My ex bf gave me a gun because I live alone and then broke up with me over a text message and wants the gun?
My ex bf (we dated for 4 months) gave me a gun while we were dating and then a couple days ago broke up with me over a text message saying "I just don't want a relationship ending in marriage and you want to get married one day" so he didn't want to continue our relationship and that we just don't spend enough time together. Well from what I understood when we were dating he gave me the gun so I could be safe because I live alone. He has been texting me saying "I'll be over tomorrow to get my gun and my coat" and I just replied "ok". Then he texted again today saying "I can't come tonight I will be by friday to get my gun and coat". I told him that I won't be home Friday and that he should just leave me alone because he gave me that gun so I could be safe. He says that he needs to come by friday because he's taking his 2 and 4 year old shooting saturday morning. I told him "Then get your 2 and 4 year old a water gun, they don't need a gun anyways". Can I get in legal gun if I don't open the door if he comes when I'm home? I don't know when he's coming now and I'm kind of scared. I just want him to leave me alone.
What is the best way to get revenge on someone who broke your heart?
Do you really think taking revenge will fix you?Thats totally true. You cant make yourself really happy by planning for revenge.I will tell you how You can find yourself at risk:I. Risking your inner peace2. Aggressive and angry all the time: you will miss your smile and happiness forever!!!3. If condition : What if you failed to do what you wanted to? And then You will end up hating yourself.I think this will be the best revenge plan:leave everything to karma: As we all know, what we give comes back to us(I believe this karma very well). He/she will be punished for their own deeds. Why do you have to take tension?focus on yourself: Trust me, heartbreaks are the best oppurtunities given to us to change our life!! Since this point came,I will tell you my story. When I broke up with my boyfriend I had no clue of what to do.! I cried and cried, I felt like tears are the only friends remaining with me. It went on like this for a month or more than that . Everyone around me thought Im Insane because noone knows what happening. One day I suddenly started thinking why I have to cry and blame him? I was at fault to love him. my mistake.! Then I thought for he left me this day, he has to regret it in future. I started working on all my flaws(Personal and Professional).It took me three years, I have reached to where I havenot been If he was with me. Had he not left me that day I would have been at the same place. Even today I feel like Thanking him for leaving me. The only revenge I thought of is making him realize and regret his decision later and I have grown up in every way of my life. When you accept things, miracles happen. So start focussing on yourself an work on your flaws.Take time to pamper yourself: Go out for a walk! Go out for a run or Go around the place you live. Talk to youself. Dont rely on somebody. chances of more heartbreaks.Forgive and forget : Two best mantras to be happy forever. Try these not because they deserve forgiveness, But because you deserve the happiness. you vl get awesome experiences;-)Succeed anyway: As you are free of all the shit, start to see yourself where you wanted to be. Fix a goal and work for it. Nothings gives you the happiness like success gives you.Help yourself to get out of that situation And then focus on your life. Be nothing but Happy. Live your life to fullest and they will be at grief for missing you. Even If they are not, you have already reaped your crop of revenge.Hope this answer helps.:-)Thank you:)
My girlfriend got pregnant by her ex before they broke up and she found out after we'd been together. What should I do?
