My dad and brother hit me...help please...long...?
okay so this is wat happened... I wanted to try somking pot (I kno it was stupid and it's bad) but my best friend does it alot so I wanted to try it. The nite tht I tried it my friend had alot more on him after we wre finished and something was happenin at his house so he begged me to keep it at my house just for one nite so I gave in and said yes to help him out. later on my dad found it!! he is a great dad and never hit me before until now... He said is this yours and I said no and then he asked if I ever smoked and I said yes and I was so scared I backed up in the corner because he was yelling rele loud... he then grabbed me, took off his belt and whipped me on the back somewhere between 5 and 10 times, I wasn't countng I was so scared...wen my oldest brother found out (he's 30 but lives 2 houses away) and was so furious he pushed me down on the couch and proceded to do the same thing as my father... I started to cry and ran home and hid myself under my covers praying no one else would hit me... My second oldest brother (he's 27 lives close by) came in my room and I thought he was goin to hit me too but he saw my back and just yelled at me instead as silent tears pored down my face I was so scared... then my last brother busted through the door (23 and still lives at home) was also going to beat me when my oldest brother told him but ddnt cause my 27 year old brother (in the room) showed him my back. there was already bruises coming up and small cuts everywhere were the belts broke skin. Im not as scared of my brothers as I am my father because they all have hurt me before...not like this but they have beaten me up so it wasn't as scary and Im used to there beatings...but Im terrified of my father now. I know tht I shouldn't be because he never hit me before..he's never hit me when he was drunk and he can always control himself... Im not complaining about my punishment because I no wat I did was wrong (and im never doing it again) but whenever I look at him I get scared he is going to whip me again even tho I kno he won't...wat shud I do to not feel so afraid? Im afraid of doing anything wrong anymore even tho I kno he won't hit me for anything else other then this. But Im scared to look at him the wrong way and don't kno how to get over my fear. It's almost the same with my oldest brother but not as bad... Wat should I do? does anyone have advice for me?
My best friends dad hit on me what should I do?
I know this is a weird question but I’m not sure what to do. My best friend invited me to go to her uncles because her family was drinking and having fun. My best friends dad started texting me and was like come over it would be so much fun we all love you and how he loves me so much and just creepy things and what time will I be arriving and just all this stuff. I thought it was kind of strange but I brushed it off and figured he was just drunk. I arrive and start taking shots and dancing with her little cousins just having fun. Her dad kept waving me to come outside but I kept ignoring it and because I started getting pretty uncomfortable with that I thought that was creepy and weird. He then stands by me in the kitchen and grabbed my butt like hard. It was so weird and it took me by surprise even her little cousin saw and gave the strangest look. I followed my best friend to the bathroom and I told her what happened and she freaked out. I decided to leave because I was so incredibly creeped out. Now I feel like not even wanting to hangout with my best friend or see her because I’m just so incredibly creeped out and I don’t think it will be the same when her and I hang out and I just feel so awful. I’ve had experiences in the past with older guys sexually assaulting me so it brought back some really bad vibes and now I just don’t know what I should do. I’m 18 and this man is like 50. Should I continue to hangout with my best friend or should I wait a while?
My bestfriend left me without a warning, no goodbye. HELP PLEASE!!!!?
1. Calm down and breathe. 2. Just because it seems like God is watching you suffer doesn't mean he doesn't care. As far as praying, it's easy. Just talk to God as if he's a good friend of yours. You just have to put your faith in him that it will get better. If you talk to him he'll listen and he'll answer. He may not answer today or tomorrow or even next week, but he will some day. He'll make things work out for the best. He always does. He has a reason behind everything. 3. Is there anyway at all you can contact your friend via email, FB, etc? I'm sure she doesn't hate you. If there was just some way to tell her the complete truth I'm sure she'd understand. Suicide isn't an option. Everybody I'm pretty sure has at least thought of suicide once in their life, but you wanting to committ suicide is not good. You have a great life ahead of you. Just because it seems like everything is crashing around you does not mean it wont get better because everything gets better with time. 4. I wish you the best of luck and I'll be praying for you. If you need to talk email me at white_amber09@yahoo.com
Will my dog forgive my dad after hitting him (unacceptably too hard)?
