My best friend won't open up to me?
well she's really depressed, and goes to see a counsellor. she doesn't exactly have an eating disorder, but she doesn't eat nearly as much as she should, and she thinks she's ugly which i just can't comprehend as she's actually gorgeous and has a million boys falling for her like flies. she has loads of guys that are in love with her and text her all the time, and she's showed me these texts and they talk to her about how she feels and about stuff with her counsellor that she never talks to me about, though i do ask her. it's just that she doesn't tell me stuff. she knows me inside and out cause i tell her everything, but i don't know her that well, and i can't even get through to her, and it kinda makes me feel quite ****. i just feel like she doesn't really care about me, and i love her like crazy, and i just feel like i'm pushing myself on her, and trying to pull her to me and she just doesn't want to know, though she says i'm one of the most important people in her life...yeah. she says she really cares about all those guys that hound her and depend on her with their problems and tell her about how they self harm all the time and are just attention seeking twats that stress her out and won't leave her alone, and she's too nice to tell them to get a grip. this is long and boring and probs no one will answer it, but if you do i'd really appreciate it, even to tell me i'm a pathetic ****. cheers xXx
Why won't my best friend hug me?
Okay so I've known my best friend for about a year and a half now. We're practically the same person and we tell each other everything. There's just one weird problem...she doesn't really ever hug me. I know she likes hugs cause I see her hug her other friends all the time. And it's not cause we're not close enough, like I said we're best friends and she loves being with me. Whenever I hug her, she kinda just awkwardly stands there and doesn't hug me back. There has been a few occasions where she's actually hugged me first, but it was really quick. I can't figure out why she's like this...Anybody have any ideas? Thanks! Btw we're both 13
My best friend won't text me back?
I've already asked this but no one answered and I'm really impatient On Thursday I was talking to her then all of a sudden it says seen and she won't reply but today she said hey then I replied it said seen again but no reply I'm worried she's annoyed at me but I don't know why she would be I didn't do anything so I'm confused but I don't want to text her and seem clingy help
My best friend won't let me date her guy friend...?
It never fails to surprise me how a friend takes the initiative to introduce you to someone, then acts as if they had no clue that you'd hit it off and want to start dating. This girl is just plain jealous...whether she herself has feelings for Donnie or whether she enjoys the attention she gets from both guys, she knows that would change if you two dated. I don't like the way she's acting and in no way do I think she should have that kind of control over your personal life. She is dating someone else...you have no reason to not date Donnie. So what, maybe she has a little crush on him and wants him available if she and her current beau don't work out? Too bad! Not to mention, if Donnie is any kind of real friend, he wouldn't date her anyway. I'd take the initiative and ask Donnie for his number. Or give him yours. Ask him if he wants to hang out with you sometime. If he doesn't, you'll know he's not interested and you can move on. Good luck!
I'm her best friend but why won't she open up to me?
I once had to explain a similar concept to my little brother. Just because you claim to be someone’s best friend, doesn’t mean they consider you their best friend. Additionally, just because two people are best friends doesn’t mean they’re suddenly entitled to know every single aspect of the other’s life.Being best friends simply means that the two of you are great friends who likely hang out and chat often.Her reason for not opening up can be anything. Maybe you’re a blabber mouth, maybe she think you’ll judge her, maybe she’s not open to talking about it in general, maybe she just simply doesn’t want to tell you. I hate to burst your bubble but a best friend is simply a title that only carries as much weight as the person giving the title feels it should bare. In this case, that weight does not extend to your friend opening up.Every friendship is different, and with this one, she’s just not open to opening up to the extent that you desire. That’s her choice and her’s alone, no matter how much you want that to change. You’re just going to have to accept this.
Best friend won't stop talking to my ex?
Okay, so I have been best friends with my good friend for almost 4 years. We have some small fights here and there, but over all our friendship is good. Until, my friend started talking to my ex. My ex and I dated for almost 5 months, and then we broke up, and then we got back together again for 2 months, and then he left me for another girl. Now, I am over my ex, but when I found out my friend was talking to him I got very angry. First of all, she didn't even know him until I introduced them once. And second of all, she knows he hurt me badly. Anyways, I found out my friend was talking to him, and I asked her to stop because it bothered me, and she said she would. But, little did I know, she never stopped talking to him. I found out recently that they have been talking for months, even after she told me they stopped. When I confronted her about it, she said that she would not stop talking to him, and that she can talk to whomever she wants (and its not like she has a crush on him, because she likes someone else A LOT).So I got mad and she got mad and things were said, and now she won't talk to me. I've apologized for what I said but she is still mad. What do I do? I value her friendship and I like her, but what she did hurt me a lot, and now she says she never wants to be my friend again. Please help.
