My Boyfriends Dad Hates Me

My boyfriend's dad hates me!!?

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we even live together but his dad still trying to split us up. You see my boyfriend works for his dad at his resturant and he had started a rumor or went a long with a rumor that my boyfriend cheated on me with a girl that worked there. I know he always tells my boyfriend that he should get rid of me, and I am crazy, all kinds of things like that. He asked his dad not to say it around him but he still talks bad about me. I love my boyfriend very much and for him I would love to have a civil relationship with his fauther becuase his real mother died when he was twelve. I don't know how to deal with this becuase when I hear about what he says or what ryan may have done I get very up set and it causes problems between us. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

My boyfriends dad hates me?

Alright I've been dating my boyfriend for over 9 months & I can sense both of his parents don't care for me I basically have like stage fright in front of his parents I'm really awkward in front of them so that's why they didn't like me to begin with But this last weekend I went camping with his dad & my boyfriend & my mom bought us chips & food & water because I'm a vegetarian & his dad doesn't really know what I like to eat & my mom does spoil me a bit but I'm an only child & my dad died so I'm a large priority in her life So I guess he got mad because I accidentally drank half of some of the waters & opened a new ones & left chips out wile camping So he went home & started telling my bfs mom how spoiled & messy I am. I don't understand why he would talk crap on me when I've been respectful to him. Why didn't he just say it to my face? I don't want to be at my bfs house cause it's very awkward knowing he talks behind my back how should I go about this awkward situation?

My Boyfriends Dad hates me?

We are both 23, and have been together 3.5 years, yet his dad hates me and constanly tries to come between us.
My boyfriend had told me that if his dad wasn't aroud that we would be living together and that things would be easier for us, but it never happens.
his dad wants to be in every part of his life and when we broke up for a little while (because of his dad) his dad still contacted me telling me not to ever talk to his son again.
i don't know what to do anymore because i love him, and he tells me he loves me, but i don't think anything will change until his dad is gone, and i don't think thats an option

Dad HATES My Boyfriends Guts ??

my boyfriend comes from a really poor background he never new his dad cos his mom had a one night stand and never told his real dad his mom brings home boyfriend after boyfriend who she normally marries and she dosent pay any attention to my boyfriend he lives in a 2 bedroom council house with her but shes kicking him out on the streets to live my himself so she and her fling can have a bigger room ! i love this boy more than anything im what you would call upper class kind of lol i said he could come and live with me because i cannot just leave him on the streets (hes what you would call a chav but hes so kind and caring and loves me so much makes me feel so spectial) he sleeps with me in my bed cos i have a double bed and the biggest room in the house (we have 6 but he dosent want to sleep in a different room) where 15 and hes asked me if i WANT to have sex with him and i said im not ready and he respects that and still loves me all the same

I hate my boyfriend's dad?

More information requested. I am 23 years old. I am not childish. I try to live with his dad. Some how i made myself believe that one day his dad will like me for me. But lately it has gotten worse, that is why i am asking for help. Am i wrong for feeling this way about him?? His dad just brought a 5 bedroom house which is about 3000 dollars amonth for rent. Me and my boyfriend both pay rent. I don't talk back to him and i don't ever say anything. The worse thing i ever do is Hide in my room. Which his dad really hates. But why do i want to show my face when everything i do is a critisize? I get blame for my boyfriends idiotic mistakes, because to them their son can do no wrong. My boyfriend told me to wait patiently he will retire back to vietnam soon,i don't believe. His dad will forever hate me because i am not vietnamese. He try to tell my boyfriend how much better my roomate's girlfriend is than me she is viet but she drinks,tats, party, hangout with gangs, cussing. I dont do any

Boyfriend's dad hates me?

I have no idea what I ever did to make him hate me so much. He legit hates me. I wasn't ever rude to him or anything. Me and Jeff have been dating for over a year. His dad has hated me from the first meeting. As soom as I was in his presence, I turned my 'dapperness' on. I was extremy polite. I just don't get what I did. I have never made a move on Jeff in his presence. I always make sure Jeff instigates the kiss, or the hand hold when his father is around. He always gives me dirty looks, and ignores me when I speak to him. He doesn't like me in his house, he told me so. I know he doesn't have a problem with gays, beacuse when I'm not around Jeff and his older brother (who is also gay) are treated kindly. Why does he hate me so much?

My boyfriend's dad hates me?

I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and half and in that entire time, his dad has not said more than about two words to me. He has said hello to me once, and that was when I met him. Other than that, the only thing he says is "You're welcome" when I thank him for a ride home or I thank him for having me over. I'm very shy in general but I get along fine with my boyfriend's mom. Maybe I am wrong but I don't feel like I should have to be the one to welcome myself into his house...his dad doesn't even say hello when I come over or anything. (Example: My boyfriend and I were sitting in his living room watching tv when his dad got home from work. His dad stuck his head into the room to see who was in there and then just walked away down the hall without saying anything to either of us, not a word). My boyfriend told me that he doesn't think his dad likes me but he will not ask him why. He says that it is just too uncomfortable and intimidating. He does say, however, that it might be the body language I show around his dad. I don't do anything rude in front of his parents, ever. The only possible body language I can think of is that I cross my arms around his dad a lot. That, however, is something I am aware of. I cross my arms around his dad because he is awkward and uncomfortable to be around because I know he doesn't like me. I mean, who wants to be around someone when they know that they don't like them? I didn't start acting this way until I sensed that his father did not like me, so I know that can't be the reason he doesn't like me. One time, we went to a restaurant with my boyfriend's parents and his mom was talking to me and my boyfriend a lot and everyone was having a nice time. But his dad just sat in the corner with a pissed off look the ENTIRE night as if he would rather have been anywhere else in the world than where he was. I just don't know what to do...I want to know why he doesn't like me, but I don't think my boyfriend will ever muster up the courage to ask him. I guess I just want to know how to handle the situation in a positive way.