My family hates kpop?
Okey,I'm a big fan of kpop. And I usually listen to kpop all day. Just a minute ago my mother came into my room and start yelling at me because I was watching "danger" by f(x). She said something like "don't watch that creatures! they aren't humans! how can you watch them? they're so ugly!" My brother said to me "they're all gay" when I was watching SuJu. Only my father doesn't care about my music. But my brother and my mother look at me like I'm crazy. "How can you listen that music?" We're from Europe and we are white. I don't have any support from my family and my friends. They just think that I'm stupid because of I like kpop. So what should I do?Just continue to listen kpop and don't care about what my family say? My mother thinks that all Asians are ugly, no offense to anyone. I can't explain her that I really like kpop and Asia. When I found out about Japanese earthquake I was watching news and she told me something like "you're really are stupid. why do you care about they?" Sorry for my bad english. And I know that my question is stupid, but I don't know what else to do.
I feel like my family hates me?
My life hasn't always been the easiet but lately I feel like my whole family hates me. It feels like everything I do is wrong. When I talk to them they don't reply or they ignore me. I get yelled at because of my room is dirty but if my twin sister room is dirty they're okay with it. They yell at me if I'm crying and I just feel unloved and I feel like they're pushing me away. My twin sister is one of the popular girls at school and one minute she'll be fine talking to me and then she'll yell at me to get out. She ignores me at school and says my friends are weird and that I shouldn't talk to her friend's. She gets mad at me and calls me bossy because I get worried about her. I get worried something bad is going to happen or shes going to be late but its just something I do because my mom doesn't. The worst part about it though, my friends tell me I need to stick up for myself because they say she pushes me around. But overall I think she just hates me. My older sister likes my twin more than me they talk and hangout more. But they ignore me so I go in my room and they call me a hermit and if they go get food they just ignore me. The other thing is that a couple of days ago we were talking about kidney donations and she said what if my twin needed a donation (because she has a scarred kidney) or what if her son needed one but he's healthy and I just felt so ignored and unloved because she didn't care. My family insults me about how i look and that my hair is ugly or my clothes are. Or my sisters say I get anything I want because i wanted to play softball one year and it was only twenty dollars. But my twin sisters doing cheer and its two thousand dollars. I just don't how to deal with it anymore I feel like crying all the time.
MY entire family hates me. What can I do?
I am 17, but when Im 18 do I just move on forever? how can one person be hated by their family so much? I overheard my dad say life would be easier if I was gone. dead & gone. My sister says Im ruining her life, and my moms. My mother says "Fu** you" almost every single time I ask her to get me something. I am a cancer survivor, and became cancer free this year. (had a bad bout of ovarian cancer & symptoms, & treatment. I feel like I ve been very strong. I get that my illness has taken a toll on the family in financial ways, and emotional, but if they were going to hate me this much I wish they hadn t gotten me any treatment, and let me die. My mom says Im pathetic and can t get a date. I just can t take all the verbal abuse anymore. My sister hates me because everything is "about me" . Like Im sorry that our parents focused on because of sickness for the last 2 years. But why do I deserve hate? I honestly don t know what to do. any advice is appreciated. I just need to figure out a plan. Should I just go have sex with someone to feel loved in SOME way shape or form? I feel like absolutely horrible. What else can I do to just learn to live without my family? They truly hate me .
Why does my family hate me so much?
Well, basically, all my family hates me, that's for sure. My Dad has a temper and whips me with a belt if he's in a bad mood. Once, when I was about 9, I spelled a word wrong and he kicked me really hard, that I could not move some of my toes and had a bad bruise. My Mum gets stressed out. Whenever my Grandparents say a small thing like "She's rubbimg her eye", she gets mad and gets in an argument with me. She whips me sometimes and once she even held my neck and threw me against a door because I was playing with the carpet. My Grandma hates me. She tells on me for the tiniest thing. The other day, she nearly hit me in the face for holding the lift when she was about to do it. I told my Mum everything, but she wouldn't believe me and called me a liar. We had another argument because of this and she told me that I bully her. She bullies me, I don't bully her. Also, she favourites my cousin. She thinks she's her sweetheart and a much better granddaughter than me. My Grandad doesn't talk much, and he finds me offensive. He once criticized me of being rude when he saw me half naked out of the shower because I screamed in shock. I really hate my cousin. She blames me for everything, then I get grounded. All my family adore her, but they despise me. My uncle dislikes me because he thinks that I'm mean to her. My Aunt is the nice to me unlike the others, she gets me gifts, but my parents don't like her. My Grandma and Grandpa on the other side of the family - my Dad's- are very nice to me. They always take me out to the movies even though my parents are always very reluctant for me to go. Nowadays, I'm stuck at home, I'm banned from games and gadgets so I'm doing it on my phone secretly. I also get bullied by people at school. I really feel like committing suicide. My life has been a living hell.
How do i make my family hate me?
Well if you want the family to hate you, which I really do not understand why you would, the best way to do it is go all thermonuclear on them and tell them every single thing you hate about each and every one of them, and I guarantee that none of them will ever want to talk to you again, and after that, never speak to them again.I would not recommend doing that, because eventually you will need your families support for something, and if they all hate you, they will not help
I come from a close family but my extended family hates me what to do?
My family especially my dads side is very close to one another we all live 10-15 minutes away. They are all very close to each other but from a young age it seems like I never really got alot with them. They make really rude comments about me. First when I was young they would make comments about my weight. Than when I got older than kept brining up the fact that I am so shy. I really wish I was close to them but they seem to always hate when something good happens in my life. They said a comment about how I was close to none of my cousins and it really made me cry. How can I just ignore them?