My same sex best friend has a crush on me?
I don't know what to do! I am straight, sort of asexual since I'm not interested in anyone right now, but my best friend of 5 years is bisexual, and has recently admitted that she likes me. I could sort of guess before because she made it really visible. She sincerely creeps me out, like she stayed over last weekend and she kept flirting with me, and trying to cuddle me at night even though she knows fully well that I'm not interested. I also find her staring at me all the time obviously checking me out and it makes me want to throw up. But she's been my friend for so long and I don't want to lose her, yet I don't want to be around her because she's always trying to make moves on me. Both of our birthdays are coming up (they're a month apart) and I know she wants to spend them together. But I honestly don't want to be near her at the moment...should I make up some excuse or just deal with them? I feel so bad because I'd hurt her feelings but I am just stuck on what to do. Sorry this is so long...
My friend has a crush on my best friend, but that best friend has a crush on me. What do I do?
If she’s your best friend, then you SHOULD NOT lie to her and keep secrects from her. This is how friendships end. If you have a crush on your guy friend and he likes you back, tell your best friend. Tell her you are sorry. She may be mad at you for a while, but trust me, this is much better than telling lies to her face. Don’t worry she’ll forgive you, if she doesn’t then you deserve a better friend.hope this helps :)
I have a crush on my friend's best friend. What should I do?
Enjoy it!Having a crush is a beautiful feeling, enjoy the phase and don't overthink about it. There is no harm in it. In fact, having a hopeless crush on someone is the most freeing and exciting feeling in world, as long as it is harmless. Do not overthink and give yourself a hard time by analysing a simple and natural feeling of a healthy heart and mind.If you expect something in return, then a problem might arise. So just come clean to your friend and tell him/her about how you feel. Be honest, a “friend” will understand.Who knows, something beautiful might be in store in the future!
What do I do when my best friend has a crush on me and I like her, but don't want to ruin the friendship?
Don’t tell her! I have seen it before. This one “couple” they were the best of friends and very close! This is a funny story only because one was so “butch” shaved head, working out, very masculine acting and everyone knew she was a lesbian who was also the “dom” at that! Then this beautiful, seductive, feminine woman was her best friend. Well guess what happened? The obvious. She fell in love with the beauty and she finally could not keep it in! She told the lady. They were together and inseparable! The next day! We see one walking alone and the other one looking on miserably. That is so sad…because that is how their friendship ended. It seemed unfair to the lesbian one because it was so obvious to everyone else that she was going to fall in love with her. It ended this way and the beautiful straight lady said “ I can’t believe she likes me!” as if in shock. You can tell her if you don’t care about the outcome. Hopefully she secretly likes you too!
My best friend said she has a crush on me and admitted to being bisexual, how am I supposed to react?
You’re supposed to react with dignity and compassion, much the same as you should react to anyone (friend, family or stranger) who tells you something personal.Dignity means respecting your own feelings. It’s OK to take a day or two to decide what your feelings are. Then you tell your best friend what you’re feeling, with honesty: if you like her too, tell her that, and go for it.Or else, if you don’t feel the same, let her down gently. This is where compassion comes in. Respect her for being honest and for trusting you enough to tell you something deeply personal. Also respect her courage, because coming out as anything other than straight takes some bravery. And try to avoid judging her, which she will certainly think you are doing if you use words like “admitted”. That word is usually used when people confess to a crime or otherwise say they’ve done something wrong, but there is nothing wrong with being bisexual.
My best friend's brother has a crush on me?
My best friend and I have been friends since 2005 and I think just about the whole time,her brother had a thing for me because of the way he acts around me and people telling me.He even got other people to tell me he likes me,but honestly,I don't feel the same.He's a nice guy,but I just don't feel comfortable around him because it's like he's all in my space,he barely talks to me or looks me in the face,and also,it would feel weird since he's my best friend's brother.I did try to give it some thought,but I just don't feel anything when I'm around him and it doesn't help out much that my best friend and her mom tries to subtly make me feel bad by saying,"No girl likes him,etc."My cousin really likes him,but he won't talk to her either.I really wish that they can back off and stop pressuring me.What do you think?
Does my best friend have a crush on me as well, and if so, should I do something about it?
Don’t date your best friend please I lost my bestfriendHe was sweet caring and protective I originally liked his personality as a friend but spending more time together ( 3 years) and the flirty jokes they were harmless until we both caught feelings we weren’t supposed to.I ended up loosing himI miss him but now things are akward between us I WHENT offline for a while (like a month) came back he moved on? I mean he got a new girlfriend. I was kinda hurt ? But I should have seen it comingThat moment I understood why they say dating your bestfriend is tricky and messySure they know you inside and out but that can also be a problem like if your not serious or messing around they will know… but it can always go the other way too my advice is no don’t date your bestfriend but it can take some pressure off if you do date your bestfriendThey know all your likes dislikes. When your uncomfortable, happy , sad, mad their not oblivious or new to your “moods” or “ out of nowhere burst of energy” it’s been 5 months since I talked to him……And we have different lives now, you can say we “moved on” take it from someone who didn’t listen to those who said dating your is…well… complicated.
My best guy friend has a crush on me; but I have a boyfriend?
I'm with my boyfriend at the moment, but just recently, my bestest guy friend confessed that he had a crush on me. :O My besterest guy friend before this one also got a crush on me, that's why I stopped talking to him as much and all, because my boyfriend got pretty darn upset over it! :OO What should I do? I don't want to lose my awesome guy friends, but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either. If I ignore his crush for me, I feel like I'm kinda disregarding his feelings and like I'm cutting him off. I don't know, it's hard to explain.
HELP! My best friend's uncle has a crush on me and wants to have sex with me! What should I do?
Ok so I am 19 years old and my best friend's uncle is 30 and he told my best friend that likes me and thinks I'm hot and that I'm exactly his type and that if I wasn't her best friend then he would wanna have sex with me. When she told me this I pretended to be grossed out because she was grossed out too, but I secretly am attracted to her uncle. I don't know what to do! The pros is that I think he's hot, he's nice, he's single, and he's funny. The cons is that he is way older, has a 6 year old kid, used to be a drug addict, and he's been to jail before. Also what happens if I do sleep with him and start to get stronger feelings and actually like him alot? That would be too weird for my best friend and I would be my best friend's aunt! When I asked one of my other friend's what to do she said I should have sex with him but secretly and not tell my best friend. So what should I do?? p.s I have had sex many times before so this isnt a situation where I would lose my virginity to him.