I feel like my brother is stealing my friends?
My brother recently got a facebook. He had his own friends and I had mine. Anytime I would even talk to his friends, he would get angry. Now he has been adding my friends. He's friends with their little brothers, so he thinks it's ok for him to add their older sisters (which are my friends). I don't want him in my group of friends. If I don't include him, he goes crying to my mom. I end up getting grounded and he gets his way. He never includes me with his friends. He's 13 years old. I'm getting angry. He will talk me down to my friends. I don't want him involved with my friends. A few of them have told me he's creepy, but he flirts with some of them. He gives them mixed messages and I'm left to clean up the mess when their heart is broken. It's messing up a bunch of my friendships. He knows how I feel about it. He doesn't care. He's being invited to my friend's parties and they have invited him to hang out with them. They invite me too but I decline. I don't want him involved with everything in my social life. I want some things that are just mine. What should I do? My parents don't see any harm in it, but it bothers me. Those are my friends. He has his own friends. I want my own. I've told him multiple times that it bothers me. He doesn't care. Some of my friends understand my embarrassment, but others don't really care. They still talk to him. He knows I sit in my room and cry. I feel like my friends are choosing him over me. Even is he has no connection with them, he will still talk to them. He knows how I feel but he doesn't care. What should I do?
My Best friend is RUINING my life. HELP.?
this is NOT a healthy friendship. drop this ***** now before it's too late. the only thing you can do is tell your friends the truth. your real friends will forgive you, those who don't are missing out. it may take some healing time, but you seems like a genuinely nice girl and your friends should find it in their hearts to take you back. the best revenge is not to get back at her, but ignore her. block her from facebook and your life. don't talk smack about her to others. enjoy your life, do fun things, show her what she's missing. i believe in karma, so this girl's got another thing coming. be strong! talk to someone you really trust, like your mom or a good friend, and let them help you out. tell this girl in a nice but stern way that this friendship has to end because it's is negatively affecting your life. you got this!
My brother is ruining my life, help?
Ford: The "therapy" thing would work if he didn't go and whine to my parents after, usually causing them to lose it with my and meaning and I'd probably have a red mark/bruise on my arm afterwards. Not good. (and before anyone assumes anything I don't get abused by my parents -my brother's another thing- my mum's just the type who will hit you if you misbehave but only sometimes and for "discipline") ALSO when we get into fights (we're always in little scuffs with physical fighting) I always win -he runs off "crying" to my mum/dad- but he hits me a lot more than I hit him because I'm too much of a chicken to hit him too hard because he'll complain to my parents (I have done more than once after completely losing my temper but once it left him "unable to walk" after he had a "really bad bruise" on his knee even though he was somehow able to go on the trampoline.) and whenever I hit him, he cries, if he hits me, I just grin and bear it. He's even broken my wrist once after pushing me do
My brother is doing all this bad stuff?
yeah i'm 15 and my brothers 26 but he also started doing stuff like that at about 16. Now hes like in a real hole. He first started weed then cigarettes then alchohal then coccaine. He practically threw his whole life away. My parents really try to help him now but he wont go to reahab and my parents cant make him because hes over 21. You should definately tell your parents secretly because thats how it starts and then it ends badly. believe me my brother regrets starting anything.
My brother ruined my life?
I'm 17 and my brother is 15. This is what he did. - Told my whole school I was pregnant, now everyone thinks I faked a pregnancy. - Stole my phone and texted my boyfriend that I never wanted to see him again.. and now he avoids me and wont even speak to me. - Got on my facebook and insulted all of my friends... ex friends now, thanks to him. - Told my mom he saw me doing drugs. I would never do drugs.......... - Accused me of stealing at school, which got me 5 days of detention. He had completely ruined my life. I've lost my boyfriend, my friends and my parents trust over complete lies! Please help, what should I do?
My brother works as a cashier at a local store, he is 15. He stole 80 dollars from the register....?
If the store finds out he stole, they will most likely fire him. Tell your mom because you're doing the right thing.. he may even go to juvi. My friend's boyfriend is 16 years old and he stole at his work at he's in juvi for 6 months.. he's getting out in 3 weeks. It's because he has never been caught and he only told his girlfriend (my friend). She talked to him and he says he'll never do it again because he's afraid he'll lose her. Talk to your brother about it and ask him how important the job is to him .. tell him the consequences. Good luck!