Is it right if my boyfriend hits me if its my fault?
No your boyfriend should not hit you whether it's your fault or not. No man should hit a woman and no woman should hit a man. If you are in a relationship where your boyfriend hits you, no matter how much you love him or he loves you, GET OUT! It won't get better, only worse and there are a lot of men out there who will treat you right. Ita ridiculous if you stay with him, if he hits you leave... Period. Seek help, there are places That know how to help with these things. Abusive men are usually manipulative. Know that, yes, you ARE in an abusive relationship.
My boyfriend punched me i the face really hard, and now I have a headache. Should I be worried about health?
I know it was wrong for him to hit me,so I don't want that lecture. but I mean I guess I was bothering him with disagreeing with what we should do about a situation we're dealing with. He made it clear it was my fault, but I can do better in this relationship. I'm trying really hard, I don't want everyone to think I'm weak because I can't deal with issues. Anyway I just want to know if I should check myself out, or is a punch really not that serious.?? I got a headache after he punched me, like almost immediately, it I took advil. It's better, but still hurts. He made me have sex with him right after , I never had time to rest my headache away, but should I be worried? I am just worried about it ... Sorry for being a worry wart, but is my head fine, i just IDK i mean he has big hands...
Earlier today my boyfriend punched me in the arm and I don t know what to do.. HELP?
Yesterday I was in the car with my boyfriend and my friend and he told me I could honk the horn at the people in front of him Bc he felt bad and didn t want to so when I did he threw me back away from the wheel. Then today we were cleaning my car and when we went inside I made him smell something really gross and he then punched me in the arm.(not super hard to leave a bruise but it sorta hurt) then he was like omg why tf would you do that sh*t. And about 20-25 minutes later he was like I m so sorry I lost control and I didn t mean to hit you. I just wasn t thinking.
My boyfriend hits me but he says hes sorry and i feel like its my fault what should i do?
I am still working on getting out of a relationship similar to yours. He would hit me and choke me and then the next couple of hours he would see the bruises start to show up and then he would say I'm sorry - i need help. Only after 2 years he never got help. After time went on he started to believe that when I didn't do the things he wanted me too then we would fight he would beat on me and he thought it is what I deserved. That I was the one in the wrong. But let me tell you a woman never desearves to take a punch from a man. He finally made me lose all my friends and would leave me for days at the house with no phone or car. The last fight we got in he punched me in my face about 3 times and I realized that he was going to kill me before to long (even if by accident) I was a prisioner in my own home. I decided I had had enough and took measures to get rid of him. It's been 3 months and he still calls everyday. I told him that if he came to the house I would call the cops and it has kept him away so far. I also told him I have a restraining order agqainst him. If you have family then maybe you can stay with them to get back on your feet. One thing is for sure he won't quit hitting you and it will only get worse. On top of it your children are learning these things from him and you - maybe it is okay when they see daddy (or an adult)doing it. It takes more than you could ever imagine to walk away but it is so worth it when it is all said and done. It's not your fault he hit you - it's his. He makes the decision to put his hands on you and this is flat out wrong no matter how you look at it. If you tell your brothers then you will open up a can of worms that can't be put back. They will want to take action and you will say no putting strain on your relationship with them. You should tell them when you are sure you want things handled. keep them brothers out of jail won't you? I hope that you find all the courage you need to deal with your situation and remember that only you can make yourself happy. The grass is always greener on the other side of this situation. Good luck!
My boyfriend punches things when he is mad? help!?
My boyfriend always punches things when he's mad! We have been together for about 6 months and whenever he is mad he punches something! Walls, cars, etc... I don't feel scared or threatned that he might punch me cause I know he won't. But is this a bad way of relieving anger? Last night we got into a fight and he got mad and punched his friends windshield and cracked the window! I already told him that I hate it when he does that and told him to stop acting so immature. But he did it again.. please help?! I feel scared for him that he's going to hurt himself. I hate seeing him this way. Please help! What should I do?
My boyfriend hit me in the face?
hi guys My bf and I went to the store to return his shoes and he made me get down to do it. I told him no that he should do it, but he insisted i return them and so I did. I came back to the car and he started going crazy because the cashier put all the money in the card and he wanted cash. He started yelling saying its my fault and i got tired of it so I told him loudly that it was not my fault. He got extremely mad, he then threw something at me and choked me. So i smacked him in the face he then punched me on the ear, face, lip, he ripped my purse and broke everything inside. its been 2 days and i have not heard a word from him and no apology...what should i do at this point??? My bf and I have been dating for almost 4 years and I love him to death but im now terrified of him :(
My boyfriend hit me today...but, i think it WAS MY FAULT. ?
Today, I didn't know what else to do after he had me surrounded me in a corner screaming at me. I was really scared and by myself with no one else to protect me. Therefore, when ever he shouted something at me, I answered him quietly. All I wanted to do was leave his house and go home. So the last thing he said to me was "EXACTLY *****". I pushed him (a little hard) so I could have personal space and so that I could leave, but that only mad him madder and he hit me in the face twice and pushed me extremely hard on the wall. That was the first time he'd ever intimidated me that much and now im scared about the next time I see him (whenever that will be) I was wondering if it was my fault for pushing him first? Do you think that if I never pushed him, I would've never got hit? Should I apologize for starting it? I'm confused and very scared...