Dad threatened to slap me, I told him I would call the cops he says they wont believe you anyway?
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My dad threatened to slap me across the face?
My name is Layla. I'm 13. I never usually had a good relationship with my father. I always found him to be cruel, demanding, and self-centered. He always calls himself the master of the house and all sorts of stuff which I find repulsive. Anyways, tonight I was actually getting along with him and I was sitting on the table, he was standing next to me watching the tv. I wanted to do something funny so I just blew a raspberry randomly, I dont know why I just felt like it. Some of the spit, I guess, got on him and he flipped out. He grabbed my arm with one hand and the other was posed as if it were ready to strike. He yelled at me saying that he should slap me right now and i zoned out after that. I always pictured him doing so, he looks like the kind of man that would do that. He said some other stuff but all I could picture was him hitting dead on he cheek, like a pimp would do to his hooker, and throwing me to the ground. My mother witnessed the entire thing and barely did anything to speak up for me. I did not cower, nor did I look frightened, Id do anything but give him the satisfaction of scaring me. I know this doesnt seem as bad compared to all the other stuff you read about on here, but please understand, I had no one else to talk to about this, I dont want anyone to think differently of me. I hate this man who is supposed to be my father. I think he is a complete asshole who seeks respect but does not give it. Ive always wanted to tell him what I think of him, but, and I know this is sick and selfish of me, I just think of him as the person who makes money, therefore you have to suck up in order to get some. Thats all he is to me. I know this is wrong but he doesnt deserve any kind of love. He is a despicable man with a big paycheck! Every time I look at him I always wish that I had a different father, not just from how he treated me tonight but how hes been treating me every night of my life!
My teacher threatened to slap me! What do i do?
Right so here's how it goes. I am walking in the school corridor I am wearing a hoody with one earphone in my ear (BOTH are against school rules, I'll admit that) A teacher see's me and says "Get that out of your ears or I;m going to slap you!" in a really malicious and violent way. He then storms off. Um...im about 1000% that he CANNOT talk to me (or any student) like this. A simple "Can you take that out of your ear please?" would have sufficed. How on earth do i respond to this?
My dad slapped me in the face?
You should tell someone who you know will do something about it. Don't just sit around and let him hurt you. Please don't think about running away or committing suicide, just tell someone anyone who will listen. Don't hurt yourself, he already hurt you enough. Please just tell someone. :)
What should you do if your dad threatens to hit you?
This is a hard one, without knowing the entire situation its hard to give a correct answer, but I will try. First I have a question for you to think hard about, it makes a difference. I am not taking his side with this question and I am not accusing you with this question. Here it is. doing this ongoing fight you describe, do you ever even not intending to do so, do or say anything that would cause your dad to become up set or angry, do you after being told to stop, not stop. Does your dads threats start out as slight anger and escalate as you argue or is it highly aggressive and violent from the very start. Think about that and then answer yourself honestly. You dont need to answer me or any one here, just yourself. If it only starts light and escalates as you argue, try changing the way you react to him, if this does not work and he continues in this manner, turn him in to school officials, police, or child wealfare because he has an anger problem which untreated could become dangerous to you and your family. If his anger is completly threatening and violent at all times right from the start, turn him in to school officials, police, or child wealfare because it has already reached the danger point and you are the one it is focused towards. I am serious about turning him in, I had an anger problem a few years ago. I was treating my step daughters exactly how you describe. Mine started as slight agitation and escalated, I realized before it became dangerous and got help. If I hadnt got help when I did it would have become very violent and dangerous. Do not wory about what your mom will think of you for turning him in, your doing it for her and your siblings as well as yourself. Think about it, if your not doing or saying anything to agrivate him then you have no choice but to turn him in, its either that or you or your mom or one of your siblings could end up dead, most likly you because it seems to be directed mostly at you. Dont think too long, get help ASAP. You can contact me on my profile if needed, let me know that you are ok.
Is it justified for a dad to slap his 24-year-old daughter on the face over a petty issue?
Slapping a child specially a grown-up is never justified. Using such methods always indicate that the parent has admitted defeat. A child's behaviour is a reflection of the parents grooming. Moreover being a scietist I strongly advocate the theory of genetics. Doubting your child or punishing him/her means the parents are doubting themselves. So Hitting is never justified.
Is it okay for a father to threaten to slap his 25 year old daughter?
Violence is never a solution. The person at the receiving end don't like it. She will stop it if she can or put up with it if she can't. In any case, you made her feel threatened and unloved. You also set the precedence for violence. 20 years from now she will ask on Quora “Is it okay for a daughter to threaten to slap his 70 year old father?”There is clearly a disagreement here. Why not take the opportunity to discuss and show her love instead?
Can I press charges for someone threatening to slap me?
I need it specifically for the state of Wisconsin. I called my boyfriends uncle irresponsible and he threatened to slap me twice. I have proof he said it because he texted it. I know I could also give an anonomous tip to the local police that he is a fan of smoking illegal drugs. I am almost afraid to go back home for fear that he will be there waiting to actually do it!
What does it say about a husband who threatens to slap his wife(even if he doesn't actually do it) a few times?
My dad sometimes gets upset at my mom & says to her face I'll slap u if u keep doing this(she often acts selfish or disrespectful to him). Thus, is he still wrong to say he'll slap her to her face(even if he never does it)? Twice before, my dad DID slap my mom when she insulted me on 2 different occasions. However, he didn't threaten her then. What does it say about him? What would u do if your husband bad did that to you?