Are having an overprotective boyfriend good or bad?
He always thinks I'm talking to other guys like when I was on the phone with him I yelled to my friend: there he is!!!! (Pointing out my gym instructor) And from that my boyfriend was like: who is he!?! What guy? Are you cheating on me? What should I do!?
Is it a bad thing to have an overprotective boyfriend?
I have been dating this guy for five months. We both love each other very much, though I have noticed that my guy tends to get jealous of other men easily. If I am talking to other guys, he watches me from a distance and eventually moves his way over and holds onto me and later tells me that those guys were flirting too much with me and that he dislikes that. He does say that he is looking out for me. Some of the guys that he is jealous of are my friends and they have informed me that every time they try to say hi or what's up my guy completely ignores them. This happens when I am not around. Also, when we argue and I try to leave the situation, he grabs me and holds me tightly and refuses to let me go until I talk. I tell him to let go, and he tells me no. Sometimes it hurts. He is very protective of me also and I appreciate it, but I am a bit worried that this might be the tip of the iceberg. Should I be careful or is this just normal?
Why is my boyfriend so protective with me?
Guys are territorial...its instinctive...it effects some guys more then others...but all guys will get agressive if they think another guy might have a chance of bedding his woman..unless they like that...you can take it up with him...tell him to trust you more...remind him how you have never given him any reason to not trust you...tell him that if this keeps up it will drive a wedge between you and him....also on your part..try to understand that hes doing it cuz he cares about you and wants you to be his and wants to protect you....just talk to him... Ive felt similar ways before but kept it in check better...I was goin out with the girl before that was one of the finest girls in the highschool and i knew alot of guys wanted her...im not insecure so i didnt say much to her plus i knew people that knew me wouldnt try anything...but i did have friends of mine watch her when i wasnt around...kinda for her safety considerin anyone who might have a reason to get back at me but also just cuz she was a really nice and good hearted chick and didnt have enough ***** in her to tell guys to just **** off...some guys dont understand a politly spoken "no"...
Why are boyfriends so protective of their girlfriends?
I love my boyfriend so much and he loves me so much too. He opens doors for me, looks out for me. Like when I'm not paying attention walking into a street, he holds me back or something from traffic. The problem is, I get a lot of attention from guys. I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 21 and he gets upset when other guys hit on me or even look at me wrong. Like his "friends" check me out (my breast and stuff too) right on front of him. There's been many instances guys he knows or doesnt know will flirt with me even while he's holding my hand or something. I gave him my word, I love him and would never do something like cheat on him. He avoids these "friends" now and I don't think it's a trust problem with me but with these stupid guys. I tell him everything, all these guys that act stupid with me and I reject their advances. So why does he feel like this? Is this just how guys are? Is it alright for my boyfriend to be protective of me? We've been dating for almost a year now.
Why are guys so protective over their girlfriends? what are u scared of?
What are guys? Providers and Protectors. They're protective over you and they get jealous that they're going to lose you. It's healthy and there's nothing wrong with that. That said, there is definitely something wrong about it if you're complaining. Either you are not being a very good girlfriend to them and you are putting them in bad spots that make them that way (flirting with other guys, going out with your guy friends and not inviting him, getting drunk around other guys, etc). Or you keep finding guys that are possessive and controlling and that's not healthy either. There's a huge difference b/w a guy who is concerned and wants to protect you and a guy that wants to controll you and tell you what you should and shouldn't be doing.
My boyfriend is protective and often jealous, is this bad ?
we have been together for nearly 2 years and recently he has started to get very protective, and jealous when it comes to me being around his friends, why ? and is this a bad thing .. ? instant message welcome (: xx
Why are guys so protective about this during sex?
why do guys always joke around and refer to the girl's body parts and privates as their own? like "this is all mine" or "nobody else can have this but me".
Why do guys get jealous even if they are not your boyfriend?
Jealousy comes from them liking you and disliking you paying attention to others.They can either like you in a romantic sense or a platonic sense. The type of jealousy depends on those conditions.If they like you as just a friend and are jealous of your attention being elsewhere, they will be jealous of both your male and female friends. They will show no jealousy towards you being romantically interested towards anyone.If they like you romantically, they will be only jealous of your male friends. They may:make snide comments towards thempout when you are showing attention to the other guy friendscompare themselves to your guy friends in a way that points out how they are betterpoke fun at your guy friendsinterrupt you when you are talking with theminterrupt them if they are flirting with youplay-fight them to get their attention back to themscrew off and do stupid stuff to get your attention back to themmake jokes about you dating them to see how you reactThe more shy guys will just hang around in the background while you are talking to your guy friends and just watch with a weird look on their face or avoid looking at you altogether because it makes them too upset.It all depends on whether they think the guy you are associating with is “better” than them or not. If the guy is less threatening than them (less handsome, big age gap, less personality etc.), they may be more open and outgoing in showing their jealousy. If the guy you are talking to is more handsome or popular, they might just pout in the background.It really depends on the guy’s personality.Also, maybe they aren’t even jealous at all. They might just be protective over you.This all is based off my personal experience and observation being friends with mostly guys so it may not be always reliable. I am an empath so I can usually tell the difference between jealousy, protectiveness, and romantic and platonic feelings.