My boyfriend called me a hoe?
I bought yoga pants the other day. I was so excited to want to work out I felt uplifted since lately I have gained weight due to a depression I have been going through. I told my boyfriend thinking he would be happy and give me positive feedback and instead he called me a hoe. He said I was a hoe and I'm for everybody just like the song "For Everybody". I became sad again and withdrew from him. I felt myself go back into the shell I tried hard to get out of. That night his whole mood changed and he tried cuddling with me. It's not the first time he's said things like that. When I leave him he constantly argues with me over text saying I'm a s l u t and that I will always need a man. I have never been with anyone else but him for 7 years. When I break up with him I do it to get in touch with myself and I can't because he's always coming around or I can't be away from him. Why does he call me a hoe? I have been with him through everything shouldn't he respect me more?
My boyfriend called me boring???
see, i don't think there is anything at all wrong with you. I think it is him. When you are in a good relationship the significant other should be happy with the person you are for the most part. Little changes like, "please don't chew with your mouth full," are fine but things like him thinking your boring, arent. You need to really think if this is who you want to be with. Your boyfriend should not make you feel bad about yourself more then he makes you feel good. You should not have to change. You need to talk to him and find out what he means. Does he means that maybe you never want to do anything or go out? if so, first, ask him to come to you and not talk to other people about it, and second, compromise. Plan dates and such. If he means boring as in you never talk about anything or are just an unintersting person, i would start to think about ending it bc obviously you culd get someone better who likes you for you.
Crying my boyfriend called me clingy?
Like he told me to stop clinging, i'm sitting here crying my eyes out. my heart hurts, i cant stop crying and my right arm is tingling pretty bad..it feels kind of numb, what do i do with all of this? btw..he told me that he was gonna start wearing the pants in our relationship.
My Boyfriend Called Me boring?
Me & my boyfriend being going together 4 about a year now & he told me that sometimes he be bored with me & it really hurt my feelings. Is there anything i can do to change it? He said he wanted the old me back cause i used 2 make him laugh. But i dont know how i even made him laugh. Plz help me!!!!
My boyfriend called me fat and said my stomach was big, and I can’t forget that he said this (as it’s my biggest insecurity) and makes jokes all the time about it. But says he accepts it. What do I do?
My boyfriend called me fat and said my stomach was big, and I can’t forget that he said this (as it’s my biggest insecurity) and makes jokes all the time about it. But says he accepts it. What do I do?Get a new boyfriend.The telling point here is Jokes about it all the time. Jokes about your weight are not jokes honey, that's the beginning of abuse.Here’s what a lot of people do not get or most likely do not want to get.Abusers use “I was just teasing. It was a joke. Don’t you have a sense of humor?” as a cover for what they very definitely know is verbal abuse. I have no idea whatsoever what your real size is. And I do not need to know. No, you do not need to have me or anyone else tell you to diet, to exercise or any thing else. You are smart enough to know for yourself what you need.He knows what you look like. If it bothered him, really bothered him, he’d be gone already. It’s that simple. Not worldshaking news. Guys know what they want. He wants you physically or he’d be on to the next girl. But what he wants, what he really, really wants, is someone to abuse. And your body insecurity gives him the wedge in to hurt you. I can not say this strongly enough. Get. Out. NOW. Before it gets a lot worse.
What to do when your boyfriend calls you boring and stupid?
Don't be mad at him or take offense to that. He's probably thinking.. "****, that wasn't really that funny" But he obviously knows you and loves you well enough that he thinks you wouldn't be offended by that. Theres no way he would mean it. Be like "Thats not funny :P" "You're boring and stupid ;)"
My boyfriend calls me 'clingy'. HELP!?
Generally I advise people to move on and look for someone else, because they've been dating for a short time (usually measured in days or months). Especially men, because too many are too clueless and brainwashed from romantic movies and media to have an ounce of self-control and self-respect. In your case, you've spent enough time with him to know if he is marriage material or not. The initial carnal desire has subsided enough to determine whether what remains is or isn't "love" (whatever its definition might be). Your guy could be in a lot of stress, he could have lost his physical desire for you, he could be maintaining the relationship because he hasn't found a replacing partner. It could be a number of reasons. You can't expect him to open up, and he isn't giving reasons to believe he'll open up soon. Besides, there's the crucial factor of distance, and it does take a toll on desire. I think you should seriously consider whether you will marry him or not. Cut all contact with him, do not initiate it. Don't hang around the phone or the computer waiting for him to contact you. Find other hobbies. You NEED to find an occupation that makes you DO things so you don't sit around idly thinking of him, it only makes it worse. Act as if you broke up with him. After a few weeks, he WILL contact you. It will be out of the blue, so don't be surprised about it. If he asks what you've been doing, just say you've been busy. He'll suspect you're sleeping around. Don't admit to it if he accuses you, because you really haven't. If HE keeps pushing it, just offer a breakup. After you break up with him, THEN you can start dating other men with no conscience problems.
