My boyfriend never buys me anything?
I buy him things all the time, because, I dunno, I like buying things for him. And these aren't cheap things either (PS Vita, games, expensive clothing, shoes etc) I guess I'm just a giver. But I'd just like for him to give me something every now and then too~ He seems to forget my birthday every year X"( or if he remembers, he's out of town and never brings anything back for me~ Sometimes he'll pay for checks at restaurants but that's it. I just feel used I guess. :( I see girls running around saying their boyfriends bought them this or that, and it makes me sad deep down~ I've asked him if he would buy me flowers whenever he gets the chance, but he STILL never has. He said he didnt know where to get them -__- I said that grocery stores and gasstations have them, but I guess he just doesn't think about me that much cuz I told him this about a year ago. We've been together for 3 years by the way.
My Boyfriend never buys me anything:L?
My boyfriend and i have been going out for 9months and he's so amazing and i love him more and more each day. but when it comes to buying gifts, cute suprises or paying for my stuff he never does. My birthday is coming up in November and he says he is saving up to buy me things but then goes out and buys things for his playstation:L I don't know if its just me being really stupid in thinking but i would love to be bought something once in a while. I buy him everything he wants and even give him money if he needs it:L my friends keep telling me off for it but i think that to show how much i love him i'll get him suprises and by him stuff...It sometimes upsets me knowing that maybe he doesn't even want to spend money on me.. What do you think i should do guys? Please give me some advice but i don't want to break up with him or anything! Thank-you:)
My boyfriend NEVER buys me ANYTHING.?
My boyfriend has a lot of money, I'm broke. I was woken up this morning with a phone call, he forgot his lunch. He's at work, and i'm on my only day off. He asked me to bring him lunch, then told me he wanted me to bring him chinese food. So I did. I got there and the first thing he said was.. "no drink?" So I apologized, told him there was a store around the corner. I was thirsty too so I walked there. His boss yelled "Hey! grab some money from my wallet and get me a drink too!" my boyfriend yelled back, no I got this one, so we went off to the store. Got our drinks and put them on the counter, and the guy asked us if it was together or separate, my boyfriend quickly said separate. He couldn't even buy me a can of pop? I had to use my credit card. I don't think he's gotten me a single thing since we've been together, I've bought him lunch or dinner about twice this week. He never does anything for me, I always do things for him. Should I break up with a guy that never does anything for me? It's not in my best interest... right?
My boyfriend never really buys me anything?
I really love giving my boyfriend gifts, just because it makes him happy and I like to give him things that make him happy~ I don't really have any friends (I've tried to make friends, but they always end-up stabbing me in the back or just treating me horribly, so I've kind-of given up on finding some), so I tend to spend a lot of money on my boyfriend because there isn't really anyone else that I buy gifts for. I buy him pretty expensive things, like new game systems (xbox, psvita, ps3) and games that usually cost about 60 bucks if they're brand new. He also tends to like more expensive clothes and things, so if we're out shopping and he sees something he likes, I'll usually buy it for him. I guess I tend spoil him because he's my only friend :( But I feel kind of sad right now, because it seems like other girls I know actually get gifts from their boyfriend.....but mine doesn't really do that....he even forgot our 3 year anniversary and my birthday this year :"( And I know that they'll just die, but it'd make me feel happy if he'd give me some flowers every once in awhile. He bought me roses once, last year, because he did something bad. He still doesnt know what my favorite one is even though I've told him over and over again. Maybe I'm just being stupid, but it hurts my feelings that girls who've only been with their boyfriends for a few months or a year get nicer gifts than I do :"( AND they're sometimes mean to their boyfriends. I don't want to stop giving him things, because it makes me happy to give gifts, and I appreciate that he's my friend and he's very nice. He's done some horrible things in the past, but he's a very good friend to me and I love him very much. I just don't know what to say to him without seeming greedy.
How come my boyfriend never buys me gifts?
