Will my boyfriend ever forgive me for calling the cops on him?
my boyfriend and i have been bestfriends for 4 in a half years and we have been togehter for 2 in a half years. we have a 8 month old son together and i love him dearly! well we lived together and we got in a fight, he said he was gonna leave and i did not want him to so i followed him around, well i should have backed off when he told me too but i did not and he punched me so i called the cops and he went to jail and got out the next day. when he got out he moved out so what i want to know is will he ever come back to be a family with our son? ive told him over and over again that i love him but he said i ruind it by calling the cops. i cant seem to give him up hes been in my life too long will he come back?
My boyfriend is in jail. How can the charges be dropped?
Keep making excuses for him. Eventually your case will end just like most of the other cases of abuse by significant other. They end one of two ways under most circumstances, here are the choices: 1) The victim finally grows a spine and realizes that they are worth more than a punching bag and escape their attacker. 2) The victim gets DEAD! Assumes room temperature, ceases to be a viable life form, takes the big dirt nap, buys a ticket for the ferry over the river Styx ... pick your euphemism! Bottom line, someone you know will have to identify your remains at the morgue. Your choice ... live or die. Multiple injuries or freedom. Pain or peace. Wearing the clothes you want to wear, or the clothes that cover up your bruises. Lying to everyone you know ("I fell and my arm broke when it slammed into the pavement", "I am so clumsy! I fell down the stairs and hurt my back!", etc) I worked in an emergency room, I've seen "the regulars" show up (usually on pay weekend, on base everyone got paid on the same schedule). Very pretty, delicate women with injuries that could only be caused by assault (twisting breaks to the arms, "fist shaped" bruises to the body, Impact injuries to the limbs and body (strangely enough shaped just like a golf club, or a baseball bat, or exactly matching a tire iron). You get to choose, leave and find yourself someone that deserves your love and attention ... or stay, and take the escalation of abuse until you either get tired of being hurt ... or "assume room temperature". Choose wisely. Your life is at stake.
I sent my ex boyfriend to jail and now I feel bad?
Let me start by saying, YOU DID NOT SEND YOUR EX B/F TO JAIL you called the police because of domestic violence and they found that he had several warrants out for his arrest. If the two of you had been stopped by the police, they would have hauled him off to jail anyway. I would go down and get an order of protection, of course he does have his clothes at your house and will need to retrieve that and what ever else he has there so make arrangements with the police to be on site when he comes by. Try to keep your EX-EX out of the picture, I think by now he would probably want to kill this guy and no good can come of them meeting face to face again. You learned that this guy has killed kittens, are you aware that most serial killers have a history of killing animals, FOR FUN!!. This is not a guy you want in your life and I pray that you are not pregnant by him because if you are you will have to deal with him for the next 18 years. This brings up another issue, regarding the child, he likely will be allowed to have visitation, it is up to you to see to it that his visitation is supervised. You need to bring up all of his past events to convince the courts that he can not be trusted alone with the child. Imagine what he might do if he were to get mad at his own child. You MUST get an order of protection against this guy. If not he will be at your door every day and making your life miserable. The order will not necessarily keep him from doing so, but it then only takes one phone all and he will be picked up by the police. Do it for your own sanity and for your own safety. You DO NOT know for a fact that he would not try to kill you, his very actions of slamming your head on the ground and choking you proves that he is violent. You talk to your land lady, you will find out that I am telling you the truth.
Can you get someone arrested for stealing clothes?
The basis is being able to prove they are yours. You can file a police report - doubtful she would actually be arrested. If you have the proof that they are yours, you can take her to small claims (usually anything under $10,000 in value goes to small claims). If you cannot prove they are yours, it could be a waste of time if she decides to fight whatever you charge her with.
Help! my brother is in jail what will happen to Him?
Your brother will be charged with a felony, and probably serve anywhere from 6 months to 2 years in prison. He assaulted someone - this is what happens to people who do that. I'm sorry this is affecting you, but people need to be held accountable for their actions. his "aspergers" syndrome didn't make him break someone's collarbone. Your family is already doing everything they can do - ie, they are getting an attorney. It's possible the attorney may be able to negotiate a reduced prison term, or even no prison in return for counseling and fines.
Domestic violence and strangulation charges in florida?
ok, so i have been living with my boyfriends parents for 2 months now. We have a 6 month old baby. shortly after i moved in, me and my boyfriend would have fist fights. He would pull me by my hair, hit me in the head, push me pin, me down. One time he even held my head down with his knee. Any ways, this time we got into a fight about my car. He wanted to use my car, i said no because we were having an issue that i wanted to talk to him about first. He didn't want to listen and kept asking me for the key. I told him that i was not going to give it to him without us talking first. He then got really mad and pushed me against the wall.I got up and told him that he is definitely not getting the key now. He then decided to grab me by my throat, and choke me. He wouldn't let go until i could not breathe and started throwing up. After that his mother came home. He pulled me outside, where we continued to argue on the side of the house. He brought my down to the ground and held me there by pulling on my hair. I tried to get away and he punched me in the eye. I told him that i would call the cops but he wouldn't let me get to a phone until i said everything was fine and made up with him. The next day, when he was at work, i called to police. I filed the report and they went to arrest him at work. Now he is still in jail, and i am leaving monday to New York to be with my family. The cop said that he admitted to everything. So my question is what are the charges for domestic violence and strangulation?