Here's the thing. My dad, and my dog are super close. It sounds crazy, but my dog is my dad's best friend, and visa-versa. Well, today my parents were out at dinner, and I tried to take my dogs food from him (Big mistake, I understand,.), and he growled at me, so I smacked his butt. Well, he turns around and growls at me, showing his teeth, and to be honest, that scared the living hell out of me, as he's a biiig 5 year old german shepherd. I was so shaken, and afraid he would bite my arm off or something, I ran into my room to call my mom because it scared me so much. When my parents came home, my dad was so furious with our dog (My dad has a horrible temper..), and he took a broomstick, and hit him upside the head so hard.. my dad hit him, and it broke one of my dogs back-side teeth... my dad has never done this before, and I can't believe he did. This was unacceptable, and the dog didn't deserve this. My dad understands what he did was horrible, and he's been walking around saying "I hurt somebody I love. How could I do that?" Well, when both my dad and I went to see my do afterwards, the dog started slowly wagging his tail, and looking at my dad almost as if to say "I'm sorry." and he bent his head down, and crawled over to my dad.. we have another dog as well, and when we brought her in, they played almost as normal as they always do.. the only difference is, my dog has been a little less playful with my dad.. see, our other dog started barking and my dad yells "No!" and our german shepherd starts running from my dad almost.. I'm scared that he's not going to forgive my dad, and I love the relationship those two have. I don't want anything to happen to that. Please tell me he didn't ruin it? Will my dog forgive him? Please say he will.. ♥ Also, please PLEASE PLEASE don't tell me how wrong it was that my dad did this, or even that we shouldn't have our dog or whatever. We love that dog, he's our whole world, and I don't want anything to happen to him. My dad has NEVER done this before, and I can't believe he did.. he UNDERSTANDS how wrong it was, and I promise you it's something that will never happen again. Just help me solve what I'm trying to solve. Thank you. ♥
I hit my best friend by accident, please advice?
I'm kinda hysterical cause I hit my best friend with a softball by accident yesterday. It hit her right in the eye and before I even got to her she already had a freakishly giant bump on her eyebrow and her lower eyelid was turning into a big bump too. Her dad took her to doctor, she had a scan and everything and she's fine thanks god. But her eye is swollen shut, both her eyelids are like three times the size, just huge, and her eye is dark purple and blue. Does anyone has similar experience and can tell me how long she's gonna have this nasty blackeye?
How should I respond to my boyfriends son hitting on me?
My boyfriends son came on to me the other day wanting him and I to have sex. My mind could not believe this when he came out of the shower with everything exposed. He is married w kids and we have been friends for over 4yrs and he is my son's best friend and my boyfriends son. I was in shock. His little baby girl was a sleep and his wife was gone for a few it was just me there. I always drop by to check on them and visit w the babies. Nothing out of the ordinary. I explained to him we could not do this. I feel this might change something I saw them for a few minutes the other day and he could not even be around me. I haven't said any thing to no one but my boyfriend. He wasn't mad or anything he said just to take it as a complement. What should or how should I feel or say?
Feel like a wimp, my dad hit me! Advice?
I’m a 17 year old guy and me and my dad get along from the most part(he’s a single parent). But last night was a totally different story. I missed my curfew by an hour last night, which I know was wrong. But when I got in my dad just went off on me. He told me how I didn’t respect the rules of the house and was just yelling at me. I said okay dad and the usual sorry. He told me I’d have 2 weeks to think about it while I was grounded. As I walked away I said and I quote “this is total f***ing bull****!” I thought I only said it under my breath. My dad grabbed me by my arm so fast that I didn’t know what was happening and (I swear by reaction only) I swung my arm loose and my arm elbowed him in the face. His whole face changed and he slammed me hard against the wall and actually slapped me in the face! My dad is one of those people who yells a lot but not physical. I know I had my fists balled up and I was trying to look tougher than I felt. He just kept me pinned to the wall with just one hand on my chest (which shows how much stronger he is than me). He looked down at my fists and I opened them up and quickly said sorry and hitting him was an accident. He let me go at that point. He said if I ever got up the nerve to actually hit him then he, in his words, would “demolish” me. He changed my punishment to 3 weeks and told me to get my butt upstairs. I said “yes sir” and I ran up there. My younger brother who saw the whole thing, told me I wimped out. But he admitted that he would have been scared as crap to! I do feel like I was a wimp, I mean what else could I have done though (besides hitting him and probably getting beat within a inch of my life)? I’m not a disrespectful kid? Why was my dad treating me like that? And my dad is fine this morning. He made us breakfast like normal before he left for work. He said he’s not mad at me but I’m still grounded for 3 weeks.