I cheated on my boyfriend with my cousin!?!?!?!?
*cough*slut*cough*
My Boyfriend Cheated On Me With His Own Cousin?
Blessings, that is so sad and kind of sick for taking advantage of His own young cousin, you can fix the problem so easy if you really want to just tell her mom and dad and hope your boy friend will leave her alone. You need to forgive him for your baby, but we are different i will never get intimate with him again, because it can happens again and he has to be careful because she can go to the cops and he can go to jail for messing with a minor. Good luck take it easy and take good care of the baby.
My cousin's boyfriend raped me?
I'm 16 and I recently started talking to my cousin (17) after almost 6 years of not speaking because of a fight between our parents. Long story short, I went out with her and her boyfriend a few times. The other day, me and him were waiting for her to go back to work because she left her purse there (her work is about 30 minutes there and 30 minutes back so she was gone a while). Long story short, basically he just asking me why we hadn't spoke in so long and then started complimenting me like saying "If I had a hot cousin like you, I wouldn't want to show them off either." After a few more minutes, he kissed me. I've never been kissed before (never had a boyfriend or a date). He was like "She's not here. She'll never find out." and started like pushing me down and kissing me. I pushed him off and tried to walk out but he stopped me. We did have sex and I definitely didn't want to. He hurt me really badly. I've got bruises all over my arms for one. I'm not pregnant though. I know. I don't want to tell my cousin because I'm afraid of turning her away (we've only been speaking a few weeks) because she really likes him a lot but I don't want her dating a jerk that could do that to her. I don't want to tell my family because they're really heavy on sex before marriage and don't understand rape. Basically to them, the girl probably lead the guy on or something and that it's always the girl's fault. What should I do? Please help.
My boyfriend ignored me when his cousin was around and then looked at porn of blondes?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 going on 10 years and yesterday was very upsetting. His grandmother is dieing and we went to the hospital to see her. His uncle was there and I told him that I want to give my boyfriend and her a moment alone. And SO SHOULD OF THE UNCLE But wouldn't leave! I was upset about that but I still staid out side and respected my place. I expected him invite in after they has their time. But the aunt and his cousin came in from New York like5 mints after my bf went in &the cousin walked by me like all strutting and was trying act all hot and sexy and gave me a weird snotty face. I was very upset and was stunned at how she walked by me like that!get over yourself! After awhile of my bf and his grandmother trying to talk over everything being load he came out with his cousin because they were running test and he was acting like i was a stranger & he was all into her! its just He completely ignored me!!! & the cousin loved it and was all into talking to him! So I stormed out and every since have been completely broken! I am so confused at how my bf gets his jollies off by trying to make me jealous, of his own COUSIN!! he always does this BTW! He used to do it to me with his Mom. His family r all nuts & flirt w/ him! i swear!I think they're all ****** crazy! The woman in his family have always been jealous and rude to me. I yelled at him & he acted sorry/stupid of his actions. That night he watched porn of blondes that looked like the cousin!
What is it like to be married to your cousin?
Edit 1- Thank you so much for the response. I actually decided to write after reading this:Anonymous's answer to What are some personal stories of being emotionally manipulated? I’ve been emotionally manipulated by my younger sister for over a decade. I now have low self-esteem, an avoidance of children and tweens, and a warped view of self.Whoever you are, I wish you all the best in your future endeavors and keep fighting. You gave me courage to write my own story. And there's a commenter who asked, 'why go anonymous if you're so proud?' I'm proud of myself for getting out of a marriage I don't like. I'm proud of myself for going against my parents because I trust and believe in my decision. I'm proud of myself for surviving without expecting any help from them.This is why I’m proud of myself.This is not an article with arguments, this is a declaration, for those of us who have survived.Cheers and have a wonderful day. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I was married to my cousin (my mom's brother's son) when I was just 17.I am from a typical south Indian family, wherein most families, girls are married off at a very young age. And my family follows the tradition strictly.My mom was married when she was 15.My grandma? 12, yes, TWELVE.I was married to my cousin who was studying in Chennai, and he was 22. I've never seen him in awhile and I remember playing with him when I was a kid. Our marriage was hard and difficult. He didn't like getting married to me and I was too young to know the trouble my family put myself into. We didn't behave like an ordinary married couple. He would sometimes yell at me, and leave the house early in the morning and get back home at late night. It was years later I discovered that he actually loved some other girl in college and they were still in contact even after the marriage.I soon distance myself from him and we only have a minimal conversation.I was turning 22 and I thought the life I live is meaningless. I don't find happiness in this marriage and I felt like I was being a burden to him.I filed for a divorce even when my family threaten to disown me. I left my family and choose to stay and work in Bangalore. Currently, 25, still single and couldn't be prouder.
My boyfriend gets mad that I like parties and he doesn't want to be with me if I'm gonna be like that?
