My boyfriend doesnt want me to get anymore tattoos?
I dont know what to do about this.. He thinks that they are repulsive and he thinks bare skin is the sexiest i can possibly be. For me, i am a freak for tattoos i want them everywhere i have 3 as of right now.. Hip, and good and evil skulls on my feet (one on each top of foot) he doesnt seem to mind these because he said that was how he met me and that was how i looked when he met me, but my personality is i want to be covered in art, and he doesnt respect that decision, but i also want him to find me sexy, but i also want to follow my passion... Any advice on this?
My boyfriend doesn't want me to get a tattoo but I really want one?
He doesn't find them attractive, but I've wanted one ever since highschool (I'm 18 and he's 20). We've got a serious relationship going on and we're definitely in it for the long run so I do respect his opinion and he respects mine and we take that into consideration whenever making decisions. He seems really against it and I know his mother despises tattoos as well, so do you think it's worth it to push getting a tattoo right now? I guess I can live without one, but I really do want one and he knows that so with that, I'm looking for some more insight and perspective on this.
My boyfriend doesn't want me to get a tattoo.... should i get one anyways?
OKay... So i've been with my boyfriend a little over six months, and for my 18th birthday I'm gonna treat myself by getting a my first ink. My boyfriend has said numerous times not to get a tattoo, and if i do then he's gonna leave me, he thinks tattoos are slutty, and says he doesn't want to be with a slut. In my opinion tats are deff. not slutty as long as they are done tastefully. I have deeper feelings for him, than i have felt for anyone else, and so now I'm stuck... what should i do?
My boyfriend said he wants face tattoos in the future, which I don't like. What should I do?
Let him do it because he might be future Post Malone.I’m kidding of course. Boy, what a tough situation. I need to ask the glaring question, “does anyone REALLY want face tattoos?”I would tell him you really don’t like the idea and be open with him about your expectations of a man who you are choosing to be with. Maybe ask him to wait 6 months to a year before doing it. My guess is that face tattoos will seem a lot less attractive in that time frame. A lot can change in a year, maybe he is going through a rebellious phase and just needs to talk about it. If that doesn’t work, maybe have him go get a henna tattoo first and see how he likes having that on his face.Either way, if you want to be with him, try to be supportive without being a dictator of what he should and shouldn’t do. Face tattoos are kind of a big deal - really could limit career potential, social standing, etc. My guess is that if he agrees to wait, he will decide himself out of it.Or maybe he IS Post Malone and face tattoos are a great idea - just depends.Hope this helps!
My boyfriend doesn't like facial piercings or tattoos.?
My boyfriend/ the man I'm going to marry is the exact same way. I told him when we met (2 years ago) that I loved the idea of tattoos and piercings and had my nose done at the time. He loved my nose ring and got upset when I let it grow up. I finally talked him into taking me in December to get my first tattoo and he was kind of fine with it (it's a tiny peace sign on my foot) but then when I went to Chicago in March and got a second tattoo (on my wrist) he told me I would never be able to get a job, and that he would constantly remind me how ugly and stupid it was for me to get. I got it anyways, if he loves me...he'll get over it. And he actually has gotten used to it and kind of likes it now (although that doesn't stop him from bringing it up in fights) Well 3 days ago for my 20th birthday, I went and got my nose repierced and my lip pierced...came home and he freaked out about the lip ring, said I was ruining my face. The next day I went and got my foot tattoo touched up and found some other ideas and we got to talking about tattoos and I told him although I know he doesn't like it, I will probably end up with about 10 or more SMALL tattoos and he freaked out, said he didn't like it and I was ruining my body and it wasn't attractive and everything else. I honestly don't care, I know he loves me and will get over it and it's my body and something I've always wanted. I even told him if he didn't like it that much to go find someone who doesn't want tattoos and piercings...but he loves me and he'll put up with it. My best advice is just to tell him, it's your body, your decision and he'll have to get over it, because you don't want to spend the rest of your life wanting something and not being able to have it...life's too short for that. Like I tell my boyfriend I would rather be 80 years old and my tattoos all faded and wrinkly and be able to look at them and think "yeah i did that" then be 80 years old and look at my body and think "i wish i had done that" If your boyfriend loves you, he'll get over it or get used to it...don't live your life for anyone but you and do what you want in the time you have to do it =) Good Luck ♥
My boyfriend doesn't want me to gauge my ears?
