My brother spies on me?
I know youre mortified, but its actually really normal. He is hitting puberty and so he wants to know what a naked chick looks like (in person), and youre there. Sounds twisted, but don't freak. If you have understanding parents, then they need to talk to him (probably best if it comes from a male role model). Its a sensitive issue that most families go through but don't talk about cause its taboo. He will be embarrassed when confronted, but that's part of growing up....same goes for having your little bro spy on you in the bath. A gross part of growing up.
My brother was spying on me while I was in shower ?
It's hard to say, Kyle. He may be just as confused about it as you are. He's noticed the changes in you, and he's starting to notice changes in himself. He's curious, he's finding himself a bit horny sometimes (and is still trying to figure that out), and he wants to know more but doesn't know how to find out. I, too, have an older brother, and I can tell you that I thought my older brother knew everything and that everything he did was the right (and cool) thing to do. I tried to emulate him in everything because I thought that's how I would be cool, too. Unfortunately for me, my brother treated me like dog crap on his shoe, so I couldn't talk to him or ask him about anything. I really wanted him to, so he could explain things to me and teach me. Thus I would recommend to you that you talk to your little brother. He looks up to you and respects you. You should sit him down and tell him you know about the webcam and you know that he is curious about what you're doing when you're alone. Ask him straight out what he is trying to do (he may not be able to articulate it very well, so cut him some slack on that), and tell him you will give him some guidance and answer what questions he may have, but that he must respect your privacy and not sneak around like that. Good luck, Kyle. I hope this helps, and I hope I haven't put too much responsibility on you - you're a youngster yourself. But being a good big brother is an awesome thing, and having read the answers you have posted to other people's questions here, I think you are smart observant, and have the maturity to handle this. (Should you wish to discuss this further or have other issues, you may contact me confidentially and privately through the email link on my profile. I'll take seriously what is serious to you.)
MY brother spying on me?!?
sooo creepy. im 17 my brothers 14 we get home from school nd i go upstairs to get changed. i always leave my door open i never think someones looking at me, and if i hear someone come up the stairs i close the door. but anyway, i get up in my room nd i take mu shirt off but i still have anothertee shirt underneathe. and hes like hiding behind his bed looking nd i pretend i dont see him and just go into the bathroon and just. this is the 2nd time. this is reeeally creepy. is it like normal for a boy????
Should I confess to my brother that I (technically) spied on him?
dude.seriously??you're 23 !!i feel you've lot of insecurities !i feel you are a nice person cause they're the ones that tend to overthink and complicate things.there is nothing to be ashamed of.you need not feel guilty cause the intension of you doing so was never for evil deeds.just chill man.you can confess to your brother if its bothering you so much.im sure he'd understand !reach out if you need someone to talk to!take care,you're gonna be just fine!
My little brother likes to spy on me while i'm changing clothes... is this normal for a 10 year old?
Unfortunately, it is normal. He is starting puberty and is curious. However, he is turning in the wrong direction. You will have to lock the doors and put towels under the crack to keep this from happening. Say something to him or your parents and try to not embarass him too much. It could scar him. He needs to learn that peeping is wrong, especially on his sister, and why.
Why is my little brother such a perv?
hes always trying to see me naked! hes only 11 years old. is that normal? he keeps walking in on me while i'm getting dressed or taking a shower. at first i thought it was just by accident but when it kept happening i figured out he was probably doing it on purpose so i had to start locking my door. finally he stopped trying to walk in on me. but then tonight, i went up to my room to once i thought everyone else was asleep. i locked my door and got undressed. i was feeling kind of spunky and i hadn't masturbated in awhile so i decided to do it on my bed while i was completely naked. but what i didn't know was that my brother was hiding in my closet with the door cracked open so he could spy on me! i didn't find out until after i was done and i heard something move in my closet. i got up to look and when i opened the door i saw my brother in there watching me and his pants were down and he was playing with himself. ew! i know he was masturbating too because his penis was hard and when i opened the door and caught him he started to come and some of it got on my legs and my socks before i could get out of the way. it was so gross! i didn't even know 11 year olds could come. i can't believe he was spying on me in my closet and that he saw me masturbate and that he was masturbating while he was watching me! i didn't even know he had hit puberty yet and i don't know why he thinks its ok to get turned on from seeing his sister naked. hes begging me not to tell my parents what happened but i think theres something wrong with him and they need to know about it, because thats not normal and he needs to stop doing it. plus he came on me! that almost made me throw up! it was gross. hes a sick perv and i think he needs to see a therapist. its not normal for an 11 year old to masturbate to his sister is it? i can understand him being curious but hes already seen me naked and now hes sneaking in my room to spy on me and masturbating in my closet. help?!?
