Is it ok for my boyfriend to touch me whenever he wants to? Sometimes he’ll just lift up my shirt and touch my breasts at home. I’ve told him not to, but he still does. Am I overreacting?
Girl. I feel you, I FEEL YOU. I was seriously shocked I hadn't written this question myself and had to double check. There is nothing worse than being all relaxed on the couch after a hard day at work, ready to get your Pinterest on, when the claw comes out of nowhere to “fiddle the dials.” Or you are dozing so peacfully and suddenly your man pulls a reacharound and decide to pretend your boobs are dough that needs to be kneaded. I hate it, so much.Okay here's the thing. Most hetero guys love all of our soft bouncy bits. They want to touch, bounce, and play with them. Which is cool, except for the fact that they're attached to our body. Same issue with my boyfriend. He didn't get that it actually HURT when he did some of those things, or that it was extremely fucking annoying to have my nipples played with when I'm trying to do something else.After multiple conversations he still wasn't getting the picture. He thought I was over reactin. Society and porn had been telling him for years that girls boobs are to be played with, at that women thrust their bosoms forward in orgasmic exctasy when properly stimulate. What are my humdrum complaints going to do against THAT picture?So what's a girl to do?Balls.These soft squishy penduluma were put on this eath to protect women from unwanted nipple pinches everywhere. They are vulnerable. They are weak. And in today's sweatpant society they are oh so exposed.Flip them. Not hard, you aren’t aiming for pain, but the extremely uncomfortable experience of having a sensitive area constanl stimulated in a not so pleasant way. Hook a finger under them and make a quick “"come hither” motion with your finger. The balls will flip upwards and then bounce back down, not a painful feeling, but not a great one either.Shocked the heck out of my boyfriend.He demanded to know why I had started doing this. I spouted back everything he had said about playing with my boobs.“What? It's fun!”“Come on it doesn't hurt.”“We’re dating! You're my man!”“They're just so bouncy!”Kept it up for a few days. Guess what my boyfriend doesn't do anymore?That tip aside, if he REALLY continues to not respect your bundaries you need to have a serious talk with him about how uncomfortable it makes you feel. If he doesn't care, well then you know he doesn't care that you are upset and uncomfortable and what's the point in being with a man like that?
Why Did My Body React This Way When a Guy Friend Touched My Lower Back? So Embarrassed 10pts?
So today was my friends birthday party. I was helping to pour drinks for the guests, our mutual friends, when one of them asked me for a can coke. I went to get one for them when my friend Kevin beat me to the canned drinks and handed me one to give to the guest. I said thanks to Kevin and he said 'you're welcome' while kind of running his hand gently on my lower back. I was so startled by the touch that my back arched up instinctively, pushing out my chest. He laughed and I was really embarrassed. He jokingly made fun of me but I'm too embarrassed to remember what he said. Only that I couldn't look him in the eyes anymore and was just staring at my feet. What does it mean when a guy touches you there and laughs/jokes about it? And why did my body respond this way? p.s. I'm 24, with social anxiety, never dated before or even been kissed. He's 22/23.
Why does my private part feel tingly when someone touches a certain spot on anypart of my body?
if its a "good tingle" its because you like him. its like butterfly's... but down below. its like an excited feeling as being "turned on" by him. that's good. but if its a bad tingle, maybe you feel frightened or nervous. im only assuming you like him and he makes you happy. so its going to be excitement/turned on :)
Why do girls get turned on when a guy squeezes her breasts and/or touches between her legs?
because those are the spots on the body that are sensitive on a female... if you want to get her turned on more, make out with her while doing that and kiss on her neck too and kiss on her chest and if she lets you while your hands are between her legs kiss on her breasts too