How can I console my boyfriend when he has nightmares of me cheating on him?
The core of these nightmares may be his subconscious working out his feeling like he cheated on you. He may have or may be, as roughly 60% of non married couples has a partner that's cheated/ing.The basis of any solid relationship is trust, honesty, and both mental and physical intimacy.I don't know either of your past histories, but there may have been cheating with you or your partner in the past, maybe you're working through an incident.There's a great saying "Show me, don't tell me" that's great advice when it comes to trust building.Trust is often easy to get, and easier to lose but very hard to gain back. Trust may never be fully restored if destroyed, the past isn't changeable but the future is.This also could be due to the way they were raised, if their parents cheated or divorced over faithfulness it may be ingrained in their psyche.Transparency is one way to gain trust back, so you could open up your phone and social media accounts, although they could be prepared beforehand so giving a password to the devices is one way of being transparent.If there's a reason for them to have doubts these nightmares are a sign of his subconscious trying to resolve them.Often it is the accuser who feels guilt and brings this up. I call it the "he who smelt it dealt it" philosophy and unfortunately is all too often true.So, if you really care about this relationship you can work on communication and trust building, with openness and honesty and remind them that this was just a dream.
How should I comfort my boyfriend after he has a nightmare?
Listening, and asking more questions. Clarification could help him realize why the nightmare was frightening, and maybe to reduce the stimuli that caused it in the first place too.Give him a hug and try to validate his feelings, say “it sounds like it was a terrible dream, you must have been scared”, never say “well it isn’t real” because you aren’t demonstrating therapeutic communication, just trying to shut him up.I’m sure you will do fine, but always be comforting and ask more. Discussion helps.
Why does my boyfriend have nightmares about me dying?
I believe he is very connected with you and picking up negative activity against you. Someone could be using deadly witchcraft against you and they have put a block on your mind and your boyfriend is getting the info.Also, get a full medical check up done to be on the safe side and drive carefully.Check my blog and websites to educate yourself on the issue and see if other symptoms match your condition.
I've been having nightmares about my boyfriend leaving me for somebody else, does that mean it's gonna happen?
It means that you are very afraid of losing him. You love him. And with great love comes great fear of losing that love.Perhaps you will lose his love. But you will never lose yours. Your love and your capacity to love that you are experiencing now with him should become your fuel. All this love you feel comes from you is produced by your soul in answering to his love. But you can not really feel his love. You can only feel yours.It is why so many people get in trouble. They think the other person is making them feel love, but that is not true.You are what you love, and not what loves you back.And when you fully realize this, you will feel far less scared.Of course this is my opinion. So you can ignore it if it does not resonate with you.What is important is that you have to find out why you are so scared, talk with friends coaches, talk with your boyfriend. Do not make it secret. Approach your fear with kindness and patience. It certainly has an important message for you>
I told my boyfriend about my nightmare (he had another girlfriend) and how the idea of losing him made me so sad. Why doesn't he answer?
It was just a dream. It doesn't mean anything about him. It may mean that you are insecure about your relationship with him, but, if that is the case, you should discuss that with him directly and not make it about something as insubstantial and uncontrollable as a dream.
My boyfriend keeps having nightmares about me leaving him.?
My boyfriend for the past few weeks has been having nightmares about me leaving him or cheating on him. He's been on edge for the past few weeks because of it. I've never done anything to him to make him not trust me and he agrees with that. We've been together for a little over a year. His roommate had told him that he's been yelling and talking alot in his sleep. He's never really dreamed alot until now. And now it's always about me leaving. He even had a dreamed that I died and when he woke up it upset him so much he didn't go back to sleep. What's going on with him?
I had a nightmare my boyfriend raped me and I was crying begging him to stop but he wouldn't saying come on it's not that bad?
In the dream I was crying naked trying to fight him and cover myself and he was on top of me forcing me to lie down on the bed and said in a quiet way, like I was the one to be wrong, that it's not that bad and that He loved me. When i woke up I was shocked because my boyfriens was mever like that. He is a nice guy, maybe not the most extrovert or funny but he's a good boy, serious and responsible. He's 5 years older than me (I am 22) and I was innlove with him since the first time I saw him. Yesterday we went to the beach and he rested for the first time his head on my thighs and closed his eyes. I felt embarassed cause we're not used to physical contact (we've just started our relationship now before we were friends), and I never kissed someone before and I am so afraid of everything. When he was lying like that looked quiet like an angel and I felt so ashamed and afraid of him because of the fread. I also feel guilty for having that dream. Sometimes I would like to tell him about that so that he can confort me saying something but I'm sure he will wonder why I had that horrible dream. I dont know what to do. Would you tell your boyfriend about a nightmare like this?
My boyfriend said he has dirty dreams about me?
Well the dream shows that he is attracted to you or else he wouldn't have had that type of dream about you. But to tell you the truth he is obviously trying to indicate to you that he finds you physically attractive and he wants to have sex with you. And well him telling you about that dream was his way of letting you know this without him actually telling you that he wants to have sex with you. And he thinks you couldn't really get upset with him because he was just telling you about a dream he had. You have to ask yourself this question why did he tell me about that dream. He is already your boyfriend so he will find you attractive. Honestly it does not mean he just wants sex from you, but he is thinking about it and he wants you to think about it as well and i guess he is hoping for you to open up to the idea or atleast consider it. That is what i think is the reason he told you about those dreams he's having of you. Hope i helped.
Why do I keep having nightmares of cheating on my boyfriend?
I don't know, but I'm wondering if he is insecure and has said things that triggered this problem.Could it be that you actually have contemplated cheating? Ask yourself if you love him now as much as ever?Sorry for the questions, perhaps the answer to your question is within you.