Boyfriend fingered me, it didn't feel good?
Inserting fingers (or anything) into your vagina when you're not turned on generally doesn't feel nice for any of us. Why don't you start off by rubbing your clitoris. That's where almost all the nerve endings are anyway. And when you get yourself really aroused, then and only then, and only if you feel like it, try inserting a finger. A minority of women can have orgasms from fingers, penises or toys inside her vagina; most of us need or prefer clitoral stimulation. It just works! Once you know what works for you, you can tell or show your boyfriend. Oh, and please don't fake orgasms... it's not a good idea because he'll think that he's doing it right, when he's really not. Once you start doing that, it's almost impossible to go back to telling him the truth. I know that it may be embarrassing to say 'Honey, this isn't doing all that much for me' when he is looking at you all expectingly and waiting for you to moan and shake, but faking it is lying. Don't do that anymore, 'kay?
I didn't bleed when my boyfriend fingered me ?
my hymen never broke! i've never had sex. my boyfriend used 2 fingers to go inside me and i didnt bleed. i used to do kickboxing a while back, could that have been a factor as to why i didnt bleed?
My boyfriend fingered me and it didn't feel all to good?
So my boyfriend recently fingered me, my first time getting fingered. It didn't really feel good. And it kind of hurt when he tried two fingers. I want to enjoy it but I just cant. He doesn't want us to have sex until we can work up to more fingers since 2 hurts me. If him fingering me doesn't feel good cause it hurts does that mean sex will be the same? I honestly don't want to work up to multiple fingers, I just want to go straight for it.
Bleeding after my boyfriend fingered me?
It was the second time since he fingered me (I'm a virgin) the first time it didn't bleed but the second time when he fingered me It was bleeding. It doesn't hurt at all but when I urine the blood comes out little Why do I bleed when he fingered me? and how long does it heal? is this going to be a problem cuz if it is I still don't want to consult a doctor...
My boyfriend fingered me after jerking off, and he didn’t cum (any precum was mixed with my saliva) and wiped his hand before touching me. Could I get pregnant from that?
Look you learned this when you were a kid in 5 grade maybe sooner. When your messing around. Don't ever assume your not gonna get any goo on you or in you. It only takes lil bit and pre cum is just as volatile as far as conception goes. I doubt your pregnant But if he had goo on his hand or fingers It's a long shot. But again any time sperm. Is out and about if it goes up in ya. Whether it be by fingers or any other way. It's still possible. But I doubt you are just keep that in kind its not like it takes a lot and any way it makes its way in is good enough to cause pregnancy. You'd be highly surprised on how women get pregnant and they did not have penetration sex. Just messing around and that's enough your best bet is tMaybe wash up right after he cums especially if he did on you or close by your genital areas. WHICH IS A BAD THING TO DO IF YOU DONT WANT BABIES. KEEP THE BABY BATTER AWAY AT ALL TIMES FROM YOUR GENETIAL AREA FORGET THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT A. D THINK ABOUT THE OUTCOME IF YOUR CARELESS WHICH ITS SOUNDING LIKE ALREADY
Is it bad that I didn't get wet when my boyfriend fingered me?
Your brain responds to the stimulation of the vaginal lips. In response, the vagina lubricates itself. You have to feel being turned on,it's alright when you were not wet it is because you are not used to it or unprepared. What you can do is, Practice on your own or ask him to do it on you whatever,start by feeling your breasts and rubbing your clit until you get really wet. then start fingering yourself/ask him to finger you. make sure you like it and really want him to do it to you. if it's too tight or uncomfortable, just stop. don't cause unnecessary pain. if it feels good and you feel like you want more, add a finger. just don't let him pressure you into things you don't like or don't want to do. You can also add lubricant to reduce the friction to make it wet,but idk if it works.
My boyfriend fingered me and i felt nothing?
Was it his first time fingering? Because really it's all about where he fingers, and how. My advice to you, and you may not be comfortable with it, but at least give a try... masterbate! Seriously, it will help you a lot. It may take a few tries before you start to feel pleasure, but just explore yourself, nobody can tell you what will feel good, you have to figure it out for yourself. It will take a while, but once you get it, show him what you like, and hopefully he will catch on and you'll start to feel pleasure when he fingers you! If none of this works for you...then go see your gyno for sure! Good luck!
So my boyfriend fingered me but it didn't feel that good...?
It's probably both of you- If this was the first time for both of you, it was probably a little awkward. In order to have an equally pleasurable time, you need to know what each other likes best. If you masturbate, then you should already have some sense of what you like. If you don't, well, now's a great time to start. Explore yourself so you know what you like, then help your boyfriend learn what gets to you. One tip, start it out slow. Make sure he plays with you to get you wet first, otherwise, your "area" could get seriously irritated. Let him stimulate your clitoris (the little nub at the front of your privates) -it's a very sensitive and stimulating area. Then, once your wet, he can insert is fingers. If his fingers are long enough, he'll probably hit your G-spot. For many women, this is not as pleasurable as your C-spot (clitoris). Understand it's a very different feeling- you'll either get used to it and enjoy it, or maybe you'll just decide to stick to outside stimulation. Be aware, your man's got two hands- one could be penetrating you, while the other plays with your C-spot. It's a great feeling. Don't be afraid to tell your man what you like. Chances are, he's guessing anyway- he'll appreciate the help. Also, I hear most men think it's sexy when a woman takes charge and lets him know what to do. He'll most likely be happy if he can start giving you advice on his hand jobs too ;)
My boyfriend fingered me and now waiting on my period, but I'm 6 days late. Could I be pregnant?
Please, do not have sex until you have learnt the basics. I have to assume y9uo are underage, because of your lack of any basic facts.The first is, a baby is made by a man and a woman. The woman’s egg is fertilised in her fallopian tubes by a man’s sperm. A man’s sperm enters via the womans vagina during sex …he puts his penis inside your vagina and when he has an orgasm he shoots sperm contained in a liquid called semen (cum)…from his penis deep inside your vaginaand the sperm, like tiny fishes, swim towards the woman’s fallopian tubes..its a race..…the first there wins a gold medal and the prize is it gets to fertilize the egg.Now, here’s the important part: sperm do not -cannot - physically come out of a finger.But you knew that didn’t you?If he does put his penis inside your vagina…not your mouth or bum or ear or nostril… you may well become pregnant unless you use contraception. Deespite what I said above, sperm will frequently come out of his penis before he ejaculates, in fact its very likely…so you need to keep the condom on his penis as long as its inside you…….unless you go to your doctor or family planning clinic and get put on the pill (or use patches oor an injection).But please do not be pushed into sex until you reach the age of consent.
Why didn't anything happen when my boyfriend fingered me?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months. Every weekend, I come home from college to stay at his house (I'm 20, he's 24). We fool around while we're there, but the farthest I've ever gone with a guy before this is making out (I'm a virgin and he's had sex with a few people) I have given him handjobs and just teased him in general. But, he's never felt down there until last weekend, when he fingered me. It was...awkward to say the least. It felt good, and I really liked it when he played with my clit. But, when he put a finger in me, I lost all the good feelings (it didn't hurt or anything...I don't know. Things just stopped feeling good when that happened) and he was kind of just fooling around down there until someone (thankfully) interrupted us. (thank god because I didn't know what I was going to do - nothing was feeling good anymore) What do I do next time? I don't want to tell him it didn't feel good - I don't want to embarrass him or myself. What went wrong? Why did it stop feeling good? Was I just nervous? Thanks!