My best guy friend won't tell me who he likes but...?
maybe he likes you. many guys act that way because he might think that u would not accept him as anything more than a friend, if u want to know if its u then I suggest look at the way he acts when he is around u, and if he gives u any signs then that means that girl is u. Just tell him straight out, do u like me, more than a friend, its ok.. ?, he might stay quite and mught not admit it at first, but u can tell, another thing maybe is that he might not like someone at the moment and he is just saying that so u wount think that he's stupid. I had a friend think this way, one day my cousin asked her best guy friend the same question and he replied almost the same way, she tried to look and see who he might liked, and ended up finding out it was no one cuz he thought he wasnt cool if he didnt like no one. (sounds pretty stupid, I KNOW) hahaha, but some guys are that way (IT took my cousin 4 months to find this out) another might be that the girl he likes might be ur best friend, ur sister, ur cousin, or a girl who u might not get along with and maybe just thinks that u would not accept her. (this also happened to my friend) she was didnt get along with this girl, she asks her best guy friend who he likes, and ended up telling her that he liked the girl she doesnt like, she was in shocked, tried not getting them together, DRAMA and then ended up not being friends anymore. or maybe he is gay. (just kidding) haha I say u should first notice signs of him liking u. then if that is the case approach him and ask him if its u. If he says yes, and u dont like him in that way u just tell him nicely how u feel about it. how the new relationship might not work out cuz the way u guys have been together as friends etc. To me it sounds like he might like you, at the same time he just doesnt know, who, or he is just saying that. Dont be bothering him so much about this, he will get tired and tell u off someday (another experiance there) hahaha! GOOD LUCK! and hope u find out who he likes (thats if he likes anyone) hehehe! Hoped I helped :)
I had a fight with my best friend, and she won't respond to my messages or make any attempts to resolve our problems. How should I proceed?
Always depends on the severity of the fight. Just like you can make amends for a trifle, you can also make amends for a catastrophic mistake. Value is in the eye of the beholder and so you do something meaningful for that specific person for conflict resolution for their personality.Resolving an issue is always best when you can look someone in the eyes because you can convey much more nonverbally when you are face to face. Plus, one sentence spoken when someone can hear the sincerity in your voice in 10 seconds is more effective than any digital method. The biological chemical spike from one hug for a best friend is more than text on a screen.Charisma is winning over people in real-time and it sounds like you could use it right about now if you really want to get what you want.Every second that goes by is a second your best friend could be back in your life and life is too short to miss out from someone you truly care about. After 11 years do you think she cares about you? Has she ever shown it? Evaluate your good times together and do you want more of those times.Own up to words and actions, but don’t be a doormat or excessively harsh. Call someone out but no need to throw them under a bus. Assess what’s really going on.Taking the first step all the time to reconcile seems to me like she has a lot going on or it’s just an excuse to the underlying issue of: She doesn’t care that much. Selfishness can be temporal or leading to consistency. You should know her better to make that judgment and sometimes saying something firm is just what your best friend needs to hear!You should also learn to let go. Let people crash and burn for their own good. Then use humor to make them understand their mistakes because real friends can “make fun of each other, bigtime. Sometimes, the more outrageous the better.”People who are worthy of you will come back because you gave them something that is hard to find: real friendshipIf they don’t come back, they weren’t your friend to begin with. Probably just an acquaintance that was posing as a friend and those are the people you don’t really need because if you did, they would already be in your life and would stay there. Their charisma and yours would be a synergy aura that makes both of you happier.
My boyfriend won't let me talk to my best friend?
If you're in a relationship and your partner starts trying to control who you can or can not see, it's best to get out of it. If he truly loved you, he'd let you see whoever you wanted and talk to whoever you wanted and would trust you not to betray him. But he's sounding like an over-jealous boyfriend. Your best friend has been there longer than your boyfriend has...if he can't accept the fact you have a good friend that's also a guy, your boyfriend isn't worth keeping. If you don't want to get rid of either one, talk to your boyfriend and try to convince him why he's being irrational. I hope everything goes well. Peace xoxo
My best friend won't tell me who she likes;; what do I do??
-throw a party -watch tv -eat breakfaast -yahooooooooooooooooooooo -hang out -eat icecream -dream about chairs -have computer chats.......she'll tell you -truth or dare with yourself -SMILE!!!!! hope that these helped ya'll out!!!!