FYI = I'm 19 and he's 25 I've never been to any parties or clubs in my life. Last Saturday I went to a party with my best friend, and my boyfriend got really mad. He asked if any guys hit on me, and I told him yes but that I rejected them and pushed them away (which I really did, because I would never cheat on my boyfriend, I love him too much). Anyhow, it's been a week since that happened, and today my friend went to a St. Patrick's party and didn't invite me because she assumed I would say no since my BF doesn't like that stuff. It bothered me, and my BF could hear it in my voice, so he asked what was wrong. I told him it was nothing, but he kept asking until I finally told him what happened and that I actually wanted to go (I'm at home doing nothing, and I can't even see him cause he has no car..). Anyway, basically he got really mad and said that if I was gonna be the "party girl" type, he didn't wanna be a part of my life (mind you we've been together for a year, and he's always been telling me how im the one etc etc.. blah blah blah) and that he found it disrespectful that I would go to a party where a bunch of guys would be drunk and hitting on me. I told him nothing would happen and that he has to trust me, but he said it's not that he doesn't trust me it's that he doesnt trust other guys and what they could do when theyre drunk.. I'm 19 and I want to have fun and party with my best friend, but he says he can't deal with that in a relationship. I dont know what I should tell him cause I do love him, but I don't want to put my life on hold because of his fears. He says he quit partying/drinking out of respect for this relationship but wtf that was his choice right? idk what to do.
Should I give my boyfriend oral? Im 14.?
Okay look... I have been with my husband since we were 15. I know how you're feeling right now (we waited a year before doing anything sexual too). Is he 14 too? If so, great! Read on. If not, then please realize that everything I'm about to say no longer applies (if he's older, then that changes the dynamics of the situation). Like someone else said, he *will* tell, and even if he doesn't do it to intentionally hurt you, everyone will find out and you will have a different reputation (and you still have a few years left of school) so seriously think about that. And, like someone else suggested, you can give him a hand job instead. Mutual masturbation is pretty enjoyable! BUT... if you are going to do this, you need to make sure he gives YOU oral sex FIRST! Seriously. Don't ever, ever, ever go down on a guy who won't go down on you first. And by the way, oral sex IS sex!!!! You can get STDs in your mouth and throat. And it will eventually lead to you losing your virginity sooner than you think. I'm not trying to be mean, just letting you know what will happen. Sex is something that, once you start it, you live in the moment and the best made plans go flying right out the window! It really is that good :)
My mom wont let my boyfriend come over?
6 months ago i started talking to a boy i met on facebook and we ended up becoming boyfriend & girlfriend. I have video chatted, talked on the phone, texted, and video chatted while talking on the phone with him so i knew he was real. Its a long distance relationship because he lives by my cousin who lives an hour away. I got reallllly realllly close with him and i trust him. A week ago i was staying at my cousins house and i snuck out and met him for the first time. I dropped my phone while i was sneaking out and i just left it there and got in his car. Tonight he was supposed to come over and my mom told me she didn't want him coming over because he was a "stranger" and he might kill me or rape me. But hes not a stranger. I told her i have met him before and if he wanted to do something to me, he would have done it then when nobody knew where i was (i know it was dangerous to not have anyone know where i was) She also wants to talk to his parents but we have kept our relationship a secret from them because of our age. And she wants to know why he can't come during the day but he can't come during the day because we are both homeschooled and stay up all night and sleep all day, then we have things to do so nighttime is the only time we are free How do i convince her that its safe for him to come over?
Is it okay/common if your boyfriend/husband throws or breaks things in anger in front of you with no intentions of physically hurting you?
As many have said, I also agree that that is a BIG no.I feel like much of this has already been well established, but hear me out —A person who throws or breaks things purposefully in front of you, particularly the latter, is threatening you. It’s not an uncommon threat display for YOUNG males to do when they feel like they aren’t having their way or when their sense of control/dominance is compromised. This is something teenagers and children do, just so we are clear. It is NOT something an adult should be doing. For an adult (over 20–25) to do these immature displays of strength and superiority (which is what it comes down to, anthropologically; he’s showing off how big and strong he is, showing you what could happen to you) demonstrates a compromised ego (as in the psyche) and failure to come to grips with his own emotions. Likely, he never learned how to properly deal with his feelings, be them of anger or otherwise.You can not change that.So many in this situation believe that if they continue on and set a “better example” of the way they want to be treated, that their partner will “learn” how to behave better.It doesn’t work.You can’t help the way he was raised or the reasons for his issues. But you also can not help him change.The only thing you can do in this situation is to get out of it. Leave him. Ignore his angry outbursts and whatever threat he might throw at you, and WALK AWAY. It might hurt, but the pain in your emotional heart will hurt a lot less than the pain of bruises and broken bones later on.