My boyfriend's best friend hates me?
my boyfriend is an AWESOME guy, weve been together for a year and its been great. The only prob i have is that his best friend is really rude to me and is a total jerk. when i first met him he said straight out that the only reason my bf was with me was cuz i was easy and he was too lazy to go find a prettier girl to date. his exact words were "oh, so she slept with you on the first night and you didnt wanna have to try to get a hotter girl, so you just stuck with her, huh?" this was on our FIRST meeting. He also does drugs, sells drugs, all of that. He cant keep a job for more than a week; he says that the ppl there harassed him or his girlfriend, and made him quit. ive heard that excuse three times in the past month for why hes quit various jobs. when i talk to my bf about it, he defends him, and says that he was just joking. we are talkin about marriage, but i dont want tis friend to be a constant source of fighting. please help me, i dont know what to do!
My boyfriend hates my best guy friend?
I am in a long term relationship and we have a son together. Problem is that he hates my best friend and constantly accuses me of cheating on him with this friend. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and have only known my friend for a year. My friend and I cliqued from day one and have a lot in common which is why we have gotten so close. I realize I do text him a lot and hang out with him a lot but my boyfriend never wants to do anything I want to do, I have begged him and begged him. I honestly have never done anything with my friend that would be considered cheating. We just like each others company and get alonWhat time did you leave? He is also really good with my son. My boyfriend says that I text him too much and says he wants me to stop being friends with him all together but I am not willing to drop the friendship as I have done nothing to necessitate dropping it. Is my friendship with my friend really that bad or is my boyfriend overreacting?
I hate my best friends boyfriend??
My best friend has a boyfriend and they've been together for a while, i liked him at first, but omg i cant stand him ne more. to me he's to controling and he gets mad so easily. and today he had a hat on and i was joking around and i hit his a hat a little bit and he pushed me up against the locker and now i have a bruise and my arm from him. and then yesterday he flips out on my cause i dont hand out with her ne more and when he's yelling at me she juss stands there. and when i ask her to keep secrets that i tell her she always tell him. and hes yelling at me saying why i blow her off and i told her that she always around him and i dont like him at all, and so she goes well i dont like your b/f either. so we really dont talk ne more, she's always with him so i dont call her like i used to, and we never spend the night at eachothers house ne more. so her relationship with her b/f is ruining our friendship and i dunno what to do ne more please help me.
What should I do if my best friend hates my boyfriend even if I'm so kind with hers?
Do you have any ideas as to why you feel your best friend dislikes/hates your boyfriend? If not, then you need to sit down and have a hear to heart with her about it.For the most part, people aren’t going to have such strong, negative feelings about another individual unless there’s something about that person in their personality or behavior that would be adverse enough to cause us to feel that way. Now if your best friend was single, I feel that would explain a lot as to why she could potentially have some negative feelings towards your boyfriend, as she’d probably see him as taking away time you would normally spend with her and could potentially be envious of your non-single status and bemoaning her singleness. But since she has her own boyfriend, you may need to take other things into consideration.Maybe the relationship she has with her boyfriend is not quite the same level as the one you have with yours. Perhaps she sees things in your boyfriend that she finds lacking in hers and perhaps that could be a reason for her resentment.How does your boyfriend act when you are both hanging out with your best friend? Is he easy-going, fun, talkative, and good-natured? Or is he silent, unsocial, or acting like he doesn’t really want to be around her? If he’s potentially acting in a certain way that could be a turnoff to your best friend, you need to confirm if in fact, this is what’s bothering her to see if that’s what’s causing the dislike on her end.Is it possible that your best friend and boyfriend may have had some kind of altercation that you are unaware of either before you got together or during?There could be a myriad of reasons why you feel that your best friend may not like your boyfriend but the only way you’ll know for sure, is to schedule some one-on-one time with her to discuss it.
My boyfriend hates my gay bestfriend?
tell your boyfriend that he will need to figure out a way to get along with or at least tolerate your gay friend for your sake because he isn't going away
What do you do when your best friend’s boyfriend hates you? I am always nice to him, but he is not quiet about his hatred, so it's awkward and tense.
I don’t think people who answered here are right. First of all, everybody is saying that this guy is a ass. Well you can’t be compatable with everybody. Your friend may end up together for life with this guy.I came seeking the same answer, but the guy who wrote about open communication was parialy right.This is the second time I am in this situation. First time I was 26 when my best friend started dating this ass. The good thing was that we bouth tried to but it was just impossible. We drifted away. At the moment I am 32 and she is dating a new guy, we started hanging out again. That time I realised thar best friends just don’t last for ever. There are just grear people who will be part of specific period in your life.I drifted in the period of 6 years, and found a new “besty”. And guess what a year and a half ago she broke up with her boyfriend and found s new ond that hates me. Worse thing is that in the same period they started, I started working with him, so I have day to day reminder. This weekend we sad our goodbyes. I toled her that I do bolieve her boyfriend and I are polar oposites, and I try not to communicate with him, just not to have bad blood. She toled me that she saw that, but she wants a long tearm with him. So we decided to go on a last trip together.The reason why I will not ask him what is the big deal. Cause he didn’t Like me even before I said Hello. And Like my friend choosen him, I am choosing my job, and backing off.At on period I tryed to be nice to him, but I stoped. Couple of years ago I was hiking with this guy who is an artist (I am one too and am a big fan), I didn’t want to date him or anything just was trying to cool around him, just cause I am a super fan. I saw the same hatered. I openly asked him why and where is this comming. He toled me I was too much for him and he doesn’t understand my humor. So I backed off.So the thing is just say Goodbye, cause she Made her choice, and if thing turn, she will be back, but she might not. You just can be liked by everone. I guess I always put my friends first, and that is the difference.So good luck. I wish you will manadge to find a better solition then I did.
My best friend and my boyfriend hate each other! What should I do?
My bff is realllyyy close to me! But she HATES my boyfriend! And my boyfriend is also like my best friend but he hates her! I don't know what to do! Me and my friend have been friends since first grade. But it feels like I've known my bf forever. What should i do?? I love them both sooo much! They're both telling me to pick one side! HELPP!!!