I feel like my family is driving me insane? Literally?
Hi, I'm really sorry you are in this situation. I don't think you're family are going to change, is there anyway you could move in with you're grandparents, if not then just make the best of it, or talk to you're parents it could be that you are all just misunderstanding each other... But they are being unreasonable you need you're time at this age to do you're thing you need to study and keep up with you're friends, I don't know how to advise you except stay strong, it will work out
Living at home is driving me insane?
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My brother is driving me insane?
I am the oldest brother in my family my younger brother(13) and I(16) were playing hockey. Let me just say I am usually not a calm or relaxed person to begin and my brother is the cocky, arrogant, know it all, manipulative type person. So anyway we were playing and he randomly starts telling me how he is better at the sport and that i'm terrible and that I should give up. This made me upset and he kept going on and on because he knew that it was getting to me and it just got me so mad. A few minutes later after we stop fighting we have a pass and he's throwing rocket passes at me and everyone that goes wide or behind me or that I just miss hell rip on me and say "oh you should've have got that" and "you suck!" so i would pass it back to him and i wasn't giving hard passes back and he would say things like "see i can do it and you can't because I'm better than you." at this point i couldn't take it anymore I shot the puck at him (it missed) and just came inside furious. Im about ready to "kill" him not literally though. But i don't know what to do with myself. and thats not the first time he's done something like this. WHAT SHOULD I DO I NEED HELP!?!?!?!?!?!?
My boyfriend's mom is driving me insane?
I am 17, he is 18, and just a few days ago he graduated from high school. His mom has always been this controlling, but even after he graduated his mom still needs to approve when he can come over even though he shouldn't have to. It is just the two of them, and his mom seems to treat him like the husband in the way she makes him go to her office parties or do things such as clean out the garage. I understand that its normal for kids to do chores at home, but the things she has him do are more than just, say, cleaning the dishes, and again, even though he is 18 and doesnt need her approval to come over she freaks out if he comes over without asking her and she lets him come over maybe 2 times a week and only for a few hours. If we want to do something during the day for more than just a few hours she needs two weeks' notice so she can see if he "deserves to go out". I have talked to him about it many times, and I have expressed how because of it Im not happy, but he refuses to do anything about it and instead says its fair because he still lives in her house (even though her control is completely inappropriate). I dont know what to do, his mom is driving me crazy. I am going through hard times as it is, and because of his mom not letting him have any freedom he can't be there for me like i need him to (or even understand that its his mom causing some of my stress). Im at a complete loss. Please help
HELP: SCORPIO mother driving me INSANE!!?
So my mom is a scorpio and she's been driving me insane for many years now. I don't know what it is about her, but im pretty sure she could be lethal. Anyway she must have EVERYTHING her way, like she needs to have my dad totally whipped sexually at all times, which is all well and good, but it is taking a toll on the family, as EVERYTHING must go a certain way aka it must always go so that my dad is always being turned on by her, which is taking a toll, bcuz a lot of things arent getting done, since she needs to turn on my dad ALL DAY! she is not attending to a lot of stuff she should be, and is starving her children, and not taking them out for the things they need, as EVERYTHING needs to go in a way so that my DAD IS ALWAYS GETTING TURNED ON BY HER......wtf....do u guys think this is right, and what do u think I should do about her. btw, i should also mention that she drives me to do insane things. when i was younger, she actually drove me to stab myself with a fork, and she drove me nuts to the point where id bang my head against the wall HARD. she used to also make me punch doors and hurt myself.....i dont know how she does it.....but she must have these magical powers where she just gives off these crazy vibes that drive me to hurt myself and those around me at times, like i told u I ACTUALLY STABBED MY HAND WITH A FORK ONCE BC OF HER WTF! so WHAT should or can i do about her!!? she makes me so angry sometimes and so does my dad....in fact i loathe them both very deeply. im pretty sure they're not even my real parents.
My little brother is driving me insane!?
Try to stay away from him. He will eventually outgrow it. Good luck HuGgZs Hope
My parents are driving me literally insane and i need help deciding what to do?
People/parents tear you down to build themselves up- Think about this for awhile. Words are not said to help you at all. Its only a trick to make abusers/parents feel good. When people are sick they say mean things to feel better. This goes for people at school as well. Abusers use put downs, ignoring or hitting. You are tricked and thats why you feel bad. Abusers lie and have lies mixed with past truths other times. They have problems so its not your fault. Hurting people hurt others and were abused themselves. You are being abused. Divorce, father gone, abuse, ignoring can make children grow up with non existent so called "Mental Problems" or turn them into abusers. Abusive mean people often call you crazy or names of mental disorders to abuse you. The "Chemical Imbalance" claim is false. It has been thoroughly discredited by researchers. They "vote" to make it a disease.." Its total fraud" -- Dr. Fred Baughman Neurologist. It's okay to live away from abusers verbal or physical and cut them off. Dont speak to them. They will never change unless forced. Remember- Read 20 sites daily on Emotional Abuse- also Tell your teacher. God wants you to Forgive- which does not require talking to them- Call Child Protective Services transitional housing to age 21. State directory- http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/ch... Source(s): Experience seeing this work.. I have questions for you/talk for more help also.