My boyfriend called me clingy....what do i do now?
Please read carefully.....and i know its long... My bf and i started dating early in August and so we were fairly hanging out..im assuming cuz it was the summer time....but now that we're back in school, things seem like theyre going downhill. For one thing, he says hes busy a lot and that leaves us no time to hang (we havent actually hung out since the 22nd of August....n he NEVR made this many 'busy' excuses in the summer)....he told me hes guna b busy this week, likely next week AND the week after that....n hes not really showing any remorse like 'sorry babe id love to hang but im busy' he jus says point blank 'yea im busy this week andnext and the week aftr that'...is he hinting somethin to me wit all this im always busy talk? Another thing, now that we're in school, we have different schedules and i only see him twice a day, thats it...n wen i have time to b wit him during those two times, its for a short while, like five minutes....now me being who i am, i want to spend as much time wit him as possible because again..busy schedule..i see him twice a day.......but jus today wen i was talkin to him bout the fact that he talks to his best friend more than he talks to me, he kindly noted that im a little clingy...that immediately put me off...i dont like being clingy, i like to think i giv him enough space but apparently now that we're in school, wantin to b wit him evryday is a crime......but yea, we barely talk, he says hes always busy BUT he doesnt evr tell me wat hes busy with and im trying to make this work, i jus dont wanna get on his case n be naggy...i also feel its too early to rip him any new ones......but back to the clingy (and the othr matters mixed into this paragraph)....i jus need some guys opinions...dus this sound clingy or more like hes makin excuses cuz hes like not wantn a relationship anymore.....
My boyfriend calls me Fat. Should I leave him?
Simple questions but you will find answers in themWere you fat when you started relationship with him ?Why did your boyfriend get into a relationship with you? Is it because of your beauty or anything he deliberately said like your inner beauty or attitude?Why do you want to leave him? It's it just because he called you fat or is it because you feel like you are getting fat but the fact that he said that hurt you? Or is he abusing you calling fat all the time or he just want to breakup with you.?If you want to break your relationship because he called you fat then why did you get into the relationship at first? Sooner or later appearances change he might get bald later too that should not be the reason for you or him to end this relationship.Fat, slim is only perception, it is not what you hear that should make your decisions but what you or your bf thinks of you ?Look at yourself in the mirror, you are your best judge, are you really fat ? I don't think so, you are fat only when you can't walk by yourself, when you can't do anything except eating, when you are lazy and less caring ? If you think you are still fat then start becoming slim , after a month or so when you felt you are slim ask him again. You will find your answer.Ask your bf , is he joking.? If he saya he is then give him a hug , kiss him on cheek and ask him again whether you are fat if he says no again the be a bit affectionate this time kiss him on forehead and ask again if he says still no then he is really joking on you being fat . Love never allows a man to say lie. There is a slight chance he might start kissing you asking for apologies. If not he is seriously confused talk to him.finally take him out to a peaceful place say that you are ok with his comment and ask him what he is expecting from you boldly. If he really loves you then he will say sorry else he will say the truth if any.A plain old suggestion never follow suggestions from strangers not even me. Take suggestions,weigh them and then act appropriately. This is life not a medical diagnosis to follow blindly. Talk to your close friends, your gf and your parents. Talk to yourself in a peaceful place. You will get your notions right.Be happy.
What should I do if my boyfriend calls me ugly and fat?
One tip to all of you quora users--if you ask strangers if we think you should break up, in your heart, you're already seriously considering the possibility. To answer your question however, a relationship is a two way thing. Yes, both sides need to respect each other, and yes, both sides need to be honest. But it does not justify hurting each other. I think a common thing that answers say are: "Break up with him. He doesn't deserve you. If he loves you he wouldnt say that." If he loves you, he wouldnt say that in such blunt, hurtful terms. I don't know what you look like, and I'm sure you're a beautiful person, inside and out. Almost everyone is. However, this doesn't mean you can tell your boyfriend who criticizes you, "You don't deserve me. I deserve someone who worships me." Like I said, relationships are a two-way deal. No one is going to completely worship you, and if they do, then that's an unhealthy relationship. I do think that he could have been a LOT less hurtful. Unfortunately there are no good ways to tell your S.O. that you don't find a part of their appearance attractive. However, I believe that it's better for people who love you to tell you your flaws, instead of people who hate you shouting your flaws out to the world. Of course, I don't know if he loves you--that's something for you to decide.