Brother is a pervert, spying on me in shower?
Call the police and report sexual harassment.
What will you do if you find your brother spying you naked?
The question appear so confusing to me. Why would a brother especially an own brother would spy his sister when she is nude. If this is true then brother is morally wrong and he is looking for an incestuous relationship with his own sister. I cannot think of any other condition when a brother would spy on his nude sister.As for myself, I and my younger brother are very close from the childhood. We have even bathed with each other totally nude in our childhood. Till very late in his adulthood, we use to sleep with each other on the same bed. It would be strange for foreigners but for Indian origin people, these things are not so uncommon. It is only very recent that I have asked him to sleep separately. Otherwise, he would be used to it and his future wife may have a problem thinking about us in a negative way when in reality our love is purely platonic.He has even occasionally seen me nude due to accidental reasons. It mostly happens when the bathroom door lock gets faulty and he tries to enter bathroom not knowing that I am inside and taking a bath. It can and has happened in certain other conditions as well. This doesn't mean my brother would start liking me in an incestuous way. We have grown together and such things are unlikely to happen.In case if I feel that he has developed incestuous feelings for me then I would have a small talk with him. I would clearly state to him that I have observed something about him which I feel is morally not right. These things cannot be morally accepted by any society and that he has to find a way to get over that feeling. A sister is not a girl to which a brother should attach his sexual feelings. Short and Simple!
How does a girl deal with her younger brother who is caught recording a video of her taking a bath?
With the access that teens have to internet porn, if they are just curious or horny, they can just find anonymous porn that way. The fact that he used a hidden camera says that his behavior is premeditated and malicious. His recording of his sister goes way beyond an innocent pubescent viewing of female nudity. It borders on being predatory. It is also a serious boundary violation of his sister's privacy. Further, we don't know if he has been doing this secret recording for a while, what other situations he has recorded and whether he has uploaded any of it to the internet.So yes, I believe that the parents should be told. Since he is only 15, they are responsible for his behavior within the household and how it affects others in the home. This boy's behavior could be the beginnings of a serious problem that, if it escalates to others outside the home, could cause damage to countless others and result in serious legal troubles for himself. Predators don't stop on their own. This should be addressed immediately.As others have mentioned, it is possible that some situation in the home involving the parents has created this environment. If so, will they effectively deal with the problem? However, even given this possibility, I think that the situation must come to light. It is time for any family secrets that have remained hidden in the closet to come out of hiding.
I caught my 16 year old brother spying on me while I was getting undressed. How can I deal with this so that it doesn't happen again?
This is going to be a controversial answer so bear with me.So ok let's start with society and it's opinions on sexual maturity and acceptable behaviour.Society deems sex as taboo in most places, something very private and between two adults not related and commonly male/female. Acceptable behaviour has become so strict that children are being brought up ignorant of all things sexual.This poses a problem when children become teenagers and puberty kicks in, they are brought up with the idea nakedness is shameful and should be hidden, it then becomes exciting when it is chanced upon. The hormones flying around in a teenage body, the newly developed arousals and the natural urge to procreate are difficult to handle for any person, especially if they haven't been taught properly.Your brother acted on instinct which is against what society deems acceptable. If it isn't nipped in the bud he could associate that euphoria of seeing you getting undressed and the adrenaline rush of getting away with it into a genuine sexual rush, trouble is to replicate that rush he has to step it up further and further. Obsessive compulsive behaviour could potentially go unchecked, sexual euphoria is addictive.The more you try and discourage and impede his chance to do it again the bigger the seduction of doing it becomes for him. If you're older than him then talk to him, ask him why he did it, get him to open up about it. Then discuss the socially acceptable behaviour regarding your body and the privacy you require.The most common root cause of this kind of thing is lack of accurate sexual education from parents and what to expect with puberty, how to deal with sexual arousals and urges. A conservative attitude is problematic.(forgive my assumptions based on the lack of background and context)