My brother is being blackmailed into sex should i tell my parents?
My younger brother is 18 and recently broke up with his girlfriend after he caught her cheating on him with another guy. His ex girlfriend had just turned 17 and she find out that she was pregnant. But my brother is not the babys father and they never had sex when they were together. I know this cuz my brother told me the whole story and I believe him because he was saving himself until marriage. She called my brother up the next day and told him she wanted to get back together and that she was sorry my brother rejected and she threatened to tell our parents that he got her pregnant. My brother went through it and he has been having sex with her ever since so she won't tell our parents that the baby is his but its really not his. This is when the other day I saw him in his room crying and he was sitting on his bed completly naked I covered him up and he told me everything that I'm telling you. Should I tell my parents what's been going on? My brother made me promise not to tell and could that be rape if he is being blackmaile by his ex? I am really worried about my brother I don't know what to do.
My mom wants to kick me out if I dont babysit?
I'm 17, live in newyork and my mom recently had a baby and ever since then shes been treating me like complete ****. All my life shes been a complete ***** and i know nothing will change that,but she had a little boy about a year ago and expects me to always babysit while the father does absolutely nothing. I get no thanks,no pay,no nothing,like hes my responsibility and i have no say with my life at all ,and if i dont do a good job,i get all these threats and bull crap from her,saying shes sick of me and wants me out already. It makes me feel like crap,i have no one to rely on. I dont know my biological father so i can't stay with him,and my step dad that i grew up with passed away.. I literally have no one.. mothers boyfriend doesn't give a **** and spends his whole ******* day sleeping while i babysit this child,but every chance he gets ,he rats on me to mother when i do something wrong,making her angry with me even more..I dont know what to do anymore..I'm not ready to live on my own..any advice?
URGENT HELP!!!! MY BROTHER KISSED ME ON THE LIPS PLEASE ANSWER I FEEL AWFUL?
it does, regrettably sound like he has feelings for you. be careful, but also, dont try and hurt him. it seemed from your essay xP that your parents arent okay with you having a boy friend? ("i'll tell dad") but it would be really worth having your boyfriend round for dinner. so your parents can see he is alright, after the meal encourage him to help you clear the table? make him look like a really nice guy. that way if your brother is just protective, then he can see that your boyfriend is no risk, and if your brother is somewhat more interested in you, then it will be a clear sign that you have chosen this guy over him. DO NOT, no matter what, dump your boyfriend to appease your brother, this will only encourage him. i hope this helps?
17 year old brother got his girlfriend pregnant?
Okay, first off just relax. I know everything is tense and angry but you can't do much. As someone said it's already happened. Don't worry about your parents, although they might be disagreeing and arguing now, it won't drive them to divorce or anything drastic. The emotions will calm and fade and everything will work out. It usually does. Not saying it's going to be easy but should the girlfriend decide to keep the baby, when your parents see their grandchild for the first time, I can almost guarantee they're going to be so happy and proud and not give a damn about how it came into the world. Think of how you're going to feel! You're going to be an aunt! What you can do to keep you from tearing apart? Focus on the positive! Make a decision not to play the blame game anymore. Support and focus on the girlfriend. Imagine how freaked out she must be. Work together as a team, making plans for the baby, getting everything ready, day-dreaming. Let the girlfriend know that you believe she should continue her schooling and will be there to support her all the way. Try to see this as a wonderful surprise instead of a hideous life-ruining event. Also this might be a good thing for your brother, make him realise he has to grow up now and appreciate everything your parents do for him. *Hugs* Everythings going to be okay. I hope you have a great time in tthe next nine months and....well, forever after. :)
URGENT HELP!!! MY BIG BROTHER KISSED ME AND I FEEL WEIRD :( !?
Try to compose yourself first so you can think more clearly. What your brother did was out of order!!!!! you need to find the strength and determination when you are on your own with him to say that he crossed the line and that it must never happen again....threaten him that if he even attempts to do it again or something similar ......you will tell your parents in front of him. You don't want to know why he did this and your not interested in hearing any excuses....affirm that you love him as a brother and nothing more...ever. He seems to have become a bit mixed up with a fantasy girlfriend and you as his sister.....it's gone past the protection feeling he has always had for you....to being jealous of your boyfriend/s, hence his rude and undeserving behaviour towards them....he's watched you blossom into an attractive young woman....and probably looks at you as a role model for the perfect type of girl he would really like to be dating. In all of these mixed up emotions some part of him has confused reality and fantasy and that's when he was brazen enough to stupidly think that you did/could feel the same way about him as he has probably been feeling about you for a long time. If he says anything that makes you think he will not accept your conditions....you may have to make the decision to tell your parents with or without him.....don't let them play it down.Could you move out?
I get treated like a baby and im 17!?
Jeez I feel bad for you all these people telling you off. Even a person that went through it told you off :/ Okay, well I'm 14 and during the summer I have no bed time... and the computer my mom bought for me but I can use as long as I want whenever. Now, YOU bought the computer with YOUR hard earned money. Therefore, at least if I was a parent, I would at least think you're entitled to using it whenever you want for as long as you want. Now please just don't talk back to them anymore, it only makes them want to "baby" you even more. From now on, I suggest, that whenever they tell you off or tell you to do something, just do it and remain quiet, but not like you have an attitude or anything. I don't care if I get thumbs down, no one was helping you they were only insulting you, so I just had to answer.