My best friend wants me to date her brother?
My best friend wants me to date her brother. I like him, I think he likes me but he's one of those "never had a girlfriend because he doesnt like to chase girls but not a party guy". He's an amazing guy, smart, funny, one of those guys that knows all the useless info but is good to have on your team on a board game lol... anyway, its been almost 2 years since i've liked him but the truth came out this past summer when I found out my best friend wants me to date him... I dont want to be the chaser but he wont chase what do I do? Should I tell him how I feel or wait it out?
My friend wants me to date her brother, should I?
My best friend wants me to date her brother but I just broke up with my boyfriend. I think it is too soon even though I never really cared for my ex towards the end, so technically, we were over about two months ago. I like her brother, he is a very sweet and friendly guy. It is weird though. He is a lot older than me. About 9 years older. I swore that I would never date a guy this old but I do actually like him a lot. I am going to hang out with him this Saturday and see what happens. If this is wrong, please tell me before I make a mistake.
Is it okay to date my brother's best friend?
I would ask your brother first. Why?He knows this person on a more personal level like what type of guy he is and is he the type that will treat you right.If he does give you his approval, I recommend not rushing into a relationship with him but courting him and seeing his values.Here's why.Your brother can't know the core of him. Think about it this way: some of your friends know more about you than your family.But here's a quick question: Why are you considering dating him?This could potentially destroy your relationship with your brother or his relationship with his best friend.Example: He might see some true flaws in his character. But it might be too late because your already in love. He might stop talking to you because you will become the guys new best friend.These are things to take in consideration.Hope this helps.
My bestfriend doesn't want me to date her brother?
My best friend confronted me today and wants me to stay away from her brother because she feels that I may hurt him due to my past history. Yes, I have cheated on a couple of my boyfriends but those relationships weren't meant to be. She went on to say that I am sick because one guy never seems to satisfy me. (Which isn't true) Her brother and I aren't really dating we just enjoy each others company and we have alot in common. Yes, I do have crush on the guy, but at the same time I don't want to lose my best friend who has stood by me through thick and thin. I know I have somethings that are beyond wrong, but how can I show her that I have changed? She has forgiven me for the things I have done to her in the past. Should I respect her feelings and stay away from her brother? I know I have hurt her a few times by having a baby by her boyfriend, but that was an emotional time for me since my grandmother and mother died. No excuse I know. But please help. What should I do?
My best friend is dating my brother?
So it all started in October when I knew they liked each other but I never thought it would get this serious. One night she invited herself to sleep over at my house. She kept asking me if we could go to bed because she was "tired." When I fell asleep she went into my brothers room and watched a movie, from what I heard they did, and she fell asleep in his room. I woke up in the morning and she was gone. I saw her walk across the hallway and knew she was in my brother's room. She checked up on me about 3 or 4 times and kept going back to his room. I grabbed my stuff and left. She kept lying about how she didn't use me but she finally admitted it. They are now dating and it really bothers me. She never asked for my permission or anything and she knows it bothers me. She is really the only one making an effort in mine and her friendship cuz I don't really care anymore ever since they started dating. Since then our friendship has slowly gone downhill. Should I be mad still? What should I do? We've already talked over this with each other but it still bothers me.
Can I date my friend's brother?
okay so for two years now I've sort of liked one of my best friends older brother. he's pretty attractive, is a vegetarian (like me), has a great sense of humour, is really sweet and the list goes on! I'm now 15 and a half and he's about 1 and a half years older than me. we have heaps in common and I consider him one of my really good friends. I see him at my friend's house about twice a week and every time I just feel really nervous around him because I know that deep down I really like him. we sometimes make flirty jokes between each other and I tell my other friends I like him and they agree that they'd ere him if given the chance but I like him more than that! like I really do want to date him but I'm not sure what to do! if I did end up dating him I'm sure my friend wouldn't be too happy but I don't think it'd be a surprise to her. what should I do? keep secretly liking this guy or do something or just give up? by the way, the same friend always makes jokes about how she would date my brother so wouldn't it be sort of fair if I liked her brother? and he doesn't have a girlfriend right now, in case you were wondering and if you think I should go for it, how do I tell my friend and her brother without it sounding really weird and immature?
What do I do if I like my brother’s best friend?
You’re probably a teen, and worried about any possible repercussions this could cause.In my mind as I stand right now, I see no problem if a friend of mine decided to date my sister; heck, I’d be glad, if it was someone I knew, I’d be even more relieved because it’s a familiar face and not a guy that came out of nowhere. It might have been different when I was just a teen, but we tend to grow out of many things we believe when we think we know a lot about how the world works.Now, it can (and might) get awkward; your brother will get to spend less time with his friend because his friend will be with you, and I assure you he won’t want to think his friend is kissing (or going even further with) his sister. You won’t get between them, though, and if they claim you are, they’re lying (it would be their fault).If things go right, you’ll be glad you did date the guy, and your brother will be happy for the both of you. If not, it can be a fun story to remember in family gatherings in the future, like “… hey, remember when I dated your friend? God, what did I see in that guy?”. Hope things go well either way for ya.
My best friend is dating my brother!?
I am in the same position as you are right now... except my brother and best friend have been dating for the past 9 months and it's been extremely tough on me! Whatever you do, don't take sides, this is between your friend and brother and your parents. You don't want to lose your friend over something that doesn't involve you directly. And the same thing has happened with my friend and I, we aren't nearly as close as we used to be. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but if your friend won't listen to how you feel, maybe it's time you make a new friend (and don't introduce her to your brother! lol). My friend and I haven't hung out nearly as much as we used to, but that has given me more time to get closer with my other friends. Maybe you can do the same.
My best friend started dating my brother. He wants to break up, and now she doesn't want to be friends with me. Why?
She may just be a weirdo, and never repair the damage with you or your mom, and frankly your brother. But that's probably unlikely.She probably did fall in love with your brother, all of what your expirencing are simply different phases of her grieving. It's going to be up to YOU to save the friendship.The first couple times people become heart broken, they often don't have the slightest clue how to appropriately express all the built up emotion they have. And often times they can become "clinically depressed" which is perfectly ok if it is a short term thing. Fairly normal part of grieving serious loss, and what might not seem big to you, could have been huge to her. If she is behaving like a "depressed person" her emotions will swing and away from day to day like crazy, from professing her love about your brother, to saying she's glad it didn't work out and she hates him, and maybe you. Through all of this, if you simply wait it out and provide occasional support, and do not reciprocate the outward anger and verbal abuse, you will save the friendship, and when she recovers she will probably feel closer to you than ever. Anytime she gets mad, try your hardest to de-escalate the situation and just say something like "I'm so sorry this had to happen to you, and it can't work out right now, you didn't deserve this." Hope she comes back to you. And DO NOT bad things about your brother, no matter how much you like this friend, she will never love you like a brother. Family first.Hope it works out.
Is it weird to date ur brothers best friend?
cuz his friend likes me a lot and asked him if he could date me and asked if i was single and asked if i dated and stuff like that and said i was hott and my brother didnt want to "play match maker" as he said so he told me about it but said its up to me to talk to him and make it happen so is it weird to date ur brothers best friend?