Why does my dad always yell at me at little mistakes?
Your Dad might yell at you for a bunch of little mistakes for a whole bunch of different reasons. But the most important thing is what you do with it. You have some choices.You can consider each specific issue he yells at you about and decide if you think you should make improvements there or not.If you think improvements could be made you could tell him so but also tell him that you find it hurtful and disrespectful when he yells are you irrespective of whether he is right or not.You can understand that in some cases you will feel like his yelling isn’t warranted. You can ask him questions to clarify why he yelled at you in those cases and if you still don’t agree with him or you can tell him so or not. Your choice. But again you can express your dislike for being yelled at.You can educate him by researching what the impact is to kids who are verbally abused and ask him to stop. You can tell him that that behavior is both hurtful to you and to your relationship with him. You can seek help with this from your Mom or other relatives or teachers if you need help.You can be an example to him by always being respectful to him and not yelling back even though you might feel very hurt.But the most important thing is you can be kind to yourself and remind yourself that no matter how much yelling you are worthy and special and will not lose your love or respect for yourself.I think you are brave and courageous and an amazing person for not internalizing this and asking the question. And I think that because you are courageous enough to ask the question, you’ll now address it the best you can. I wish I had been as courageous as you when I faced the same.
My Dad always blames others?
IT MAKES ME SICK! (sorry.) I'm an extremely respectful person. I do everything he wants me to do. I'm never mean to him. But he keeps being an a**hole (again, sorry.) sometimes. Mostly. He threw all my stuff away. It was in a box, because my sister came over and I had to time to clean up. There was my iPod (luckily just the shuffle), Money, some other stuff and my retainers (this brace thing) in. And he just thew it away. He threw the hole box away. Without looking what's inside. And now all he does is blaming me for putting my stuff in there. But it was him that didn't tell me my sister would come over. If he would have told me, I would have had time to clean up. And now I have to go to the orthodontist tomorrow, even though I know I can't have a new retainer. My dad won't pay for it, because all he does is blaming me for putting it in the box, and I won't pay it myself because like I said, he threw my money away, not all, but I wanted to buy an iMac, not a brace. And you can't even talk with my dad, because he will just walk away. :'C
My dad is always unhappy with me?
I am a b.tech student,,21 years old,,i got placement in a renowned company,but it got cancelled coz i failed 1 subject last semester,,wen my dad heard dis he is always blaming me that i never listened to him n thats y this has happened,,he has put the blame on my mom that she's responsible for me being so indecipline,,till now not a single teacher of mine has complained about my behaviour,bt my dad is always insultin me in front of others..when i study,he wil start giving lectures removing all my concentration from the subject.he wont allow me to talk to my frnds on phone for more than 7-8 mins,,even he doesnt allow me talk to boys..i do talk to them wen m in school,but cant talk to them when dad is nearby,he wont let me text or chat wid my frnds..i am so tired of all this!please give me a solution!
Why does my dad always find a way to get mad at me for something and pick fights?
May be, he as well as you, both are Alpha personalities. So he likes his demands to be put into effect while you like yours.As of now I don't know your age. If you are someone who is of school age, my suggestion is to listen to his advice. He has lot more of worldly experience than you. But he would have grown up in 60s, 70s or 80s. So listen to his advice, progress it fast forward to 2018 and do it according to today's values.Listen to him and his suggestions if you are an adult. If he is a strong personality as he seems, if you listen and put in practice his advice you will also develop into a very strong independent woman. The world very much needs a lot of women voices as well.Always try to look at what he is saying than being dragged into emotional fights. Once he feels you are listening to what he says and values it, the fights will reduce and you will find a great mentor in your dad and your relationship with him will grow closer.See the wisdom behind his words and embrace it fully.All the very best! Regards,Swaroopa Blog.
Why does the oldest sibling always get blamed for everything?
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Why does my dad always put me down?
I'm 14 years old and I am a high school freshman. Almost every day, my father blames me for his problems. Same with my little brother (we have been fighting for years). Also, whenever I get into an argument and me and my brother insult each other, my dad always gets me into trouble and not him. For example, when I insult my brother, I immediately get grounded. Whenever he insults me, my dad couldn't care less and just shrugs it off. Recently, I used my dad's computer with his permission. I logged him out of skype and logged myself in. When I logged out, the next day he's on his computer MAD at me saying I broke his computer. First off, the real problem was that he forgot his password. And of course I'm the one to blame. This morning he said he spent $50 trying to "fix the computer. At first, I didn't understand. He ONLY forgot his password, and by trying to create a new skype acct and purchasing loc software, he only made it worse. Now he wants me to give him $50. My mother went missing in 2006, so I don't have anyone to back ME up. Accept for the moms and dads of my friends. My dad thinks he's a wonderful dad because he takes us on vacations, etc. But the problem is that he never spends time with me or my brother to really get to know us good. I think you get the point. Any way I can fix this problem??
My mom always blames me for all her problems, even though she knows it's her fault. How do I confront her?
I do not know what your religious beliefs are. But, one of Gods 10 commandments are to honor you Father and Mother. Things can go very wrong if you do not honor your Mother, even if you feel she is wrong. God see the heart. Once you honor her for obedience and God see your heart, it could change things around. Once you become a Mother yourself, you may realize all the things you put your Mother through and have regrets, because your daughter could be doing the same to you.
Why does my dad blame me for everything?
He’s a bad father. Children do what they see their parents do. If he can’t get his act together, you can only copy from his own failures. Maybe he realizes this himself and just get’s angry at you for not being more knowledgable then him… I guess he wants you to raise him, not the other way around. I’m sorry he’s like that. Please seek help, friend you can talk to. It’s not you, it’s him failing you.