My dad is an idiot!?
I have one sister that my dad bought a cheap car for a few years ago, then she traded it in for a nicer car and got it financed with my mom's help, and now she lives in her own apartment who she is also getting help paying for from her boyfriend and my parents pay for her insurance. Meanwhile i live at home with my parents and they have two cars. My dad refuses to give me any one of those two cars, and won't even buy a car for me although he did for my sister. I can't even afford one, b/c im having to pay my own insurance, credit card bill, laptop for school, gas, books for school, and whatever else comes my way. I can't even go out of town with any of those two cars, and can't transfer to any other university because he is such an idiot, what am i suppose to do? I can't work anymore than i already do because of my school schedule...
Why is my dad such a idiot?
Biggest hypocrit ever, cocky, thinks hes better than everyone else. Always makes comments about people on t.v. The way they look ect. He thinks hes really clever, BIGGEST EVER control freak ever. Short temper ( example when he kept going on at me so i said shutup and he threw his food on his floor came up to me and starting shouting like crazy and spitting as he speaks, eww lol) and i used to basically not have a lot, play on computer all day and he would constantly tell me wasnt good for me and how im fat and stuff. But now i lost 5 stone ( im 15 btw) he has never said well done or helped me or nothing, never said i look better..i hardly ever turn my computer on yet he never said how hes happy. Infact hes never happy. Also things so awkard aroud him.. Like sometimes i wait for him to go out for smoke just to get a drink or w/e. Sounds stupid bt that how bad it is and yet my family so normal about it. Its like im the hated one in the family and im sure that when i leave home i only wanna speak to my mom/ sister. Not really question just angry at the moment because he just been telling me how i have no respect for anyone and crap. I dont even wanna try and start a good relationship with him because it so awkward and hes the adult.. He should. He manipulates my mom, she always says all this stuff like i can do this and i can do that but when my dads around she like no i didnt say that?? Why is he such a idiot? Im so angry i ost my appetite honestly.. I could go on and on.. Like he dont buy stuff for bdays/xmas my mom does. Also for my birthday we were short for money so i got £70 ( i dont mind but i do mind that couple day before he bought this £150 thing for his remote control car which he doesnt even use, he aint used since which is just stupid, how selfish??????) also he just basically a twt :/ couldnt help myself but go on.. And i could but wasting ur time soz :/ not really a question but yeah. Bye
My dad treats me like I'm an idiot?
Hello :) I'm a 14 year old girl-just wanted to clarify that. My dad and I have always gotten along-I was his "little sunshine". But these past few months he's looked at me like I'm stupid or that I have no common sense. I'm a middle child, older brother younger sister, my older brother is the troubled child-bad grades, disobedience, etc. my younger sister is the biggest brat in my opinion. She throws fits when she doesn't get her way, everything has to be done for her, she's overly sarcastic, she rolls her eyes, talks back, and she's only seven and my dad says, literally he has told me, "why can't you act more like your sister?." I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I'm the most behaved out of the three of us and not to be conceited or anything but I have the most potential-career wise. I wanna go to college in NYC, I'm gonna major in business and minor in music and possibly culinary arts. I'm very artsy and sometimes my outfits and makeup and hair is out there(pixie/buzz cut) I'm very responsible when it comes to boys meaning I'm a virgin but I'm comfortable around boys, which I guess makes my dad worry. I don't know what I did to my dad these past months! He treats me like I'm stupid, rolls his eyes when I suggest something or say anything at all! Either that or he will ignore me. He thinks he knows everything and research is my middle name. he thinks vegetarianism is stupid and he thinks I'm getting too thin and getting a "monkey mouth"(when your jaw and upper lip stick out from weight loss) he tells me my nose is big. He never takes me seriously. I told him I did a talk about bullying, he raised his eyebrows and nodded, not even looking at me. It was a big deal and he knows I'm shy in front of large groups. I've told my mom, and she said she'll talk to him, but what do I do? He always brags about my music and how I'm gonna make him rich, but when I sing to him, he goes, "cool" with a plain face. While he praises my sister's horrid violin playing. Help me, thanks :/
My dads an idiot?!?!?!?!?
Ok so heres what happened today that, in my oppinion, prooves my dad id an idiot. First, he threatened to kill my dog. Let me elaborate on this a little so you can get the facts. My sister was "playing" with my young mini dachshund. My sister is constantly doing things to the dog that she obviously doesnt like (ex- pulling her ears, etc.) and, today she took it to far. My dog snaped at her but she didnt get hurt. So my dad looks at me and says if your dog ever does anything to scar my children or anyone in my family, i WILL blow her brains out. I will kill her. Then, i said in reply, its not the dogs fault if your daughters being a retard by harrassing the dog to no retuurn. He said it doesnt matter. Ill kill the dog if anyone gets hurt. Thrn, of course he told my sis AGAIN not to do that to the dog and all the consquences that could follow. The second thing is sort of difficult to explain. Basicaly, im leaving for a 9 day trip to colorado tommarow and i found out a few days ago that i need a new colored band on my braces because one fell out. I kept putting it off and now i remembered that i needed to replace it before we left, and now the sortho. Is closed and we are leaving early in the morning, before it opens i admit it was stupid of me. However, my dad flipped out threatening to punch all my teeth out, calling me a lazy ***, etc. And now he's even more mad because he thinks that the 9 days without a band will ruin the braces/make the treatment longer/ do something that will cost him more money. So, all in all, i believe my dads an idiot. Maybe im wrong, maybe im just daying it out of anger, but there are many worse stories. Some of them include hitting me. Even if i was being a brat and i diserved it, i dont think its an excuse to punch me/knock me to the ground. But heres what I want to know. What do you think?
