Me and my dad just got in a heated argument, what do I do?
This may sound super stupid and I don't want to sound like a rotten *** kid so here goes. We were having a normal night sitting, watching tv. Then he asks me to turn the sprinklers off and he knows I have trouble doing it. I suggested he do it and he just said no go do it. So I said ok. im 17 by the way. It's a pretty complicated system so I turn the valve the wrong way, it comes off and sprays water every where . I walk back inside and say dad I need your help. He's like why? I unscrewed the head off of it. Then he called me a ******* retard and slapped me in the back of the head. I am not one to just get hit and do nothing about it. I proceeded to say after "wow that was uncalled for". That's where he got pissed and got in my face yelling . My mom tried to get us to stop. And she took my side saying to my dad you're supposed to be an example. Then he hit me againg in the face just a good slap. My mom stepped in and got between us yelling at each other. At no point I lay a hand on him. ( it would of been a bad idea. I e turning me into a bloody pulp.) he then tells me to go to my room and take out all my **** such as my ps3 and tv. And I am really good with words not to brag. But that is my strongpoint. I am just yelling at him being my sarcastic witty self. And he hit me one more time. That was my pedaling point. I took this big *** book and threw it at his face. Long story short he threatened to call the police. And that was the end of that. I decided to drive to my friends house for the night. I know people have had harder lives to deal with such as criminal parents but what he did was totally uncalled for. I am writing this because I need a second take. Sure I am a loud mouth. I just had enough of his ****. I'm not even a rebellious party drugee kid. I just have trouble in school. Me and him have never shared the same interests. I do have a job and all that stuff so I'm not completely irresponsible.this whole scenario would exist if he did it. Right or wrong?
As a CA article, have you ever been in an aggressive argument with your principal?
Well, yes but not the heated one.When I realised that in my office not going to deliver me quality training and skill I wanted to switch but my principle told me first that we will think about it.Then next day I reminded him about that and he called his paetner for discussion which was only not like a discussion.They asked me why and i told him that i want to go out of town to pursue training.And they started then why are you joined here.We are not going to give you permission for transfer , so you have only two options either be here only and complete your training or JUST QUIT CA COURSE.You don’t know we can spoil your career so better do not mess with us.If you have been amazed why these people have such an attitude?The answer is articles are cheapest sourse of employee for them and the no of articled trainees in a office would provide them better level of audit of banks firms companies etc.Hence institute have provided its students with one facility that any student can transfer from one office to another without prior permission from instt. but principal’s assent is attached in the facility.It is just like instt has given us a LUDO game to play but handed over the dice in hands of principal, you want to play but you can’t play untill principal give you dice to play.
Is hair pulling abuse (it was during an argument when he refused to take me home)? Does that mean he will soon start hitting me?
A2A Hair-pulling is abuse. There are some guys who will pull hair during sex and I guess some women like it but I don't. What happened to you had nothing to do with sex, it was violent. What happened when you had your hair pulled was abusive and meant as a way to control you and he's crossed a line and since he got away with pulling your hair he has found out he can use that to control you. Now anything can happen. You must end this relationship before you get hurt to the degree that he is capable of and he's just now starting to let you know what he's capable of. Fear is a powerful tool and he's already controlling you. You are changing your behavior to accommodate the fear and if you don't change he will hurt you worse so no matter what you do it's going to be wrong and the reason is it's not your fault, it's his choice. When he decided not to take you home that was him letting you know that you will do what you're told and since he didn't want you to go home he wasn't taking you home. I don't know whether you have a car or can drive but I would not be in a situation with him where I had to depend on him to get home. It sounds like you could be raped.
Can a dog get pregnant anytime shes in heat?
I'm worried because the family dog is in heat at the moment (has been for about a week) and my sisters dog who she dumps on us about 4 times a week is at our house and it's a boy (not only that, its our dogs 4 year old pup!) The boy dogs not spayed either. I told my parents to stop letting her bring him over AT ALL when she's in heat but they wont listen they said "its not the time yet, shes ok until tomorrow and then he wont be over for a couple of weeks". However one time before my parents had to take our dog to the vet because the boy dog was on top of her and she had to have an injection to make sure she didnt get pregnant. You would think they would learn after that! They are supposedly educated, but neither my parents or my sister will get any of the dogs spayed so that isnt an option, they think it's "unnatural"-their words not mine. Anyway sorry about the long description, but my question is "am i right to be worried, can a female dog get pregnant anytime shes in heat?". We've had dogs for decades by the way, my parents are smart people, just not about this for some reason!
If a wife hits a husband in an argument is it appropriate to defend himself and hit back? Would the same be said of the scenario were flipped?
Oh, my Lawd!!! How did y’all get there??!!!Violence has never and will never solve a conflict; it actually escalates the situation to full-blown war. Did you know that most couples who murder their spouses never did so intentionally? They claim to have done so in self-protection or in defense.Be very very careful… when thinking of retaliation. Instead, why don’t you be the better spouse and walk away? If you need a few days or weeks off to cool off, move away, rent a place for a short time, go to your parents’ or siblings’ or a friends place. Just create a good amount of distance between you and the violent one. While there, avoid communicating with him/her and let them ruminate over their actions.When cooled off, you may need to seek external help together, so that such events do not recur. A marital counselor, family members, mentors, Spiritual guides or a good marital coach may help you overcome violence as a couple.Good Luck.Guru HellenBetter Relationships, Better life
My dad grabbed me...............?
My sister and I were having a pretty heated argument and she started yelling at me, so he came in and asked me what was going on and I said I wasn't exactly sure and he grabbed me by the shoulders and kind of pushed me against the wall and it hurt. He does this sometimes, not often but when my sister and I get into pretty bad fights. For the most part he's a normal dad, and we're a normal family. He just kind of overreacts sometimes. Is this anything to worry about?