uggs, they actually looked really good on him, besides that he's really cute. We dont go to the same school so its not like I will run into him on monday. Should I call him? Text him? What should i do?
I gave my best friend a bj last night (I'm a girl)?
I'm 18, he is 16. I'm a virgin, he's not. He knows EVERYTHING about me..Last week I gave him a back rub because he loves them...he was sitting in between my legs so he started rubbing them, teasing my thighs but never going all the way. He has told me about his body and what he likes..so I put my fingers through his hair and touched spots that turn him on...also not going all the way. (first time we've ever been sexual) We've "cuddled" like this several times since. (The furthest I went with my only serious boyfriend was make out because of our values. He was 22 and we dated for 6 months.) My bff (the 16 year old) and I are both kinda hot and everyone tells us to date but I don't like that he's younger than me (illegal sex) and we differ in many values. Last night got intense and I would've had sex with him if I wasn't on my period. I brought him in my room to watch Netflix and sleep (bc period), but of course we started touching each other again and our shirts came off. I told him to teach me how to kiss him. Instead we just made out vigorously (lips, neck, boobs). I started "touching" him and eventually gave him a ******** until he finished. The whole process was so sensual, exposed, and intimate. Meanwhile he was understanding, instructive, and kept reminding me not to be nervous or ashamed. I love him, because he is my best friend, but not in a romantic way, and he feels the same. He is SO good in bed but if we keep going, will we ruin our relationship?
What ended your relationship with your best friend?
2018 CAT result!A short back ground.So he and I had been in an on and off bestfriendship. Since, I had proposed him 6–7 years back, he always had an upper hand. He first best friend zoned me. Treated me like he was luxury that I couldn't have ever.I wanted him to be in a relationship with me. But he turned me down everytime stating he couldn't take my responsibilities so on and so forth. And one more thing he always mentioned was that I have had been over ambitious. Really? What does that even mean? ( By the way, my boyfriend thinks I am laid back about my career always). So one fine evening I found out that he was flirting, if not sexting, whole night with my roommate that, was the last fist of sand on the burial of our bonding.Years went by and he contacted me after he had broken up with his girlfriend. And since then, we had have on and off friendship. He still had the upper hand but we only had normal chats and his statuses indicated he was preparing for CAT and this year I too took the test with not so good preparation( it's an excuse) when I told him my result I was blocked without any further explanation. Thanks buddy. Burn babe burn.Attaching some funny screenshots to polish the answer.The very day of CAT. In the below picture you can see that he chose not to reply. He does that often to make himself feel important. Still in his teenage.TranslationMe: This time I don't think I will be able to crack it. If not next time, then life will be directionless.Me: Kerom holo “how was it( CAT)?”Se random day when I saw Arun Sharma book so asked him Is that for cat and if the book he was practising happened to the one.And finally this. I am blocked again for no known reasons other than this.Can you tell? I am happy that he has left long back otherwise I wouldn't have known I deserved and someone can actually that much love and much care!Still he was the only bestfriend. Specifically, a guy bestfriend have I ever had.I would never say this in my life but this time I am happy that I am CAT-called!**I will share my CAT story with you guys soon.**If you didn't understand the pun then you have worse sense of humour.
21 and over only: If a threesome ruined your friendship, would you let it go or try to work it out?
One drunken night, I had a threesome with my best friend and her boyfriend. It was all her big idea, she had been wanting to do it for a long time. After it happened, we were closer than ever. Then all of a sudden, we rarely talk at all. She recently get married to the boyfriend so maybe she doesnt want me around him. Should I let the friendship go?
I'm a straight girl falling in love with her best friend. What do i do?
My best friend and I have been friends our whole lives but ive never had feelings for her like this before. it started a few months ago and i dont know why im falling in love with her but i am. i love everything about her, the smile, personality, laugh, eyes, basicly everything that she is! I thought that this feeling would go away but it isnt and thats why i am posting this because its ruining my life (along with the other many things in my life). She says that she is straight but everyone does, but now she is showing signs that she may feel the same way. I am straight but this is the only girl ive ever had these feelings for. the problem is that when im with her (which is almost everyday) she kind of cuddles up next to me more, and smiles at me, stares at me more, but i dont know if it is just me thinking that she is starting to like me, or if she actually is starting to feel the same way i am about her. I want to tell her so bad but im afraid that if i do our friendship will end. I have hinted to her that there is something about me she doesnt know that may ruin our friendship and she takes it as if she already knows what it is. After hanging out with her and i go home and lay in bed, i think of what the night would have been like if i would have told her that day that i had feelings for her, and how she would take it. I repeatidly have dreams of this encounter and different times she acts different ways about it (sometimes she is ok with it, others she is not, and sometimes she even tells me that she feels the same way about me). I think ive vented enough for someone to read without being bored to death. believe it or not i could go on and on saying how much i care for her and would do anything for her. One night we were talking and i was in a bad mood and said that nobody liked me. She told me that everything was ok and that if nobody else liked me then it was ok cause she loved me. She said that if i were a guy she would go out with me and i told her that if i were a guy then i would go out with her. After that conversation everything got better and it was almost like we were getting even closer. I just hope there is someone out there that knows what im feeling right now, or may even be going through a similar situation. Any advice or help?