How can I get my dad to stop treating me like an idiot?
Maybe if you stop acting like an idiot? ;p hehe.Give the old man a break, maybe it's just the way he is. We don't get to choose our parents; sometimes we scoff at them and roll our eyes back in our heads, but this is really disrespectful and should be avoided.Value your father and show him the respect he deserves. God forbid, if something should happen to him, you'll take him back, along with all those annoying habits of his, in a heartbeat.Be glad that you at least have a relationship with your dad where he asks you to do stuff, even if he annoys you by telling you how to do it. Just suck it up and make your old man happy.One day, he won't be there any more, and you'll treasure those moments you shared with him. Life is fragile and it can be a lot shorter than we think.Instead of scoffing at him, rather just politely ask him to please not coach you all the time as it makes you feel stupid :) hehe.There are ways you could get your point across without offending him or being disrespectful. Main thing is, whatever you do, don't hurt your old man's feelings. Use tact, use wisdom, and whatever you do, always show him the respect he deserves.I know this probably wasn't the answer you were looking for, but for what it's worth, hope I was helpful.
I think my father is an idiot. I can't stand being around him most of the time. What can I do about it?
If you think and call your father an idiot how can any one disapprove of your statement . He is your father and you know him better . There can be reasons where he is not acting like a father , a matured man . These are common traits among men . Very few actually try to act responsibly . Many don’t . They want to act independently . May be that is the case with him .Take him as he is . He won’t change .You give your due respect and care being a son or daughter to him.Look after your studies or carry on your goals in life .Don’t abondon your mother . You need to take care of her. May be she can fill up the missing gap and is better off then your father . To look after you and the affairs of the house . Talk to her .Your father and his attitude will change when he becomes old . Also when you are financially independent .He will not challenge you once you are . Though it takes time for the children to achieve those goals . But you need to live with it . Then to seek drastic options .
I failed my permit test? I feel like an idiot.?
So I'm 15 and just finished my drivers ed class a couple days ago, and today my dad took me to the DMV to have me take my exam to get an instructional permit. You have to get 32/40 correct, and I had 7 wrong and was at 40 and all I had to do was get that one right to pass, but I got it wrong and I immediately was filled with dread. Y dad was certain that I'd passed so when he saw me after he was all happy, until I broke down crying telling him I completely failed. I'm a 4.0 student and have never failed a test like this, so I feel sick and horrible. We're going to take it again tomorrow, so does anyone have any tips? I've read the manual 3 times but I just get so nervous taking the test! Am I just stupid and a bad driver or something?
Is it normal to realize how big of an idiot your dad is once you become an adult?
Yes that's completely normal.I just said it's normal but it's not the truth.Let me tell you the actual truth.This is how a child thinks of his/her father at different stage of lifeBefore age of 5 … My Dad is great.Around age 6 … My Dad knows everything in the world.Around age 10 … My Daddy is good but he is short tempered … He also knows little than my friend’s daddy.Around age 12 … My Daddy was nice to me when I was youngAround age 16 … My Daddy is not in line with the current times … Frankly he does not know anything...Around age 18 … My Daddy is becoming increasingly cranky and unreasonable…Around age 20 … Your dad feels to be a pain. We start saying “Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate Daddy! Wonder how Mother puts up with him!”..Around age 25 … ‘Daddy is objecting to everything ... Don’t know when will he understand the world..’Around age 30–35 … ‘Its becoming difficult to manage my son! I used to be so scared of my dad when I was young…’Around age 40 … ‘ Daddy brought me up with so much discipline.. I wonder how he managed to handle the younger generation!..’Around age 45 … ‘I am baffled as to how my Daddy brought us up…’Around age 50.. My Daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up … (we were four brothers & sisters) I am unable to manage a single child!..Around age 55 … My Daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us! Even at this old age, he is able to control things! He is one of his kind and unique..’And finally at the end of our days, when he's no more, around age 60 we start realizing about him and would say ‘My Daddy was great!’Don't be late. Your father has done so many things. Everybody makes mistakes so does your dad too.P.S. I took this from internet but every time I read this. My love towards my dad gets boosted. I love my Dad.
My Dad is an Alcoholic. He`s a stupid drunk at night, but by the next morning he`s the Dad I know and love...?
No, do not accept this behavior. Let him know how you feel when he's sober. How it is affecting you and your mother. There must be an underlying problem he is dealing with that caused him to begin drinking. I lived with an alcoholic mother and she died 5years ago at the age of 49,due to alcoholism. I then turned to the stuff, and almost ruined my marriage. I had a revelation that God has a better and more divine purpose for me and all of us and I saught help. Still attending AA, and loving God. If you ignore this, he will never know, and then eventually have many health problems.. There are also meeting you can go to to relate to others at your age that are in the same position. Alanon.. There free, just a way to cope, deal with, and understand why people choose alcohol over there loved ones. It's a deadly DISEASE and needs intervention. You don't want to wake up 10 years from now without your loving dad and wish you would have helped your dad get help. It's not an ashaming disease but it is very hard to kick the habit.. I will pray for ya.. I'm only 29 too.. god bless IM me if needed.. t
How do you get rid of a stupid step dad you hate so much?
by the way he is an alcoholic. so its not because hes not letting me do anything. he is mean and always drunk. and he calls my mom lazy and a b*tch. so this question is serious. oh and he is my mom BOYFRIEND so its not like he raised me or anything. my mom has only known him for a short while. but he has already moved in and he is seriously fudging up this family, and me and my brothers know he is cheating on her but when we told my mom she didn't believe us. because I'm only 13. so i need serious answers.