I hate my best friends boyfriend??
My best friend has a boyfriend and they've been together for a while, i liked him at first, but omg i cant stand him ne more. to me he's to controling and he gets mad so easily. and today he had a hat on and i was joking around and i hit his a hat a little bit and he pushed me up against the locker and now i have a bruise and my arm from him. and then yesterday he flips out on my cause i dont hand out with her ne more and when he's yelling at me she juss stands there. and when i ask her to keep secrets that i tell her she always tell him. and hes yelling at me saying why i blow her off and i told her that she always around him and i dont like him at all, and so she goes well i dont like your b/f either. so we really dont talk ne more, she's always with him so i dont call her like i used to, and we never spend the night at eachothers house ne more. so her relationship with her b/f is ruining our friendship and i dunno what to do ne more please help me.
My best friends boyfriend HATES me?
I have this best friend who I've known since I was 3 and we are like sisters. But her boyfriend HATES me and is really annoying me now because he says such horrible things to me. They have been going out for 4 months now and I tried to be nice to him at the start because he has no friends. We go along okay for a few days and they he said I have mental problems. I said that he was been a bit childish by saying that when I was trying to be nice to him. So we started arguing a lot. Then yesterday he said I was a mistake and I shouldn't have been born which really upset me. I said grow the f*** up you pathetic little freak. Then today he took my bag and threw it across the classroom so I got his bag and said go and get my bag or I'll empty all of his bag out. He punched me in the face so I threw his bag at him and walked off. What shall I do? Shall I tell my best friend what he's been doing?
What should I do? My guy best friend and boyfriend hate each other. They are always fighting and dragging me into the middle of their arguments. I love them both so much and I don't want to choose, but sometimes it feels like I have to.
The difficulty is that when you have a close male friend, he is (for want of a better phrase) occupying some of the emotional space that your boyfriend probably, on some level, expects to be his. Your boyfriend would have to be a really secure person to not feel threatened by that relationship.At the same time, the best friend may be going through the same thing. His “best friendness” may be diminished by your relationship with your boyfriend.You don’t necessarily have to choose one over the other, but you might need to better define for yourself what each one’s role is in your life.Keep in mind that people change, and relationships evolve. I think every person who gets to my age looks back over the decades and thinks, “Man, Bill And I we’re so tight, I would have sworn we’d always be best buds.” It just doesn’t work that way. Friendship is often dependent on circumstance. A person fills a need in your life, so you become close. Then the need goes away, or gets filled better by someone else, and then you’re exchanging Christmas cards and always talking about getting together.Or, it can turn a little nasty if the person who finds themselves bumped down on the totem pole has trouble accepting it.If you think boyfriend might be “the one”, then you need to make some changes, figure out how to keep your friend in your life, but out of your boyfriend’s. If he isn’t the one, then ask this: will best friend still be your best friend in 10, 20, 30 years? Will your friendship survive him finding a partner and getting married? Will his wife be okay with the two of you being “best friends”?So there you have it. A few hundred words that tells you nothing about what you should do. Typical lawyer….
My best friend and boyfriend hate each other?
they use to be friends and talk because of me, but now they hate each other. my best friends boyfriend, her friend, and my boyfriend were all talking bad about her, but she only thinks it's my boyfriend that was. i'm not gonna tell her that it wasn't because i can't keep getting in the middle of this. but she cusses me out for it and says "you're boyfriend it such a d*ck and a hypocrite i f*cking hate him" and it hurts me because i don't want the two people that i love you hate each other. it's really stressing me out how she literally cusses me out for it every time i see her. i just don't like being stuck in the middle of all this drama, what do i do?
My best friend and my boyfriend hate each other! What should I do?
My bff is realllyyy close to me! But she HATES my boyfriend! And my boyfriend is also like my best friend but he hates her! I don't know what to do! Me and my friend have been friends since first grade. But it feels like I've known my bf forever. What should i do?? I love them both sooo much! They're both telling me to pick one side! HELPP!!!