Respects to your girlfriend. As she has mentioned, it’s her problem and she has to deal with it. First of all please realise that you are getting prepared to break this relationship or else you wouldn't have asked this question. All you want now is some solid base to break this liaison so that you don't feel guilty. It’s completely alright. because you don't have to be guilty. I really want to give you some facts to analyze. 1. It’s totally fine to date / marry a pregnant woman, but in your case you never knew she was pregnant it came as a total surprise. Sorry, it’s not going to work. 2. If she chooses to have the child and you commit to stay with her it’s a HUGE responsibility. It’s a life, it’s a little pair of fragile arms and legs and you are totally responsible for that innocent life. Are you sure to spend your blood, sweat and tears on some other guy's genetic offspring? Because once you commit you are NOT backing off. 3. Pregnancy leaves stretch marks, saggy breasts & C section scars. If only you love her with all your heart and soul you will be able to deal with it. 4. When building a relationship with someone we always want to be the primary focus of their life. It has to be you and her, with a kid you will never be the one. I am not telling it's a bad thing, it’s totally fine if you are okay with it. 5. There are chances the new born reunites the mom and dad. That guy might be a jerk before but once he comes to know that he is a father he might want to be an ideal boyfriend or "father of the year" nominee. In such case what will be your stand? Hanging stranded? No one want's to compete with some babydaddy. Do you? Please don't get fooled by emotions, if you fall prey for your feelings now and regret it later it will make rest of the life hell for both you & your girlfriend. As she said, leave her. If you can, be a support, be a friend. Who knows she might be strong enough to raise her child by herself, she might consider a patch-up with her ex or in a long run she might even find someone who falls not only for her strength but also for her child’s innocence. Let her sort out her life. If you still decide to stay, ensure you stay with them till your last breath, no matter what. Make sure your live as the child's dad, don't ditch her in between; don't make the child long for a man to call his/her own; don't break the childs heart after making him/her fall in love with you. Good luck.
My ex-girlfriend said that she wants me to leave her alone. What do I do?
She is your **EX** for a reason, isn´t it?It does not matter why you ended your relationship, she is not part of your life now. I know you must feel sad and you want to keep her close because ( I am pretty sure you do) you still love her. But she does not love you anymore. It is cruel and hard to say, but it is the truth.The best thing you can do is what she is asking for. Leave her alone. Do not keep yourself crying for her and begging to accept you back, because this only upset her and diminish your value in her eyes.Think like this: Did you do all you can for take her back? YES.Then say good bye. It hurts, I know, but you also deserve to be fully loved.If some months later you still miss her, then you maybe could have another chance, but not now. Give her space and see what happens, the hope dies last.
Texting my ex gf after break up?
Two things you need to know. 1. If someone breaks up with you and says they are just too busy with school/work/anything else what they mean is they don't want to date you 2. when someone breaks up with you and tells you they still want to be friends, they don't, they are just trying to make it easier on you If she broke up with you it would probably be best to wait till she texts you. Let her think. If she wants you back she will call you, if not she won't. If you jump the gun and go running after a girl that dumped you all you'll do is push her away.
Is my bf obsessed with guns?
How can you tell if someone is obsessed with guns? I tell him that he is cause he talks about them all the time and constantly looks at new ones and is like "i want to buy this one" or "i need this for my gun" stuff like that. The worst part is, is that for the past couple of weeks all of our dates consist of going shooting...grr :[ I dont have any thing against guns, i like shooting them, its kinda fun but it gets to a point where all the money is spent on them and ammo and that is the only thing he wants to do or he gets "bored"
I hate my ex fiance she was a hartless b*tch i want to make her suffer?
I have been with my fiance for a total of 5 1/2 years. We fell in love and had a great time for the first 3 years untill she moved in. I payed all the bills and she helped out very little with bills and stuff. I also would work about 12 hours a day come home and find nothing on the dinner table and I would have to cook she never made an effort to learn how to cook. When we broke up she took everything of hers and one of my dogs that i spent $3000 dollars on vet bills on and she never even showed one bit of emotion like she never loved me. I hoestly think she was seeing someone else at least the last 3 months of our relationship... I hate her so much and wish I could forget about her but its tough waking up alone every morning. I dont want her back but I miss her companionship.
My Ex texting me and I still have feelings for him. What do I do?
My most recent ex-boyfriend texted me the other night about a dream he had about me that night. Since then we've been texting back and forth. We had an emotionally rough break up, for the both of us. Not too long after we broke up he went back to his ex before me (who cheated on him) and now he's texting again and I'm unsure of what to think about it. I'm still head over heels for him, but I'm worried he's just texting me because he's lonely and I'm familiar... What do I do? I thought he was the one and my brother even thought he was the one. My brother expected me to marry him. We were perfect for each other. Had tons of things in common, but still had separate lives from one another. For the first time my friends liked the man I was dating. The best part was that neither of us were trying to change the other for any reason.