Boyfriend called me high maintenance, not too happy with him?
I don't get it? Just because I care about my appearance that makes me high maintenance? When you put effort into how I look I feel that you care about yourself...? I don't go around buying expensive jewelry or purses. When I shop its for deals! And I love boots and heels! I love them only because I like the way my legs look in them but I barely wear them. He told me a low maintenance girl doesn't care about makeup and will cut her hair and blah. That's fine, but that's not me. I love makeup and I don't see how that's a problem? If he wanted a low maintenance gf he could find one I'm sure...but my question is, why is i consider to be high maintenance just because I like to look a certain way? I'm def not materialistic. I buy own stuff, I pay bills and offer to pay more so my bf can pay off his loans. Its not like I'm taking his money. Sorry guys this really pissed me off for some reason
My brother called me sexy? Is that normal?
Well, he didn't call me sexy directly. The 2 of us went swimming at our apartment pool. I was gunna teach him to swim cuz he never has. It was his 1st time at the pool EVER! So were at the pool then I take everything off & I'm just in my bikini & my bro outta nowhere looks at me & yells,"DAMN!!!" Then I looked at him all awkwardly & he acted like he was coughing to play off. It made me laugh tho cuz it was so obvious his cough was fake, LOL! Then I noticed the whole time he was staring at me. He never stares at me like he did that day. Is it wrong I that I really liked seeing him with his shirt off too. He is ripped!!! I never knew. I loved grabbing him & saving him & feeling him & his muscles every time he drowns. I felt his big thing rubbing on my front private area once when I was saving him, Is it wrong I liked it, That was the closet I ever got to one. He sucks so bad at swimming, LOL! I'm still teaching him. I'm sorry if I gross people out, he's just very cute & very nice & sensitive. We never fight & always hang out one on one, we don't hate each other like most siblings. Is this wrong? BTW I'm 16 & he's 17.
My brother always calls me ugly. What can I do?
You know, the only way to get past that kind of criticism is to not hear it. Shut a door, walk away, put on headphones, don't listen. Look, confidence is about what you are capable of, belief in yourself and your abilities. It is not about what you look like or what people say about you. And it is certainly not about any limitations you may have. One of the most confident people I have met was a young boy who couldn't swim and with his whole heart and soul, he loved being in the water. I was going to teach him how to swim and he wanted to show me what he could do. He was like a thresher shark attacking- bounding into the water, arms flaying, legs kicking, water splashing with the most unbelievable lack of skill. What I saw go through the water was like a storm brewing from the deep. He made it from one end of the pool to the other in spite of his lack of ability. When he got out he was smiling from head to toe. He'd done it, he'd swam, he was completely wiped out from all the energy expended but he'd done it. Here's what I'm saying to you. Your brother can only win if you let him. There will always be people out there who are mean, who get pleasure in putting others down, who tease and pick on others. You don't have to be one of those others. You can believe in yourself no matter what, even with your limitations you still have all the potential you are willing to put forth. Do that, be yourself, be all you can, and don't let any word another person says to you cause you pain. It simply is not worth it to let another person think they are better than you because no one is. And about asking him to stop. Don't. If you have the courage, look him in the face and say thank you for showing me how foolish some people are.
My brother always calls me ugly and makes fun of my pimples and weight?
Oh hon! I've been there! My brother and I are 3 years apart too. He used to call me a fat frizzy-headed freak! It hurts b/c that's you sibling and they are supposed to stand up for you. He's a teenage boy and he's trying to make himself feel superior to you. It used to get me down to and I had very low self-esteem b/c of him. Finally I quit listening to him and acted like it didn't bother me even if it did and he eventually stopped. Now I'm 23 and he's 26 and he's the fat one!!!! and I've lost my baby fat. (By the way....5'7 and 137 pounds is way far from fat!!!) Just keep your head up high and don't let him know it bothers you and eventually it won't. He will grow out of it eventually. Hang in there sweetie!!!
Why would a boyfriend say his girlfriend is too high-maintenance?
I think "high maintenance" means different things to different guys.But some things that mark a woman as "high maintenance" could be:You're too needy. That is, you rely on him too much for things you should do for yourself.You're too clingy. You don't have a life outside of him, and he doesn't want that responsibility of entertaining you and being your whole world. Your lifestyle is expensive and/or time consuming. You spend a lot of money on clothing, makeup, hair appointments, and you take forever to get ready for an event, even something as casual as a day at the beach. Going to a fast food restaurant, for example, is not for you-every day has to be an episode of "Real Wives", where putting on the ritz is mandatory.You whine about minor issues. You aren't a "roll with the punches" type of person-that can be exhausting to be around. Things in life sometimes don't go as planned, and whining about it doesn't help.You are difficult to please. He feels he cannot take you to a restaurant you'd be happy with, or buy you a gift you'd like, or plan a date you'd enjoy, or do you favors that you'd appreciate (see that "lifestyle is expensive and/or time consuming bullet).You are insanely jealous/suspicious. He may be tired of fighting with you every time he associates with a woman who isn't you. Men have female friends and/or associates and there are reasons why they'd want to meet with them on occasion.One thing you might consider, though is this:He might consider you "high maintenance" because he feels he cannot control you and he doesn't want to keep trying because you are a hard nut to crack-and in this case, you being "high maintenance" would be a very good thing. Controlling men are not the men you want.
My brother keeps calling me fat? im not but its really getting to me.?
I should say the right thing like, tell one of your parents or something, but eff that, you should get revenge. Figure out what HE'S sensative about. Has he ever had a girlfriend? No? Call him a loser virgin face (boys HATE being reminded that they're virgins) and say no girl will ever have him. If thats not workable pick out his biggest physical flaw, like is he short, or does he have no muscles or does he have acne, and CRUCIFY him with teasing about it. It could be anything! Maybe he has wonky teeth, or a weird nose. Ask him when is he going to grow facial hair, and actually does he even have hair in his pits yet? I probably sound like a nasty vindictive person, and I probably am, but not for no reason. This douchebag deserves it! And don't starve yourself anymore, in fact buy a big box of doughnuts and eat them all in front of him to show you simply couldn't give a fuc*k what he says :)
How much do you love your brother and why?
Love for family is like we can not express in wordsBrother is familyMy brother is 6 years elder than meWhen I was in college he used to take close watch on with whom I was talking and allI was scared of himHe was like father figure to meOurs was strict familyI said no to handsome guys ( unwillingly ) just by thinking results that if my brother comes to know then what will happenHe was working then and living away from usI was diagonised with typhoidThat time i was bedridden and I dont know why I keep calling himHe was on major project in officeWithout even thinking anything about office work he came next morningThat time I realised my importance in his lifeWe both roam around city and used to share evwrythingsHe used to call me “pyari”He pinched my chubby cheecks and ran away and I was like “ do not touch my cheecks, I will get pimple”Whenever I won any content or get good marks , he was happiest personWe started searching bride for himThat time too, I was most excited personI started searching rather I stalked girls a lot for him (haha) and in one marriage ceremony I found out one simple cute girl like I always wanted as my bhabi and called brother I send him foto only and praised that girl alot he said yes as I seem excited and convincingMarriage fixedI did everything as ours is small familyEvwrything went wellHe got married 3 years backThings are changed nowHe is more busy with family and careerWe rarely talkI miss my old bhaiMemories are beautiful :)I still love him like anything and want all happiness for him and will support him in any bad or good conditionHere is my brother pic with meLove your brothersThey are your second parent !!:)Thank you for reading