Uh oh! I like my best friend's brother!! HELP!?
My best friend, Allison, has a brother, Kevin, and yesterday i was talking to her and she invited me to a chatroom (with her bro and a couple of other people) i've always thought he was cute, but never really talked to him. I mean, i saw him at her house sometimes, but i'm really shy with guys so i just pretended like he wasn't there (yea, yea i know :[ ) so anyways, during the chatroom it seemed like whenever i asked a question he would respond to me!! and we'd have these little mini convos together. and so after a little while he IMed me separately (hehehehe) and we started talking and Allison didn't really like it so she started telling me to stop talking to him hahahah and i didn't cause he was fun to talk to! afterwards Allison was like do you have a thing for my bro? cause i think he has one for you. and i was denying it but she kept telling me we should go out..and idk what to do! does he like me?! HELLPP!! :[ btw he's a year older than me and really shy w/ girls. thanks!
HELP! My best friend's uncle has a crush on me and wants to have sex with me! What should I do?
Ok so I am 19 years old and my best friend's uncle is 30 and he told my best friend that likes me and thinks I'm hot and that I'm exactly his type and that if I wasn't her best friend then he would wanna have sex with me. When she told me this I pretended to be grossed out because she was grossed out too, but I secretly am attracted to her uncle. I don't know what to do! The pros is that I think he's hot, he's nice, he's single, and he's funny. The cons is that he is way older, has a 6 year old kid, used to be a drug addict, and he's been to jail before. Also what happens if I do sleep with him and start to get stronger feelings and actually like him alot? That would be too weird for my best friend and I would be my best friend's aunt! When I asked one of my other friend's what to do she said I should have sex with him but secretly and not tell my best friend. So what should I do?? p.s I have had sex many times before so this isnt a situation where I would lose my virginity to him.
Im IN LOVE with my SAME SEX BEST FRIEND. HELP!?
Have you discussed this with your friend, it sounds like she may have the same feelings. If you are attracted to both boys & girls you may be bi, but that is nothing to be ashamed of. You should be with someone who makes you happy not who society deems you should be with.
My best friend is going through a break up. How do I help her through it?
Here are 5 stages of grief that people experience post any tragedy (Not necessarily all of them, and not in any particular order):DenialAngerBargainDepressionAcceptanceIt is normal for your friend to grieve over the cessation of her romantic relationship. I ain't no expert, but here's what I did last month when my best friend went through the emotional turnmoil of separation from her beloved.Here is what you should Do :Be near. I invited her over to my place for the weekend. Longing and solitude is a bad combination.Let her begin the talk. You don't know what stage of grief she is in currently so please don't compel her to “Talk about it”. That said, let her know you're near when she does feel like talking.Provide water and tissue box. Even when you might not feel like providing a crying shoulder, it is basic courtesy to provide water and tissues to a crying person.Comfort her. My friend punched me really bad when I offered to please her like her guy would, so wear your guard. No you don't have to cuddle. Just order her favorite food and drinks. Most people don't have the power to say NO to scrumptious Biriyani.Don't fake empathy. If a friend who's been single all her life says “I know how it feels terrible” the person would have no choice but to roll their eyes in despise. Be genuine, at all times.Watch movies. I did so becuase I could no longer hear her sob. Play some animated, light-hearted flick. Restrict watching romantic films, you know why.Here is what you should NOT DO:Don't hover around. A person going through a heartback needs alone time to contemplate the changes ahead. Don't force your company.Don't bring up the “guy” in conversation. If she initiates the talk, do be the good friend that you are and lend an ear.Don't say negative things about her ex to comfort her. Eliminate these phrases:“I always knew he was a Casanova”“It's better that it ended sooner”“We all knew that this day would come”The thing is she already knows all shortcomings of her ex way better than you ever will and still chose to love him irrevocably. Now to be polite, she might agree with you, but it would make her sad deep down.4. Don't stop her from stalking his profiles 53rd time, even though she says it the last. People always do what they want to do. You can't stop anyone.Go on, help your friend. Be the friend you'd like to be by your side during tough times.Source :Stage of Grief Models: Kubler-RossBunch of friends with tragic life experiences.
Help?!? my best friend is really depressed?!?!?
maybe you should do something fun with her, like have a sleepover and watch movies, or something. it might help her realize she doesnt need a guy to have fun.
Im sick of my best friend calling me a nerd, help!?
Okay, I am fifteen years old, and there are two things i love, that I am really passionate about: fashion and history. So to most people you would have no idea that i love history, but whenever i tell my best friend Im going to the reference library or something like that shell say things like "have fun" and start laughing or call me weird and stuff. and Im like i am REALLY sorry i do not care about skipping class, failing classes and smoking weed and drinking during school, but I have INTERESTS. so sue me. what should I do? im sick of being made fun of for something im interested in!
Love triangle help! Losing my best friend?
My best friend happens to be a guy, and I like his as more than just a friend, but he’s interested in another girl. I always tell him that I would rather be friends than nothing at all, but he seems to feel like that’s not very possible. The girl that he likes also happens to have a boyfriend of 2 years, and they split this past weekend because the boyfriend realized that this girl was never going to get over my friend. So my friend and this other girl have been spending a lot of time together lately, and he’s turning into a huge jerk toward me. I feel like every time they start talking and hanging out, he just ditches me. He says that’s not how it is, but that’s sure what it feels like. The one time I needed to talk to him, he told me to give him some space, and then I work with both my friend and the other girl, and both of them ignored me or yelled at me all day Tuesday, and he said it’s my fault because I made him mad, which just makes me even more upset. We tried talking to each other last night to solve our problems, but we didn’t really get anywhere. He thinks it’s basically all my fault and I just want him to realize that I’m not entirely to blame. I have been miserable because of the way I’ve been treated by both of them, and don’t know how to fix the situation. My friend also has always said he just likes me as a friend, but he would call me everyday, and we would hang out a lot. He also tried to kiss me once, but I wouldn’t let him, and if we’re watching movies he’ll cuddle with me a lot and we’ve fallen asleep next to each other before. I need help! Any advice for me in any of this?
How can I help my best friends to solve a problem by lessening the distance between them?
It’s not your job to help them. They, like everybody else, has got to want to help themselves.Consider also that, it’s not them who want or even think they need help. Perhaps that if you solve said problem that it will make you feel better.And then it never really was their issue to begin with.Not your circus, not your monkies.
How can a guy help his best friend (girl) when she is on her period?
Holla buddy,Never had i ever came across a friend who'd do such thing for me but I'd definitely like to do some of the followings when i am going through my monthly cramps. Periods are nature's call and a girl needs utmost care and love at this period of time.Firstly, know that she's going through a lot of pain. knowing that you can't do anything about it listen to her carefully but don't question her about you never heard of pain in menstrual cycle.In this time of period, girls usually get mood swings. Girls love it when a boy cares them gently.Sudden cravings for food is quite normal. So if you get midnight calls to get her a chocolate ice-cream, you better do something about it.Surprise plans for movies with food will always be a mood changer for a girl. But note that sitting in the same position might get irritating for her.Food and sleep are always a girl's first love. Ice-cream, chocolates pizza's will always be a thumbs up.Besides all these, Handling her with care and utmost love is the key.^.^In case, this is my first answer to you,Hello there,It's Nidhi ware.I hope i helped. ^_^