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My Best Friends Are Liars

My best friend is such a liar...?

k well i have a best friend and we hang out every day except for when we are sick. So she called me and said that she was sick. So i just thought well that is ok and well i called her cell phone. And her bro. answered it and i thought she was like asleep or somthing. so i asked is she asleep and he said no y would you think that? And i said well she is sick and hes like no whes hanging out with Reagan. (she is a girl i hate) and so he's like ya she said that you guys got in a fight i am like no. And he said that is what she told us and it made me feel so bad like i was not her friend anymore. It really hurt my feelings and we were gonna go to the movies sat. k well cya.

My "Best Friend" Is A Liar?

She always tells me that she misses me, but whenever we make plans to hang out, at the last minute she always tells me that she can’t because of something else. I am a guy but I know that has nothing to do with it, because she’s always asking other guys to hang out… and I know she trusts me, but I just feel that she doesn’t even care about me.

She has lied to me a lot. She said I was the only one who remembered her birthday, then I saw a lot of people telling her happy birthday (on her bday of course)? She says I’m the most important person in her life, but I’ve seen her telling that to several other people? She says that she ‘needs’ me in her life, but she always ignores me unless I get her attention somehow? I’ve done a lot of things for her that basically make me look like I’m desperate for her, and I feel that’s the only reason she talks to me: to have someone that makes her feel wanted….
And I don’t really know what to tell her about it. If I blame her for a lie, she always says “I would never lie to you” or she starts to lie again by saying I never cared about her.

Thanks for any answers.

Best friends=liars??

well my best friend claims she got her hair cut reallyyy short but from the pictures on her myspace you can tell she tucked her hair in her shirt. why would she want to lie like that? i confronted her but now shes mad cuz she said she really did cut her hair. well im NOT seeing things ... its obivious! I mean i wouldnt lie about cutting my hair thats just so damn stupid. Its like a little kid fight. shes gettin mad over something stupid. omg. i need help!!

My best friend is a liar?

So after my last question i still dont feel like i have an answer.
my best friend went for my ex, someone she knew i still liked (we stopped seeing each other on good terms), but also promised me she would never go for, because she was my friend and valued me over him. But somehow they managed to get close enough to then text message me saying they'd been together behind my back, I don't understand why they did this, why they had to lie and stab me in the back, or why she broke a promise she made me. And at the same time was telling this guy's best mate she was in love with him.

Since this she promised me she would never talk to him again in order to re-gain my trust. But today i find that instead of this, she has still been 'dirty texting' him and obviously lying to me again!

Now i don't know what to do. I cant even talk to her without feeling like everything she says is a lie and i don't know if i can forgive her, plus she's arguing back and its making me even angrier!!!

What should i do?

My friend is a liar, but still my friend?

My friend consistently lies to our mutual friends in an after school team (which I'm not on) that he can't attend, saying he has just gotten a text from his job (which he does not have). Most of these times, he will then come hang out with me. I like him and don't want to ruin his friendship with my friends in choir, but I hate to see them being lied to at the same time. What can I do?

This good friend/liar?

She is one of my best friends(mostly because she's funny.) but she keeps lying! Once her mother even called me and questioned why I took her money etc etc but all the events never happened! And she doesn't only do it to me but some other friends! And at the beginning of this year she made a huge mess out of ONE DOLLAR and said that it was one of the most popular girl's fault( because the girl was in charge of collecting the dollar to raise funds) and totally made a huge lie! My friends mother called the popular girl and scolded her like SH** :o can someone tell me how to deal with this kind of person/people?

My best friend is a huge liar?

My best friend thinks shes ugly, and always says im gorgeous, and vice versa. I can tell we sometimes have a little competition with guys. She gets more a few more than me, but they all use for one thing and you can guess what that is. My recent ex boyfriend who im on and off with, she ALWAYS talks to. She knew him before and I guess thats fine, and tells me he always tried to use her, but accually cares about me. So I guess she acts happy for me most of the time and helps me out. But theres guys that I always spot and want to talk to. And she talks to them on facebook, but she says "They talked to me first!!" and before I used to be like "Awwwwww your so lucky im really jealous." but then I had to go on her facebook one time...and she talked to them first every single time. She seemed like a stalker almost to them. And there was this one guy, I was in complete love with, and I would do anything for him, and I still would. I just slowly forgot about him but when people bring him up it still has an effect. The problem is...she told me he talked to her on facebook saying he wants to hang out with her, and called her sexy, ect. This really hurt me and she watched me cry for a few days about how hurt I was...but I figured out...that never happend, she ALWAYS talks to him and he never does. She asked him to hangout, but he never really agreed. Why would my friend do this to me? And where like sisters, very close.

Help! My friend's a liar!?

I have a friend, Emily. Chris, Emily, and Mary ared my best friends. When Emily was at my house she told me that Chris and Mary were trying to get her to say bad stuff about me. She said we all try to get closer to the others by backstabbing the rest. She also lied about alot things that could compromise Chris's reputation. I asked Chris and Mary if they really said those things and they were pissed b/c they had never said anything like that. Chris was also pissed that Emily said those particular rep-wrecking things. But today, Chris 3 wayed with me and Emily and he told me the only reason Emily lied was because she was going to kill herself and didn't want us to like her so it wouldn't hurt as much. Chris just happened to "forget" about the other lies Emily told about him. I want to believe her story but to be honest I have a feeling it's total crap and she's got to earn my trust back. should i call them back and say how i really feel so i'm not a liar just like emily???

Everybody in life is going to hurt you, you have to decide what's worth keeping, the pain or the person!Give her another chance. Make sure you talk to her about this and also make sure she has realised her mistake. If she does it again, it's time to let her go.

thanks for a2aAs rightly said friendship is all about trust. But sometimes situations make you lie or do something which you are not supposed to do.I have many time lied to my bestfriend, but i clarified everything as soon as possible, being my best friend he/she also understood it and forgot everything.We need to learn to forgive people. It’s the art desired by everyone, but done by some.If my freind would have lied me for the same reasons again and again. I would have confronted him and asked hik about the problem and would provide help to sort out the problem.But id my friend keeps on doing it consistently, i would have not considered him as a best friend and would have stopped talking with him.Becuase,first time trust broken is shame on them,But second time trust broken shame on me.Try being alone for somedays venture out, practice some new skills. It would help you to find yourself and make new friends.LOVE YOURSELFHOPE MY ANSWER HELPED.

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