My brother is missing and Alabama police will not let us file a missing person report over the phone or by fax?
My brother last talked to my mother Thanksgiving 2008.He said he was staying at a motel(his wife and he are separated she has house)and he said he would call her in a couple weeks.My mother has been calling his cell phone it is off.His wife has been lying to my mother and said he dropped off Christmas presents for the kids and she has been talking to my brother and she said my brother didn't want to speak to my mom anymore that's why his cell is off.On Thanksgiving my brother told my mom he did have presents.My mom called last night to file a missing persons report and she gave his name and his wife's and they put her on hold Without my mom giving my sister in laws cell phone number they called her and she has not heard from my brother since June.What can i do?I know my story has jumped around and i could sit here and type more its just so crazy.I would welcome any advice.My brother is a grown man but the stories are not sitting well with me and that is a loved one someone that served in our military a father son,brother thank you to all that respond
When do you miss your mother the most?
When I left home for my higher studies in a different continent, I did not shed a single drop of tear at the airport while bidding goodbye to my family. I kept my firm through the 35 hour long sleepless (and almost foodless, thanks to Lufthansa) journey to a sleepy, tiny university town where I was greeted by faces of life I could never saw coming my way.Being a grad student in USA was harder than being a first-time-away-from-home 22 year old. Apart from the intimidating load of being a research assistant to a PhD advisor from the first day, a lot of other things seemed very new. Graduate courses, my grading job, different climate, culture, food habit, weird people, new friends, new climate, participation in various student clubs and activities - it was a whirlwind in which I found absolutely not a single moment for missing my family even remotely. I was just plain occupied with 16 hour workdays. I was myself extremely surprised at how strong I am in handling the situation while batchmates around me were quite homesick.Then, one day. It was a regular night. No special event, no special reason to miss my mother. I was sleeping like a dead person (like I used to during my 5-hours-a-nights) when I suddenly woke upto myself crying aloud "Maaaaa maaa maaa" - almost sobbing in my sleep with a tight ache in my chest. Tears were gushing out and I was in physical pain just with the amount of agony missing my mom.I remember being surprised yet liberated. Then I turned aside and fell asleep again.I realized that I always miss my mother from the deepest corner of my heart where I am still a baby. I always, always long and crave for her. It's an instinctive feeling down my subconscious that I cannot put a finger to, but I know that there has never been anything like it, and there will never be. She will never know how much I regret staying away from her because I never tell.Or maybe she knows.
I miss my dead father, help?
It has been around 5 months since he died, I'm only 18. It was a roller coaster ride ever since. Many horrible memories of having to face losing him. Having to see him laying in a f*cking coffin, having to choose the right urn for your dad, the funeral home smelled like crap. I'm afraid to go near the street it was located. The songs I listened to at that time I hate listening to it now. And I am never going back to the cemetery. I was always a happy person, after he died I can't call myself that anymore. Its not that I'm sad all the time, I just feel distant towards everybody. My main feeling is this emptiness, I'm somewhat an idealist and I feel like a family has to be perfect (a mom, a dad, and child), now my life will never be complete always missing that one piece. I can't shake this feeling away since its just me and my mom now, to me two people hardly seems a number called family. I feel like this situation is so strange, like its a dream, but I know its not, I will never wake up from it. Sometimes I think I deserve all this, I never appreciated him, I never missed him when he was away when he was alive. I want to talk to him so bad, tell him how I miss him, ask him how he is, but I wont get a response. If you lost your mom or dad tell me what you do when you're feeling the way I do. If you want,share your story with me as I did mine.
Can I call the police on my brother?
Well long story short, I hate my older brothers very existence. He makes coming home the worst thing in the world. I hate my life because of him. In all honesty I sometimes fear from my life at night because of how violent he can be and he use to beat me (if he does it again I have 5 guys all stronger than him that would help me if it ever happens again.) But my brother has been drinking heavily every night and he gets violent and starts Breaking things. Well tonight be broke my only two Xbox 360 controllers by throughing them at our living room window (which now has a huge crack in it) those are about $40 each. He threw some of our glass cups and of course broke the . My dad for some reason refuses to kick this worthless piece of **** out even though he is almost 25 and hasn't done anything except play on his computer since he dropped out of high school at 18. I myself an 19 and have just started college. I have to wake up every morning at 4:30 am to take the 3 buses to school. Well tonight when he broke my controllers he also woke me up two different time because he was yelling and throwing stuff which shakes our whole apartment. I am tired of this. This happened almost every night and I can't stand it. I've lost so much of the little sleep I can get after work because of him. He makes me crazy and with not being able to support myself I can move out. I hate my life because of him and his issues. He constantly puts me down and I really can't take it anymore. Can I call the police on him? Should I call no -emergency?
Any crazy Christmas stories?
i always go out and get wasted christmas eve with my boys and come home early in the morning to my mom and sister. once i our party got busted up by the cops and i got brought home christms morning by the police(no charges because of christmas but they took my keys until i got home) and i was still drunk nd was like MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ONE AND ALL
Is there a 'Syndrome' for missing someone?
Yes, the Missing Person Syndrome. I am surprised you haven't heard of it before. Psych! Just kidding. The problem is that it has only been three days. It takes much longer to get over someone you cared about. However, this too shall pass. Trust me when I tell you that a year from now, you will have moved on. If I were you, I would go to a quiet place every day and allow myself to feel the pain of loss and sit with it quietly. You will find that you can acknowledge the pain and it also won't kill you. Many of us spend so much time trying to prevent ourselves from feeling pain, that we never realize that emotional pain is not going to kill us and in fact will make us stronger fi we learn to handle it. It is the trying to avoid the pain that makes it last much longer. It is OK to feel sad and to feel emotional pain over losing someone.
What is the strangest IIT JEE story?
Not IIT but MAINS.This is my story of JEE MAINS 201515 Minutes before exam paper was distributedI was sitting on my seat and was meditating and concentrating on my exam. Suddenly a guy 6 Feet tall (say Mr. X) came towards me and asked:X- Aur bhai kaisa h? (How are you Brother?)Me- Mein theek hu! (I am fine!) but in my mind I was like Kaun h bhai tu Mein nhi Janta tujhe.(Who are you bro, I don't know you.)X- tayari hogyi? (are you prepared?)I thought if I said yes, then he would disturb me for the whole exam. So to avoid him I tried to speak in Haryanvi language, so that he would think that I am not a studious fellow.Me- Dekh bhai tayari ka ke h? Maine to form bhi na bhara tha berani kab mere baap ne bhar diya aur subah bolya ki aaj paper deke aaiye! (What is preperation man? I didn't even fill the form, my father filled it up and today morning told me to go and give the exam.He got reluctant as I was quite successful in making him feel that I am a dumb fellow!X- Bhai ye side wala hoshiyar lag raha h iska dekh lenge! (The boy next to you looks intelligent we should cheat from him.)Me- Haan bhai sab taap denge! (Yes brother we will copy everything from him!)Bell Rings Suddenly. I was like let me concentrate!<