What does it mean when your boyfriend gets hard when you’re hugging?
I wouldn’t attribute any special meaning to it. As others have answered, there’s no responsibility on your part. It’s not like you shouldn’t hug him or it’s your fault he’s hard.Something I didn’t realize (but as I got older, makes perfect sense) is that unless you grew up with a penis, you don’t realize it’s true nature.The fact of the matter is, a penis can get hard for literally no reason whatsoever. Or for any reason, really. From the start of puberty to well into his 20’s, a man will be at the mercy of his penis. Thinking about school work with absolutely zero sexual desire? Random boner. Watching TV and completely zoned out? Random boner. Wake up from a completely nonsexual dream? Random boner. Smell a girl’s perfume? Boner, but not so random, probably caused by the perfume. Nothing weird or kinky, it’s like living with a hyper puppy. Sometimes you have to put a leash on it, “No boy, no! We’re not letting you out right now, I’m in the middle of a crowded bus!” Other times, you’re alone and you figure, well, why the heck not. Might as well let him out to run around for a bit.Sorry to ruin puppies for people. I just mean, there’s no willpower on our part. We’re not thinking, “Hey, you know what I haven’t had for a while? An erection!”I would say almost always, it’s just as much of a surprise to us as it is to you.That being said, as a man, I would like to reiterate what others have said. It’s our problem to deal with, and if you’re willing to help, that’s great. But don’t ever do anything you feel uncomfortable with and if he tries to pressure you, let him know that he’ll survive without your help, as he has for the past few years. And if he can’t handle it alone, he certainly doesn’t deserve to move up to the big leagues (where you handle it as a team).You have zero fault in this, keep hugging him (unless he doesn’t want to) and there’s nothing to be embarrassed about. For either of you. Maybe don’t ask him to run immediately after the hug, help him out by letting his sit down quickly.
My boyfriend calls me "man" ..?
Me and him have been going out for 1 month and sometimes when we talk he'll be like "nothing man(:" "i know man" like sometimes he would say that is that..normal? :S lol
How can i get a bodybuilder man to be my boyfriend?
It sounds like your only requirement is that he's a bodybuilder. Very shallow. Relationships based on physical attraction rarely last forever.
What do I do if my boyfriend got me pregnant and has now abandoned me? Is there any man on Quora who will help me have this child and give his name to the child?
Are you serious or this is a joke?As a single mum , if you want a partner/father for the child, then you could try to following.If the child is born then:Go on dating sites, especially ones aimed at single parents.Go to parent/baby classes and see if you can meet any single dads, or ask one of the mums if they have any single friends.Talk to dads at nursery (when you child is old enough to go)and see if any are single.If you mean while you are pregnant then:Ask your friends if they know any single guys, just say the father is a deadbeat and you want a father figure in your child's life.Go on dating sites aimed at pregnant womenGo to pregnancy classes (yoga or swimming)and see if you can meet any single men.For now if you have any men in your life e.g. father, granddad, cousin, brother etc. that can fill a fatherly role that would be great, until you go on a date.They can help you with check ups, buying stuff for the baby and when the baby is born.Hope this helps.
Can my 44 year old boyfriend get me pregnant?
100% yes. Though men have some drop-off in fertility as they age past their mid-fifties, it’s not near as dramatic as a woman reaching menopause. For your own sake, you should assume that any man you have sex with, regardless of age, has the capacity to get you pregnant. Therefore, unless you’re actively wanting to become a mom in the immediate future, you should also make sure to use an effective form of birth control.
I’m 17 and my boyfriend is 19. He said he’s trying to get me pregnant. Should I let him?
NO. What do you mean, trying to GET YOU pregnant? Don’t YOU, the one whose body and life would be most dramatically changed by carrying a pregnancy, get a say in it? Did he just read The Handmaid’s Tale or something? (Look it up. It’s a forced-pregnancy nightmare.)You wouldn’t just be creating a “baby bump” to take selfies with. You would be creating a whole entire person. And you would be morally, legally, and financially responsible for this whole entire person for at least 18 years. By the way? It takes between $150,000 and $200,000 to raise a child to that age, assuming they don’t have any major health problems or injuries, in which case obviously it’s more. So if he’s trying to get you pregnant, he needs to have an excellent job and savings account. Not nice car. Savings account.Go to Urban Dictionary and look up “DTMFA.” More importantly, go to your doctor and get a form of birth control he cannot possibly sabotage. Because if he can find and throw away your pills, he will. If he can poke holes in a condom or stealth it right off, he will.
My boyfriend has stopped doing the things he did to get me. What is some help?
This is a pretty common question on Quora. I came across a good answer just the other day but can't seem to find it but it goes a little like this - "Typically it is the male who chases the female. He does all he can to make her feel special. Although the male also likes to feel special. After a while it starts feeling one sided until eventually he stops " Did you make him feel special? Did you do special things for him? (guys love some of that magic too, believe it or not). If not then now he's got you and he doesn't know what to do with you as he may have realised that you were a dud investment. I'm starting to sound like a douche, I realise that but I don't believe we are getting the full sides story. If this is the nut of it, and he does things to compromise your happiness then you don't really need Quorans to tell you that this isn't a healthy relationship and just call it off before you get more attached (if that's even possible). At least he was honest enough to tell you.
Should I be upset bc my boyfriend got me nothing for Valentine's Day?
We've been together about 9 months and I pretty much live with him. He had told me previously that he didn't like the holiday or the hype, but I love the holiday and kinda went all out for him. I left him cute vintage valentines around the house, made him a really sweet card, and had a heart brownie waiting on him when he got home from work. He works mornings and I work nights. I sent him a happy vday text and he wrote back "you too sweets" didn't say anything about the card. When I got home later that night, he was passed out on the couch. I had brought him a really nice leather guitar case and 2 hard to find records. Things he had been wanting. He said thanks and that he was sorry he didn't get me anything. NOTHING. To tell u the truth I was kinda expecting a card and hopefully dinner made for me. He quickly fell back asleep while I took a shower and tried to hide the fact that I was crying. I feel silly bc it's just a holiday, and I know he loves me, but no effort was made and it really hurt my feelings. And trust me, this is not a money issue, he has it.
How do I trick my boyfriend into getting me pregnant?
Here is the additional information, mentioned in a comment:I am black my bf is white he won't have kids or get married because he says his family won't accept me. I really want a kid I don't care if he leave me or not. I just want a kid and i don't mind loosing him over it.. I know he loves me but he love his family more than he leave me..So here’s what you need to take away from all the answers you’ve had so far and are likely to get: You’ve identified a problem, but this isn’t the solution.A lot of people have told you in no uncertain terms what you absolutely shouldn’t do. Let’s talk about what you could do instead.I can’t pretend to understand what you’re facing, but let me suggest that just because he says that his family won’t accept you doesn’t necessarily mean that’s true, or that it’s entirely true. Perhaps there are just a couple of family members who are a bit bigoted. Or perhaps he’s afraid, but he doesn’t really need to be.So here’s my suggestion: Get to know his family better. Perhaps start with any siblings and work your way from there to his parents. At the very least, you’ll know where you stand with them. You may be pleasantly surprised.If his family seems to be okay with you, why don’t you propose? I’m completely serious about this. If what you really want is to force the issue, I can’t think of a better way.Otherwise, you need to do some serious talking about your future. Perhaps some kind of relationship counselling is in order if you can’t handle it entirely on your own.Good luck. I hope it works out for you. Together. No deception, no trickery, just honest communication.