I had a dream I cheated on my bf?? !?
I had a dream that I was out with britney spears and we went to see a psychic. Then I met up with my friend John ( who i havnt seen much anymore) but I've slept with him before. Well in my dream I slept with him at his house. . and I dreamt that he wanted to take care of me and my child and he wanted me to leave me boyfriend. Then when I woke up I got a text from him @ 7am saying " can you talk" . Weird! What might this mean? should I leave my bf? is my friend John in trouble er sumthin??
I dump my cheating bf, am i doing the right thing?
I've lived with my ex for a year in NYC n we moved to SF cause i got a job there, after five months i had to go back to NYC cause of family reason n he have to stayed in SF cause he already got a job there, he couldn't moved back to NYC with me. But we decided to do ldr. After like a month, i went back to SF to celebrate his Bday and found out (i read his texts) that he's been involved with several other woman. I dump him but i couldn't let him go, i want to remind friends cause i still wanna cling to the hope that we could be together again someday. When I'm bout to go back home, i found out that he slept with someone the night when i was there. it hurts me so bad. i decided to cut him out of my life for good, i dont want to deal with his lies, deception, manipulation anymore. i suffer enough. I still miss him and think about him sometimes. it still hurts and make me sad everytime i think bout it. Am i doing the right thing here?
My boyfriend cheated...... Again.?
I thought things were good but since the mid of this month he started acting different and checking my phone while I slept or grab it when I'd leave it as if he wanted to catch me doing something. He never used to check it while I slept! So I was curious and checked his iTunes account and I seem he purchased an account badoo.com so I logged in his pswd was easy and I seem he recently started flirting and giving his number out to girls. I called Jim out kn it and he said no the site is mixing up dates babe I'm telling you I haven't been on that wtf idk someone's hacking me... BULLSHIT ASSHOLE . Than I asked a girl on there if he dud hit her up on the date I see in the messages she said yes and apologized to me for speaking to him. So I told him so how come she's saying different than he says if you don't want to believe me than **** it I don't want to argue. Thani asked another girl and she said the same thing so I told him Idc what's the use and I told him if your never going to change no matter what I change bout me your always going to find some way to cheat or flirt. And he responds with man Idc your ******* annoying and we haven't said a word to each other since. It hurts cause I do and put up with so much from him. I'm by his side when things get HARD I was there when he had nothing! And I know I complain like most girls but I never did anything for him to keep cheating. Idk what to do or say I just need advice please. I don't want to go to fam or friends cause it will be a huge thing and want to avoid that. I'm 20 have two daughters. He never let's me go out, he does but I can't. I clean cook etc I'm a good mom and clean person. He's 26
How did you react when you found out you were cheated on?
I just wanted to see what your guys' reactions were when you found out your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife cheated on you. What did you say? Did you yell, were you calm? Did you forgive them and get back with them? Did you throw/break things? Just wanted to see how people reacted to those bad news... If you didn't go through it-don't answer please-in theory we all think we would be pissed off and mad. I wanted to hear real stories Thanks! PS: I already asked this question, but I belive I posted it in the wrong section
I cheated on my boyfriend.. now hes been ignoring me what should i do?
Okay first of all i do love my boyfriend very much, so dont tell me its not true. We've been together over a year. And i did not intend on ever cheating on him but it happened and i feel like an idiot. The guy i cheated with i have absolutely no feelings for and i wasnt even really attracted to him.. i was drunk at the time and he started coming on to me and i didnt tell him no but i didnt say yes either... The reason i allowed it to go on is because i was going through a rough time, i was letting myself go i stopped caring about what happened to me because i feel nobody really cared about me. I just feel horrible and also i was just curious because im a virgin and have never done anything with a guy. Thats all it was, just curiosity, it was kinda like an experiment.. nothing more. I regret it but we didnt have sex though. And i told my boyfriend about everything the same day and hes been ignoring me for over a week. Im trying to give him space but its hard. I hate knowing hes feeling like this its tearing me apart inside.. i wish i could explain everything to him but he didnt give me time to.... what should i do.. im worried i might lose him. Please help me. And please no rude comments.. Thank you.
How long should I stay after I cheated on my boyfriend and we decided to work things out but it's been a year and he still reminds me daily or makes a smart remark about it daily? Is he truly wanting to work things out or is he just punishing me?
Let’s say he is sincere in wanting to work through it and get past it. Let’s say you are doing the same. It might not be possible. It isn’t possible for everyone.That’s in addition to the possibility that one or both of you are still there because you think you don’t have any better prospects. Or that one or both of you think that one or both of you deserve it.Or that he doesn’t even realize he’s doing that so on the surface he forgives you but inside he doesn’t trust you. forgiveness is releasing the anger, a good thing. Forgetting is exposing yourself to a repeat offense. He can never again be as open with you as he was before the cheating incident.A year is a good length of time. it’s the traditional length of mourning the death of a spouse. It’s the right time to stop trying to repair the damage and start looking for someone more compatible. Time for both of you.
What should I do since I just cheated on my boyfriend and I have no regrets but some thoughts?
This term “cheat/cheating” comes up a lot on Quora. I’m guessing it may mean different things to different people. To me, as a “senior” citizen, cheating means to me that someone had sex with another person while they were in a mutually committed relationship with someone. There is no “sort of cheated” or “almost cheated” when this happens. That is a very personal and serious encounter. This isn’t holding hands or flirting with someone.Some people can be very possessive, even when not in an “exclusive” relationship. They see someone having a cup of coffee with a co-worker, perhaps danced a dance with someone at a school function or went jogging with a member of the opposite sex. and they are worried about “cheating.” To me that is not cheating. But each couple needs to discuss what they each think cheating consists of and agree on what is acceptable and what is not. If each of the couple can’t agree on it, then perhaps they shouldn’t be dating and referring to each other as boy and girl friends.So, did your “cheating” violate common agreements between you two?
Wat do I do after I cheated on my boyfriend after being together for 13years?
I agree with Dixie. This is not a good position you have put yourself in.If he knows, consider this relationship over. Building 13 years of trust only to throw it away is crushing. It would never rebound.If he doesn't know, keep it that way. FIX whatever moronic, idiotic, stupid and selfish thoughts that caused you to cheat. If there is a problem with how you feel in the relationship, work on it.If you just wanted to feel that feeling of strong desire again, then you just got it out of your system. However, I'm willing to bet that the guilt you feel has lasted far longer than the fleeting moments of desire.If you want to break up with your man and explore this, then tell him you cheated. You would owe him that. He would still have hope of getting back together otherwise. This way, he can see you for what you are and have that clean break.If you want to stay together, he must never know, and you must never cheat again. Not only that, but you’d better be the one to initiate the conversation and stress how important changing the dynamic of the relationship is. Understand he will probably think everything is fine since he has no idea that you are a cheater. This will sound like it's coming out of left field.Bottom line, decide what you want out of your relationship and what is missing. Decide what you can live with and live without. Understand you cannot have everything. You give up some things in order to have others. That's the way of the world.You SHOULD feel guilt. You SHOULD feel trashy. Those feelings should not be ignored. You did a bad, stupid, untrustworthy thing. And I doubt it was as simple as ‘things just happened’.You're the woman. Therefore it's your choice who you sleep with. You came to the conclusion long before it happened that you were going to let it happen.And in a 13 year relationship, that's shameful, and you SHOULD be thinking less of yourself right now.So use those feelings as your motivation to fix your relationship and make the previous 13 years go back to meaning something.