Boyfriend wants tattoo?
I love my boyfriend and we've been together for months now, we are really close but he mentioned he wants a tattoo but I love him the way he is and I don't like the idea of him getting a mark on his skin. I don't want to break up with him and neither does he. Is there a way to convince someone, if there is I need ideas. I'm not trying to be some sort of controller just want what's best for him.
My boyfriend wants to get an evil tattoo?
that's what he want and how he feel and as a christian you should respect his decisions and not judge him. If he was in Afghanistan and in combat, he has seen horrible things you will never understand or want to know. Evil tattoos do not symbolize he is an evil person or "satanic" in any way unless he says that is what they are for. A real christian will accept him and love him no matter what he decides to do with his own body. A reaper sometimes symbolizes someone who has taken lives from others so its not uncommon for a war veteran to get a tattoo like this.
My boyfriend wants me to get a tattoo ?
Getting a tattoo can be a life altering choice. If it's visible to the public, it sometimes limits your job choices in the future. That, and that you've only been dating for a couple of days, makes me think that it might not be the best choice. Getting them removed is painful, difficult, expensive, and doesn't always work. A guy who would ask you that after only a few days of dating seems like he could be controlling, insecure, or both. Think long, very long before getting one. In the words of Axl Rose, heavily tattooed lead singer of Guns and Roses, "If you want a tattoo, wait a year. If you still want one, then get it."
No. Never.First of all - tattoos are permanent and can go wrong. It’s not like dying your hair or trying a new haircut. Aside from that - are you sure that won’t ever interfere with your career? Is is something that you would like to see? What if - for whatever reason - you go separate ways and your next boyfriend will hate tattoos?Secondly, tattoos should have personal meaning. Without it, it’s just random bullshit that you’ll grow tired of on the long run. This is personal, but I find women with those “attention seeking random gibberish tattoos” very unappealing. Lots of chicks get tattoos for the sake of doing it these days. Most of the time it ends up looking random and incoherent, not attractive at all.Finally, this is somethings you should discuss openly with him. Does he love you without tattoos? If he doesn’t find you attractive enough without them, you have some other problem to work through. What about the other way around - you don’t mind him getting tattoos, do you? How would he feel if you pointed to other guys and asked him to laser off his ink to look like them?
My boyfriend wants me to get my tattoo removed?
My boyfriend wants me to get my tattoo removed? I have a tattoo on my upper arm that is about a quarter sleeve. I'm 22 and have had it since I was 17 - I love it. He says he likes it too, but he has a much smaller tattoo on his upper arm and he thinks it looks bad that mine is so much bigger than his. He really is a great guy, probably the one I will marry. I don't know what to do because I love the tattoo and it is very painful to get removed...do you think he is being unreasonable? How can I talk him out of this?
My boyfriend wants to get a tattoo with his last name, what should i do?
Okay, so I personally think that if he wants it, he should be able to get it. I mean the way things sound, it seems like it's kind off like a family thing, like a tradition. Just because you don't see significance of it, doesn't mean that it's not important to him. If really feel strongly about this, then maybe you should discuss him getting it somewhere a little less visible than his arm. Of course, you should talk to him and discuss if it really will be all that important to him, of if he just wants it because, explain that you don't want him regretting getting it or not getting it. Really I think taking away his choice by strictly telling him that he can not get it, would put a bit of a strain on the relationship, especially if he really and truly wants to get it. Just talk to him about it.
MY BOYFRIEND WANTS ANOTHER TATTOO, HE'S ONLY 17!!!!?
honestly its his body and if he like tattoos then let him get them! my boyfriend is 22 and he has 9 tattoos so i don't say anything cause he lets me get as many piercings as i want! if i was you i would just let him get tattoos he just want you to be by his side to support him cause thats what i do with my boyfriend and he supports me with my piercings and im 25 and i have 12 piercings i plan on to get more though! one good thing is that he can always cover them up when he has a shirt on! my boyfriend got both inner wrist done with chinese symbols, Tribal Cross in the middle of his back, big right Tribal Cover Up, left Tribal Arm Band, Tribal with his Last initial of his last name which is a C out the outer side of the arm left, Scroll on the inner forearm left, and a dragon koi on his right arm its a half of sleeve really!
My boyfriend wants to get a tattoo on his ball sack.....?
Sometimes people have allergic reactions to tattoos. You could show him a picture of something like this and say, "What if that happened to your ball sack?" The pictures of the ones I've seen are kind of nasty. You could also remind him that if he wants to keep it on a place like that, he will have to keep getting it touched up so it won't just be a one time pain. If that doesn't work...well...when it really hurts him, you'll be able to say I told you so at least!
My boyfriend wants me to get a tattoo w/ his initials...Should I?
If you want to get the tattoo, that is completely up to you. There are a few things you could consider...If you do get his initials, do it in a fancy font, something that you could go over later if need be. I have my husbands initials in a dolphin on my hip. The dolphin is blue with the center fadded out to my skin color. His initials are the same color blue as the dolphin. So if something happends, I can always shade the whole thing in. It's a tattoo that I wanted anyways, I just modified it to have his initials inside. My suggestion would be, that if you have a tattoo that you already want, then you can modify it to please him but not screw yourself into regretting it later. And I think the pelvis would be an inconspicuous spot...you two are the only ones who will really see it right?? I hope this helps you!!!!
My boyfriend wants a tattoo but I hate them, how can I dissuade him?
I know everyone will say that it's his body and it's his choice but just hear me out. My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. I have always hated tattoos. I don't mind them on other people because it is their choice, and I don't have to look at them. However it's not the same for him because I will have to look at it for the rest of our lives (we're in a committed relationship). He has only started wanting one over that past few months. I've always brushed it off because I thought he would forget about it but now it appears he is very determined to get a tattoo, no matter who he hurts. I find tattoo's cheap and degrading, and I feel like he is disrespecting his body if he gets one. I hate the sight of one, and I can't bear the thought of having to look at a splodge of ink underneath his skin forever. He wants a compass on his chest with the initials of his family. The idea behind it is sweet and I understand he wants to make a deceleration of his love for his family, but if I'm going to be his family too, surely I should be able to have a say in this? After all, he didn't want me to dye my hair or pierce my nose, so I didn't, because he didn't want me too, even though both can be temporary. He feels like I am blackmailing him into not getting a tattoo, and I understand it looks like that but I'm trying not to. I love him so much and can't bear the thought of being without him, however if he does get a tattoo, then it would put a huge strain on our relationship. I'm still not entirely sure why this bothers me so much that it does, and it upsets me that he won't even now discuss the possibility of him not getting a tattoo or how it effects the people around him. Please can somebody help me sort this out? I've been crying for hours over this and we can't stop fighting. Please help!