I'm not trying to sound like I want him to spend off ALL his money but he literally never has went out of his way to get me something nice.. I wouldn't say I like extremely expensive items but I just like nice things . If it isn't cheap then he doesn't want to or if it's something I like and he thinks it's a waste of time then he doesn't .. I buy him and make things all the time for him and he didn't even want to ask me in a cute way to prom or anything he said he doesn't care about those things and it's kind of awkward cause proms the most important last thing to do on my list before highschool ends and I just pictured it being special.. But it's a let down something I really really wanted to do , he didn't.. He didn't even get me a birthday gift or just hung out with me on my birthday . But we hung out on his since his is eleven days after mine and he told me he had a gift but he never ended up giving it to me and it's been monntthhhss way past my birthday already. Or Christmas .. The only time he got me something was valentines day but it was because I asked oh and my movie ticket , that's al he pays for and on my birthday he wanted me to it for myself . He's sweet sometimes and nice but clueless... I don't think he knows that it bothers me and that it's a problem cause it's like I don't feel special. He got another girl a gift for her birthday but totally forgot mine... Idk what to do.
Boyfriend NEVER buys gifts?
I think it's serious enough for a breakup but that's just me of course. He isn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated and doing that doesn't require a lot of money. He has gotten you absolutely nothing in 3 years on a special occasion, nothing. He could have taken you out on a really nice inexpensive date and gotten you some kind of gift with just a few dollars but hasn't. You always paying for dinners is ridiculous to me, that's shouldn't be happening and he isn't pulling his weight in this relationship so to speak. Most girls wouldn't put up with this more than a month so you obviously care about him but again he isn't doing anything to deserve you. Anyway you need to quit being an enabler and you need to get him with it because believe me there are other options out there for you, better options.
What if you boyfriend never gives you anything but always wants you to buy his things?
Get rid of him, he is a user, and he is using you!
My boyfriend never buys me anything. Ever. It's starting to upset me. Does anyone have any advice?
Okay first off; how long have you been dating. If it hasn’t been longer than like a month or two; chill out. But if it’s been like 6 months or more, and he doesn’t buy you anything like dinner movies gifts etc…Personally, my first step would be to buy him something small. Nothing big something small. And give it to him. And maybe it’ll put a spark in his brain like oh crap that’s my GF I should be buying her stuff (cause he honestly could just be a ditz and not think about it and it’s accidental)So plant that little gift of yours to him in his head and give him a week and see if he reciprocates.Once a week has passed and he hasn’t done a nice gesture for you, I would just be straight up with him because honesty is the best.Tell him, nicely of course, be like hey babe; I’m not trying to sound like a baby or spoiled but I was just curious why you never buy me anything. It’s nothing personal, I was just curious is maybe something was wrong or if you wanted to talk about something. It doesn’t bother me that you don’t buy me things, I just wanted to clear the air and make sure it wasn’t because of a certain reason or problem. I appreciate everything you do for me, I don’t need you to buy me things for my appreciation, although I do like surprises here and there. Then smile and kiss him.That’s all I got
My mom never buys me anything?!?
Trust me. Talk to your mom heart to heart (with full sincerity). Say, "Mom, can we sit down and talk? Mom, I love you. Can I ask you something?" You may get the clothes. I am not sure about jewellery (that's a bit too much to ask for unless, except affordable ones). Expensive stuff may not necessarily be nice. If you need more, then work for it. Your mom could be spend thrift and she is a good mom. Be cool and stay good.
Why doesn't my boyfriend ever buy me gifts? He didn't buy anything for me on Valentine's Day.
Can he afford to give you a gift? Do you give him gifts? Was he raised in an environment where gift-giving wasn’t standard?Unlike some of the previous answerers, I try to look at all of the reasons as to why someone would do certain things. People always tend to judge based on what they outwardly see of a person without considering inward motivations. If you did something for a specific reason and someone judged your motivations incorrectly, you would be rightfully indignant.Expecting gifts from a person is somewhat selfish unless you give gifts to that person. In that case, it would be reasonable to expect something in return.What’s more important than gifts and money is time. If a person spends time with you, that should mean more. It’s easy to spend money, but time is much more precious.How about you ask him why he doesn’t buy you gifts instead of asking a bunch of random people who don’t even know him? You might find something out about him and be able to resolve your issue.