I am 20 and my boyfriend is 24. I met my boyfriend when I was 4 months pregnant and he has been there for us for the past 2 years. He is a very sweet guy. He works full time to pay the bills and I go to college full time while working on Saturdays.. so I don't get paid that much. For the past 3 years, I have been considering small gauges and I finally had enough money to buy them without it putting a dent in my checking account.. so I bought a taper kit for $18. This size: http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/gi/Candi... This is me: http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-s... I have said before that I can't dye my hair, wear bright colored clothes, or go to parties. I want to be as mature as I can for my son but I don't judge people that do.. just my opinion. But I think it's also making me depressed. I used to be VERY into the music scene in my area and go to local band shows. I just don't think this mother look is doing it for me but I don't want to be drastic, you know? I think small gauges are fine because they will grow back if I decided to take them out so it's not permanent. My boyfriend thinks they are unattractive and gross, a waste of money (I spent $18 for a kit of tapers but he wants me to send them back), and I'm contradicting what I said. He would rather me dye my hair. He also spent $150 on a pair of earrings for me for Valentine's Day that I have worn every day since but he's mad because I wouldn't be able to wear them anymore.
Should I get a tattoo if my husband doesn't want me to?
I can tell you right now, the bulk of the answers to this question are going to be along the lines of, “your body, your choice”. I'm going to give you a different answer, one which you may not like…While it may sound shallow, physical attraction is a big part of the mate selection process, and most people have a “type”. If you were dating a guy who was in great shape, and he suddenly let himself go and gained 50 pounds after you got married, how would you feel? Or a guy who had long hair and a beard, and suddenly decided to shave it all off? Probably like a victim of false advertising.When you’re single, you can do whatever crazy stuff you want. When you get married, it’s at least heavily implied that you won't make any (intentional) radical changes to your appearance, without your partner’s consent. Ultimately, it's your choice. But I would suggest carefully considering this first: Tattoos are forever, marriage (these days) usually isn't. What’s more important to you - your husband’s adoration, or self adoration?
I can get a permanent tattoo of my boyfriend's name, but he is reluctant, so am I expecting too much from him?
So, I have my boyfriend's name tattooed on my ring finger, big deal to most.I am an Indian and tattoo is not something that is very common, forget about name tattoos. This in no way can be interpreted as, that I love him more than he does.And, no, I don't want him to get my name tattooed. I know he loves me and he doesn't need to get a tattoo to make it obvious.Dear OP, your boyfriend can have n number of reasons not wanting to get your name tattooed than loving you lesser ... for example disliking the concept of tattoo, fear of pain involved or finding it childish. But, agreeing to get one seeing you upset is a sign of love. Don't love him lesser because you think he loves you lesser.As a person bearing a name tattoo, I am qualified to say that there are plethora of ways to display love than just getting your love interest's name tattooed.Edit : I got married to him :)
Is it normal that my BF doesn’t want to share the meaning of his tattoos with me? We are together for 3 years.
“Is it normal that my BF doesn’t want to share the meaning of his tattoos with me? We are together for 3 years.”Protection.If his tattoos have a lot of religious symbolism or just weird stuff like eyes on the upper chest or crosses on his knees, like these:He’s just not allowed to talk about the meaning of his tattoos with outsiders, so just take notice of this:And realize that you’re shacking up with a Russian criminal.If his tattoos look like these:And he’s partial to small moustaches, he’s likely to wait for a true leader to stand up for his white rights.And if they’re anything like this:Then he’s probably a little bit embarrassed and needs some more time.