All my boyfriend talks about is work and himself?
ok so you two love each other...remember love can beat anything..try to tell him that that bothers/irritates you and that maybe you two should spent more time with each other talking about what you guys like and enjoy doing...[that will kep his mind off his job]. tell him that you want to stay with him for the rest of your life and if he really loves he would do anything to make that happen..remember evrybody has its flaws and of course [don't] try to chage him but he has to understand that for once you want to have a conversation with him that you guys both enjoy and not only him.. hope this helps you =] gud luck !!=p
My boyfriend talks to himself in the shower?
me and my bf have been dating for a little more than 3 years and to what i have seen he appears normal he makes friends, sociable, helpful, intelligent, has a stable job for 6 years, has a great family, healthy but it seems every time he is in the shower he talks to himself and answers back and sometimes his voices sound like me as if hes mimicking me but the weird part is he will tell the shower that he cant be there everyday and hes sorry idk if he is trying to destress himself or whatever but while hes in the shower the first thing i do is look for all the phones but there never in the bathroom with him and when he gets out hes fine. I joke with him like what did the shampoo and conditioner say to you and he acts like he doesn't know and calls me crazy i make fun of him but now im getting a little concern idk is there anything i can do?
My boyfriend talks to himself.. Is he crazy?
He talks to himself like he's talking to another person. It's only whenever he's mad or down and upset. Honestly, I don't know what to think about it. I suggest getting help for it but he doesn't fall through with it.. Ill give you an example of when I say talks to himself.. 1 "J, you're such an f*ckn idiot. You don't deserve her you're stupid." 2 "dude, shut the f*ck up cause you don't know what you're talking about. I love her. And she loves me." 1 "if you loved her you wouldn't treat her the way you do" It's like that! It scares me. He tells me he thinks he has split personalities. But, he doesn't halusonate and he doesn't do things or wake up somewhere and not know where he's at or what he's doing... My question is.. What could it be? Is it split personalities? Is this dangerous? Could it be post traumatic stress? I don't know anymore. I love him. I've been with him for a year, I just wan him better. I'm not giving up on him.
My boyfriend likes to talk a little too much about himself and his interests. What do I do?
It depends on your demeanor and your relationship dynamic. I had a boyfriend in the past. He did the same thing. I made a recording on a microcasette recorder (before there were digital voice recorders). On it, I said various phrases, with long pauses. “Wow! That was clever!” (pause 60 sesconds) “You’re so smart” (pause 120 seconds) “ I bet that made you feel vindicated” (pause 20 seconds) “You really told them!” (pause 10 seconds) “Seriously?” (pause 15 seconds) “That’s right, nobody does it like you do!” (pause 10 seconds) “Becuase you the man!” (pause 40 seconds) “You did that like a boss!” (pause 25 seconds) “You are such a great catch” (pause 30 seconds) “Makes me wonder whhat you see in me, when you could have any gal you want” (paose 60 seconds) “You’re out of my league”. I put the recorder in the bathroom with the door slightly ajar. He thought I was doing my hair and makeup. I was gathering my things. I set up another recorder and stuck it behind the char in the living room where he was sitting on the couch. I started the bathroom recorder and turned up the volume so it sounded like I was raising my voice so he coud hear me in the other room. I snuck out and hung out with my friends. When I returned, he found my recorder and was mad. But only the bathroom recorder. Not the one behind the chair. Next time I hung out with my frends, we listened to the recording of him talking and the other recorder answering back. We found it amusing. Also telling. When I returned, he was no longer mad but acted guilty. He told me he realized that he was being too self absorbed. I said “Ya think?” He asked me whaat I saw in him and why I was with him. I said “Good question, and, good question”. That was the end, or, a week from the end. He didn’t love me, he just needed an audience and cheerleader, could be anybody.
Is it a bad sign that my boyfriend talks to himself?
No, it's no big deal, don't let it worry you
My boyfriend only wants to talk about himself?
My boyfriend talks for long periods of time about things he likes (sports, etc), but then when I try to talk about something that interests me (like what happened in class or with a friend) he gets bored and says he has to go. It's very one-sided and I'm getting frustrated. I've had several boyfriends and never run into a problem like this before. It's starting to make me feel like bad and I don't know what to do. Do you think he could change possibly? He's also kind of spoiled with really rich parents.
I feel very upset when my boyfriend goes on talking about himself, his friends but does not talk about us. Am I being selfish here?
No, you are not being selfish.It is natural that people in a relationship will want to be with each other. And that wanting comes from the fact that being with each other will be the beautiful experience that both of them want. This, to a certain extent, leads to dreaming of the future and talking about it. For example, some couples may name their unborn child. Some might think about the house they will live in. Some might think about the way they will go about their daily life. Or vacations. Some might talk about parents and how they will take care of them. Or not. Some will talk about when to get married and what they will do immediately afterwards and where they will settle. They WILL talk about the future, right from the emotional part of being with each other to the functional part of living together. This is what is natural, when both people want to be with each other. Even if say, one person is going through lots of trouble and stress, they will turn to the partner for support. In that case too, the partner will know why his/her lover is not talking about their future, and will be supportive.In your case, honestly, to whatever i know, i see a problem. Sorry, that is the truth.
My boyfriend talks about himself constantly. He's a super nice guy. However, he somehow manages to change any subject to himself. How do I address this without being rude?
Why worry about being rude? He certainly hasn't a care in the world about it! Women kill me trying to "be nice" and "be sweet" and "not be rude" all the time. Stop stifling your voice and power! Next time he does that you say "you know, you are so narcissistic it's ridiculous. All you do is talk about yourself. Every topic we or anyone else brings up, you manage to turn it into a discussion about yourself. It's ridiculous and very boring."He will be stunned.He will deny it is so.That is when you have to pull out your transcripts (which you have carefully logged for a week or two before you spring this on him), and read back the situations and sentences verbatim that he said.If he keeps doing it, understand that your boyfriend will never, ever pay attention to YOU because he is too busy paying it to himself. Unless you want to be the third wheel in a relationship your boyfriend is having with himself, I suggest you reconsider this man as a partner. He may not be a bad guy, but he is a bad guy for YOU.
Why is my ex-boyfriend talking about himself and his new girlfriend rudely etc. to me on the phone like he wasn’t ever with me like I’m a stranger? Is it that he doesn’t care or what?
Because you are talking to him!He is your Ex-boyfriend for a reason. And while I do not know the reason, you do and in the future, just don’t talk to him.Is it that he doesn't care? As your Ex, try not to concern yourself with what he thinks or cares about. He is not worth it.Take care of yourself and remember, you are awesome!