Why am I getting a backache from a new mattress? Is it Normal?
I've never had a backache from a mattress before. My boyfriend and I have been moving from place to place and have been sleeping on a "blow-up" queen-size mattress for the past 6 mo. Well, I just got a new mattress and box spring on Sat. It is a Kingsdown "Chairman's Choice" in a King size with a soft pillowtop, so you sink into the bed. The past two mornings I've been waking up with really bad back pain in just my lower back above my buttocks. My shoulder hurts a little this morning, too. Now I notice when I lie down on the bed, after about 15 or 20 minutes I feel pressure in my hips and lower back above my buttocks that worsens if I lay on my side. The pain usually feels a tad bit better when I lay on the ultra firm twin mattress in the guest room (which I never use, it is just for when his mom comes to visit,) and I notice I don't have the same pressure on my hips/back. Funny thing is, I didn't feel this pressure when I laid down on the show room model! I called the furniture store today and the lady said that waking up with pain was "normal" for about a week, but their policy says I only have 3 days to exchange it! Should I continue trying it out, or should I exchange it for something firmer?
Why does my boyfriend last so long in bed?
Hello. You could always ask him to show you how he likes it to be done, that is always helpful, just in-case your not doing something that is really helpful to getting him there. Another reason could be that he was already excited that day and has already done the deed himself, that tends to make it last longer too. I think you should just ask him if you were anything wrong and if he could show you the things he likes, it can only make it better. :) Good Luck.
Last night my boyfriend said there is a strange dark line from my belly button down?
an increase in the hormones secreted by the placenta and ovaries and the melanocyte-stimulating hormone (which regulates skin pigmentation) causes dark areas of the body to become more pronounced in most pregnant women. Nipples, birthmarks, moles, or beauty marks may appear darker during pregnancy. A dark line also may appear down the middle of the belly. Called the linea nigra (black line), it runs from above the navel to the pubic area. Darkened areas usually fade soon after childbirth.
Should I let my 18-year-old daughter sleep over at her boyfriend's house?
First, she's reached the age of sexual majority in the US. It is her decision and not yours now.Second, is SHE Catholic? If not, then again, it's her decision and not yours.Third, in YOUR home, you can make any (legally permissible) rules you wish to make and enforce them. This includes disallowing sex between non-married people, period. She can remedy this by being elsewhere, which she soon will be anyway, at Uni.Fourth, you have no legal right to forbid her to do anything legal outside of the home, whether it's sex, playing the lottery or smoking tobacco.If you want her to abstain, clearly that ship sailed LONG ago and is presumed lost at sea. You cannot undo what has already transpired.You are at a crossroads: You may choose to hold onto your attachment to your practices and attempt all sorts of ways to manipulate her into adhering to them or you can let go of them, reducing your stress, and permit her to make her own decisions... and mistakes as needed. Be available to answer questions or soothe the hurts, but you had your 18 years chance. Time to let go and trust her to watch out for herself.Otherwise, you risk losing her altogether and creating a resentment that could take decades, if ever, to overcome.Look at the big picture, let go of your attachments and trust in all your prior years of effort. Every person has a different path through life and sometimes you just have to watch the bruises as they occur and stand ready with the arnica gel to soothe them.Good luck.
Guys&Women, i need your help. My boyfriend says im boring in bed.. advice?
My boyfriend and i have been have sex for awhile now, and he says that i don't " put out" enough , that im too " loose" he sometimes says that im boring in bed. None of this helps at all.. i find it hard to get an orgasim now, hes not one for making out anymore like he used to be when we were 5 months into our relationship.. foreplay was a big thing we did it and then had sex.. but now he just never does. we have sex for not even 5 minutes now he says " hes dead " and it makes me feel down that i just want to cry because i know it's got to be because of me, but i don't know what to do to help, we do a couple positions but still the same thing happens.. can someone PLEASE tell me what to doo.. a guy may help to answer this. Thanks!
I had sex several times with my boyfriend and now I am marrying with other guy. Will my husband ever got to know about my sex life That I had?
Many will advice you that you should tell about your past to your future husband. Here I differ from them. You will realise it later in your life that not everything needs to be discussed with your spouse. If you will do so you will be stressed a lot and believe me your husband may say that it is ok, past is past but whenever you two will be out of terms then these things will definitely haunt him. It is rightly said that ignorance is bliss. But I , by no means encouraging you to hide things from your husband. What I am trying to say is that somethings are better kept behind the curtains then to watch and bear the pain and stress. For eg whenever we are sick or hurted physically or mentally disturbed or emotionally hurt,We hide from our parents or dear ones so that they are not worried or stress. So their ignorance about your ill health is a bliss for them as they are not worried or stressed. What good will the description of your sexual history will do to your husband and married life. Nothing. Virginity can be lost in many ways. Don't creat fuss unnecessarily in your married life. You cannot classify everything in black and white. Talk to your would be and try to see what kind of person he is. Whatever you gonna tell him, he will believe what he will want to believe so please don't give air to his imagination unnecessarily.
Last Love test,,,What is your attitude towards your girlfriend/boyfriend?
* I'll provide the answers in half an hour,,,, 1. You are walking to your boyfriend/girlfriend's house. There are two roads to get there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but is very plain and boring. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way, but takes quite a while to reach your loved one's house. Which path do you choose? Short or long? 2. On the way, you see two rose bushes. One is full of white roses. One is full of red roses. You decide to pick 20 roses for your boyfriend/girlfriend. What color combination do you choose? (Any combination including all one color is fine.) 3. You finally get to your boyfriend/girlfriend's house. You ring the bell and the maid answers. You can ask the maid to please get your loved one, or you may go get them yourself. Which action do you take? Ask the maid or do it yourself? 4. Now, you go up to your girlfriend/boyfriends room. No one is there. You can leave the roses by the window sill, or on the bed. Where do you put the roses? Bed or window? 5. Later, its time for bed. You and your loved one go to sleep, in separate rooms. You wake up in the morning, and go to your boyfriend/girlfriend's room to check up on him/her. You enter the room: Is he/she awake or sleeping? 6. It's time to go home now, and you start to head back. You can take either road home now: The plain, boring one that gets you home fast; or the curvy, sight-filled road that you can just casually take your time with. Which road do you choose? Short or long?