Why is my friendship with my best friend getting ruined when HE is the one who set me up with his brother?
One day, I went over my best friend Austin's house one and his brother, Chris was there and later that night, Austin texts me saying Chris thought I was pretty and so Austin told Chris to text me because I thought that we connected when we met also. ever since then Chris and i have been a tight couple and Austin has never shown any anger torwards the fact that im with Chris now (for backround information, I was NEVER with Austin. But a LONG time ago I told Austin I used to like him BEFORE I got to know him well enough to determine that I didn't and it was just a simple crush.)) Over the past year Chris and I have grown in love with each other but Austin seems to be mad that I'm going out with Chris. He doesn't talk to me as much. And even though I'm going to the doctor to get my memory checked he was still mad that I can't remember the exact date of his birthday this month. So why is he getting mad when he is the one who set us up??
Friend Wants Left Alone For a week?
I am a guy, and I have been real good friends with this girl for about a year now. Pretty much one of her best friends...Last Thursday, I made the mistake of asking her out, thinking she liked me back also, as more than a friend. I was wrong, and she said "I would, but After what's happened in the past dating friends, it ruins friendships." I replied simply "Okay, I understand" and left her go. The next day, she wouldn't even look at me in school. She completely ignored me. I tried texting her that night, and she wouldn't even respond. When she did, she would make excuses like "My phones almost dead" even though she was sitting there talking to other friends of mine. So, again, i left her go, and went to sleep. The next day, didn't talk to her all day, until around 8 PM. She didn't respond, and I had a friend text her telling her to get on AIM, and she responded "Tell him I want my ******* space. Just leave me go for a week and I might not be as mad." I left her alone after that...and I am doing as she said, leaving her alone. I don't text her, I don't look at her in school, I don't talk to her on aim, nothing. Will she get over this, and become friends again? She said it would be weird to be friends now since I asked her out, and that I ruined it. I am just wondering if I really should just leave her go, or is there something better I could do? She was one of my best friends, and I just want things the way they were.
My best friend wants to kiss me. What do I do?
I’m kinda experiencing the same situation right now… (except I’m a guy)A couple days ago, I was texting my best friend (who is a girl) in the middle of the night and we got bored. She suggested playing the question game… and since I was bored, I said “sure y not”. We ended up talking about what makes us horny, sex fantasies, favorite sex positions, etc… and then it got to the point where we were exchanging nudes. I personally did not ever have feelings for her, but for some reason, I got out of control and shit happened… I’m still not sure why.The next morning I woke up very confused about the night before, because me and her have been friends for a long time, and not once have we ever done something like this. She later called me and asked if I wanted to come over to watch Netflix or whatever. I didn’t bring up last night because I wanted to avoid an awkward phone call.When I got to her house, the sun was already setting and so her room was dark. I casually laid down next to her and she turned on Netflix, I still didn’t mention last night. After about 30 minutes, she started moving closer to me and slowly grinding against me. I pretended not to notice, but then she said “fuck it” and hopped on to me. At this point, I was really confused and had no idea what to do. I stopped her as she tried to kiss me and said “WTF?!!”, because I wasn’t about to fuck my childhood best friend. I immediately pushed her off and said “Listen… I don’t know what was up with me… or you last night, but I’m not ready to take our friendship in “that” direction…” She stared at me with much frustration and said, “but i want youuuu… just FUCK me alreadyyyy!” I said “No” again and left.I later called her and tried to explain why I sent her nudes last night, which I wasn’t even sure why in the first place, but she said she understood and said she wasn’t thinking straight too. I guess we just got a little too excited. (2 o’clock in the morning)What I recommend you doing is explain to him that even though you’re curious to kiss him, you don’t want to ruin your friendship by taking things too far. And if he asks why you sexted him, say that your mind wasn’t in the right place at that time, so you made careless decisions.If by any chance, he doesn’t acknowledge your opinion on things, simply give him an ultimatum like “I’m sorry, but if you don’t care enough to put into account my feelings, then this isn’t gonna work” or something like that.Hope you the best of luck!