My bf doesnt care?
my bf and i have been together for 2 years and 7 months and we are in love. but the only thing is, he doesnt care about how i feel anymore and never makes me feel like im his special girl. its been this way for months! when i try to talk to him about him not caring, all he says is ''whatever'' and ''i dont know'' and he rolls his eyes and when he does say he cares (RARELY) he says it in a jerk way. i really love him and i want this to last we almost broke up one time and he just doesnt care! what happend? i love him and i would give ANYTHING to get the man that was, back. what do you think i should do?
Why did I dream that my ex raped me?
My ex boyfriend and I broke up last may, and my current boyfriend and I have been dating since last June. I never had sex with my ex, but he was emotionally abusive and never really cared for me. My current boyfriend is the only guy I've ever had sex with and he makes me happier than I've ever been, so why do I keep dreaming that my ex is raping me?
My boyfriend doesn't care about me anymore?
I've been with my boyfriend a year yesterday, and i love him so much and he 'said' he loved me. It's going to be so weird without him i feel like i can't go without him and i will still see him everyday if we split up and i'll feel like crying everytime i see him. We just got through a rough patch where i was going to dump him for saying alot of mean stuff about me behind my back. He was really upset and we ended up staying together. I skived a lesson at school yesterday and my boyfriend had a go at me saying i'm going to fail my Gcse's. I said "Your not my mother" and walked off. We completely blanked each other after that. Later on i went out with my friends and he was there. He was making comments at me like "you don't ever shut up" and that i was like a "jack russell, alot of bark but no bite" He blanked me all night so i did the same, and when he was messing around my friend said to me "Control your boyfriend" and because i'd been angry all night (mainly because i'd found out he's been saying MORE crap about me to everyone.) I shouted "He can do what the **** he wants" then there was silence. My boyfriend said bye to everyone but me when he left. He didn't hug me or anything. Next day he blanks me again, and alot of guys were all over me (they are quite often but they just mess around, and hes never been a jealous person.) and my friend said to my boyfriend "Corey's laying on Sophie are you going to help her?" And my boyfriend said "I'm past caring about Sophie, what she does from now on is none of my business." My friend told me and it really hurt me. He said he loved me and we've got so much history. The least he could do is talk to me, does he expect me to just sit and take whatever he says to me without retalliating? Also last week i got whiplash from hitting my head when i came off my bike, and he was making fun of me and saying you can only get whiplash from car crashes and that i was lying. Before he has also said to someone "your lucky, at least YOUR girlfriend is a good singer" he's said i have small boobs, accused me of cheating and says that he goes offline on msn to avoid me. Yeah, i've done stuff too, but not this bad. Why hasn't he dumped me yet? I know i have to finish him but i really dont want to :( Please help!
What should I do if my boyfriend doesn’t care about me?
When someone cares - really cares for you - they focus on what pleases you or makes you happy and they work at trying to not disappoint you or make you unhappy. They don’t take you for granted. They treasure your friendship, your companionship, your intellect, and culture. They want to share and learn new things with and from you. They feel that they are a better version of themselves with you - and they don’t want to lose that.So, if your boyfriend isn’t thoughtful, if he doesn’t do things for you for no reason at all v. just as an obligation on a holiday, if he’s not a good listener and isn’t observant - he may like you but I’m going out on a limb here and going to say he probably doesn’t really love you. He may not be capable of deep affection and respect so you have to ask yourself if you’re willing to live without the quality relationship you want and deserve or if you need to move on and find someone who can treat you as you’d like to be treated.I just went through this decision process. I didn’t just cut him off. I raised some issues with the man who swore up and down that I was wrong and my feelings were unwarranted. He claimed he really did love me, but just a few weeks later, he must have felt unmasked and he initiated the breakup. To be honest, I didn’t really mind the breakup as much as I did the disrespectful way he handled it. As if my feelings were inconsequential - like I was in his way and he had been doing me a favor by gracing me with is his presence.It takes a while to work through those issues - the anger over the disrespect. But with a bit of perspective, I realize I’m better off without him.