My best friend and boyfriend hate each other?
my best friend and boyfriend used to talk but now they hate each other. my boyfriend, and my best friends guy friend were talking crap about her, but only my boyfriends name came out of it. he doesn't like her either but he never says anything to me, but lately i've just been hearing from my friend that he's been talking a lot of crap about her. she always cusses me out about it and says "he's such a d*ck and a hypocrite i f*cking hate him" and it hurts because i don't like to know stuff like that. i just feel like my best friend is starting to hate me because of the stuff she thinks my boyfriend is saying. i don't want either of them out of my life i just want to stop hearing about how much she hates him, help?!
What should you do when you hate your best friend's boyfriend and he hates you?
Generally, try to be as cordial as possible. Don't try to be besties, be polite. Life is full of these situations. Learning to navigate them as best as possible is the valuable skill.Accept that you can agree to disagree.If there are illegal activities involved with him, you should consider cutting contact with him, or not spending time with your friend when he's around. Your friend's company is not worth legal hassles or possibly your life. Realize that this may eventually work itself out, and it's altogether possible to find some noncontroversial middle ground.
My boyfriend and my best friend hate each other. What should I do?
My bf & bff totally hate each other. They liked each other at first, then I don't know what happened! They started hating each other a couple of months ago and it just got worse: I all ready had plans to go with my boyfriend, but my best freind came and asked if I would go to the library w/ her. It was only going to take an hour and my boyfriend wasn't going to be there for a little while yet...but he didn't like that idea. He got mad and as I was trying to explain to him on the phone, I think she got fed up with it and she said that she would just go. She called me and said that until I straighten things out w/ him getting mad & all, she was just going to stay away. I sent her an "I'm sorry" card, but I still haven't heard from her. I'm afraid that she hates me now. My boyfriend has tried to comfort me, but I am just worried. They both tell me that I shouldn't let the other push me around. I love them both and I don't want to lose either of them. They both mean a lot to me.
What do you do when your best friend’s boyfriend hates you? I am always nice to him, but he is not quiet about his hatred, so it's awkward and tense.
I don’t think people who answered here are right. First of all, everybody is saying that this guy is a ass. Well you can’t be compatable with everybody. Your friend may end up together for life with this guy.I came seeking the same answer, but the guy who wrote about open communication was parialy right.This is the second time I am in this situation. First time I was 26 when my best friend started dating this ass. The good thing was that we bouth tried to but it was just impossible. We drifted away. At the moment I am 32 and she is dating a new guy, we started hanging out again. That time I realised thar best friends just don’t last for ever. There are just grear people who will be part of specific period in your life.I drifted in the period of 6 years, and found a new “besty”. And guess what a year and a half ago she broke up with her boyfriend and found s new ond that hates me. Worse thing is that in the same period they started, I started working with him, so I have day to day reminder. This weekend we sad our goodbyes. I toled her that I do bolieve her boyfriend and I are polar oposites, and I try not to communicate with him, just not to have bad blood. She toled me that she saw that, but she wants a long tearm with him. So we decided to go on a last trip together.The reason why I will not ask him what is the big deal. Cause he didn’t Like me even before I said Hello. And Like my friend choosen him, I am choosing my job, and backing off.At on period I tryed to be nice to him, but I stoped. Couple of years ago I was hiking with this guy who is an artist (I am one too and am a big fan), I didn’t want to date him or anything just was trying to cool around him, just cause I am a super fan. I saw the same hatered. I openly asked him why and where is this comming. He toled me I was too much for him and he doesn’t understand my humor. So I backed off.So the thing is just say Goodbye, cause she Made her choice, and if thing turn, she will be back, but she might not. You just can be liked by everone. I guess I always put my friends first, and that is the difference.So good luck. I wish you will manadge to find a better solition then I did.