My Cousin Is Ignoring Me

Why is my cousin ignoring me?

Hi,
My cousin is ignoring me... Also his friend is too, we usually talk, this morning we talked as usual ( instant messages) but then I asked if he is going to play today, (this game on the PC) and he just ignored me, and so has his friend - I logged on and saw them playing, as soon as they finsihed the game they both logged off straight away - is this because they dont want me to play with them, is he angry with me?? Does he not like me?? I'm younger than he is - I usually play with both of them. He is still ignoring my messages..

Thanks

My cousins ignore me?

That's so hard to be the odd one out, especially during the holidays! They are probably apathetic to your situation because they already are so tightly knit together and feel comfortable in their little clique. They can't understand how it feels to be so left out since they are always together. Sometimes it is just easier to relax and hang out with the people you know/have history with than try to make new bonds.You could try to talk to your sister and ask for her advice since she's able to be friends with some of your older cousins. Otherwise, do you think you and your cousins share some of the same interests? Even if you don't have shared experiences, you could try to talk to them about stuff like clothes, music, movies... etc. You could try to reach out to them individually and let them know you feel sort of left out at gatherings and see if there's something you could do together at the gathering, like play xbox or board games or anything like that, just to socialize. Maybe even ask your dad or uncle if there is some kind of game everyone could play as a family or an activity so everyone is included. If they are open to it, then they probably would be happy to be friends with you... and maybe they just figured you were a loner and standoffish and wanted to be left alone. The other possibility is that they are truly just rude, that they don't think they share any of the same interests with you and that they don't want to make any effort. In that case, there sadly isn't much you can do but try to entertain yourself at the gatherings.. like bring a good book or ipad or phone to play games on... but I'd say to keep trying until you are sure they are not going to make any effort or just don't care. It's hard, but you all could turn out to be great friends in the end!

Why is my cousin ignoring me?

I can totally relate to you! I have a few cousins that I don't see often. When I do see them, we don't talk much. I don't really think it's because they were ignoring us. Maybe it's because we just haven't seen each other in a very long time, so we don't really know where to start talking again.

Why do my cousins ignore me?

I have several cousins who ignore me... yet, they will happily be friendly with other mutual cousins we have, even if those mutual cousins of ours don't even pay attention to them or visit them. I had a great relationship with them and we even hung out- but then my grandmother passed away. I was the favorite grandchild of this grandmother of ours- they personally never met her, seriously. But, I have been nice to them throughout all this time, and very cordial, even on Facebook. However, they still don't want to talk to me unless they want to show off something they bought- plus, they prefer commenting on my sister's Facebook- they personally never met that sister of mine (since my sister and I have different fathers, long story), plus she lives in another country. I feel as if they have something against me- what it is, I have no idea. My father believes they are extremely jealous of me, but I am still in denial of that. We never had a falling-out and we never argued or fought about anything. They never invite me or visit me like they do the other relatives, either. Should I bring it up or just ignore them?

My cousin is ignoring me, how do I get my items back?

I let her borrow some clothing & other items, while I was out of town, a month ago. She went to my house to get the items and we agreed, verbally, that she would bring my stuff back when i came home. I got back to town last week. She’s aware I’m back & texted me, asking me for $400, I didn’t respond. I texted her yesterday, “Let me know when you will be bring over my stuff”. I know she seen it because she left me on “read” & she made a Facebook status stating “I love to ignore people that text me, but didn’t reply to my text”. The items that I have proof of owning value $550. I don’t want to pop up at her house because it won’t be a pretty sight. I didn’t want to go to Small Claims Court, if I can avoid it, because I would have to pay the fees. What are my options? Could I go to the police station & ask them what to do, or accompany me getting my stuff?

Why does my cousin ignore me?

She on my mom side I only see her if there's an special occasion or when she drops something off. A couple of times I would say hi she would never answer back. Then a couple months ago she's talking to my brother who is tipsy and I said hi to her she just looked me in the eye and no response back. I don't know what I did wrong and it happened multiple times

Why my cousin keeps ignoring me when her older cousin visits her?

She's a b*tch.. I've got a cousin just like this, and I say that if she wants to be inconsiderate and pull b*tch games, then don't give her the satisfaction of being nice. You have the right to be a b*tch if she is. Don't let your conscious get in the way with this situation. Ignore her, and if she doesn't like it, then too bad! It's no big deal. Think of it in a light hearted way. And if it really bothers you, then casually and lightheartedly confront them. Say something along the lines "Hey, I have a question for you: Why the f*ck do you ignore me? You're mad rude!" . If you want to, you can tone it down a little, but if she gives she lip or ignores you or jerks you around, then say "f*ck you. You're mad rude! I'm too nice!"

And honestly, if you wind up sitting with her little brother, maybe it's time to make friends with the little brother. After it is family, and it is one more person in your life. Don't look down upon being friendly to your other cousins, because that is kind of b*tchy. That kid will grow up to be an adult, anyway. Maybe the little brother wants to make friends with you!

My cousin's wife keeps ignoring me as if I'm interested in her, its annoying me?

My cousin married this woman exactly 3 years from today. They are in their mid to late 20s and his wife loves my cousin more than I've seen any other couple loving each other. She is always calling him her love and everything on Facebook.

Every time there is a family gathering, my cousin is super chill. He is always joking around with us, he likes to have fun with us. He is also very caring. He always happy to see me and his relatives. When he greets me, he sometimes jokes around by tickling me or something. His wife though, she will see me, show a weak to decent smile, IF I offer a handshake, she will do no more than 1 second handshake and quickly let go. She won't even greet me if its not obvious. Its like she doesn't want to talk to me. I've never had any bad intentions of her. She's known me since my early teens. I'm a male, now 19.

One evening I was at a party. When everyone was leaving, I was talking to one of my cousins who is a lady. She is one of the nicest I've known. The wife comes, she straight up kisses her goodbye, and I'm right there ready to say goodbye, and she ignores me and walks off. She respectfully communicate with my parents and two older sisters. I'm the only son. Her family is one of the nicest I've met. They greet me in a welcoming manner.

Even my cousins who married their wives from other countries, we always joke around. We treat each other as family. But my cousins wife is frustrating me. What she did at the party I'm never going to forget.