I had a dream my dad molested me?
I've had weird incest type dreams too. One *shockingly* with my very young sister :( Don't dwell on these dreams, they are not reality, and really don't mean anything, no matter what others may claim. Dream are uncontrollable, one of my weirdest one was that I was a sperm traveling to the egg... Take care bree...
My father in law tried to molest me?
My father in law is visiting again, and is up to his usual perverted ways(last visit he pinched my *** and said "Just look at that rear, you could bounce quarters off of it, mixed women have great bodies"), he also has an odd "exotic" fetish for me because I am mixed(black and white) and my husband is white as all get out. I am also much younger than my husband, so his comments ususally include things like "I only wish I was rooting a 23 year old when I was 42". Tonight he took it too far, I went to bed early, and I was half asleep when I felt a body climb into bed. I initially thought it was my husband coming to say good night and give me a hug, because his arms were around me. I then heard the voice saying "goodnight beautiful" and realized it was my father in law. I freaked out and fell out of the bed, and my husband came in. My husband was not mad because his father claimed he was drunk. I am upset though, I don't sleep in much(usually just a tank top and panties), there was an incident a while back where my husband shared nude photos of me with his father, so him groping me while I was barely clothed upset me. This man is 70 years old, how he has the energy to attempt rape is beyond me, I am also going to carry a taser when he is in the house from now on. Am I acting accordingly?
My dad molested me as a kid.?
im 16 now im gonna guesstimate i was some where between 6-8 when it happened. i didnt really remember it until about 2 years ago. i mean i never like forgot it just like it was more to the back of my mind and non existent. this is sorta embarrassing for me to talk about so ive never told anyone but pretty much what i can remember is: we used to both be in a shirt and underwear and he would put me on top oh him and just rub his.... privates against mine basically. i knew it wasnt right but i didnt exactly understand why i felt that way about it. i just knew it want a normal thing. i never felt super guilty about it or anything just more or less uneasy. i love my dad, ill never not love him. trust me no matter how hard i try. i feel horrible for not knowing his age but today is his birthday hes turning i think either 61 or 62 today. i used to live with JUST him from 6-10. cause my mom and him split and had co custody when i was 4 all the way to six. now i just live with my mom (since last year) but after they split from when i was 10 and up they lived in the same house (ik messy situation. me and him have never talked about it. i just got back from his house. its just hes getting older and may not be alive much longer im not sure if i should bring it up, honestly not sure if i can. and i dont want him to be slandered. everyone makes mistakes even if it was at my behalf i still love him hes my dad. but should i say something to him. either way im not gonna get closure i feel. personally id rather just let it go, i can never fully let it go it affects me still to this day but i know i dont want to re hash anything. whats do you all think. (btw if your gonna ask if im a troll, be rude, or troll dont bother please. this is really serious to me)
My sister said she was molested by my father when she was younger. My father has passed away. She wants me to believe her. How do I?
How do you believe her?One possibility is to hear what she said and believe her. It sounds like that might be hard or else you would not be asking the question. Here is what I see as the other option:You can believe that she believes it. That is what is most important, right? She doesn't need to prove anything. Her feelings are valid, either way. It was brave of her to tell you and no doubt she is suffering a lot of distress. Your sister probably needs to hear you tell her it was not her fault and that you love her. That's true, right? No one could possibly do anything to deserve being molested.It would be helpful for her to get counseling--perhaps some sessions for you also, to process this emotional bomb. Either your father molested your sister or for some awful reason, she believes that he has. Both of these are pretty scary possibilities, I think.It is not unknown for parent(s) to have one child in a family who is abused or neglected in some way, while the others are treated differently. Another possibility is that your sister has made a false allegation. This is unusual but not unheard of. Unfortunately, you may have to ask yourself hard questions about why she would do that. It would be better for your sister if you were to believe her until she tells you otherwise. Try and imagine yourself in her shoes and think how you would feel if you told and were not believed.No matter what happens next, your perceptions about your family have changed. Perhaps she would seek counseling if you went to the first session with her.It is not necessary for you to "choose" between your dad or your sister. It is not necessary for you to listen to an account of exactly what happened--a therapist can do that for her. You are allowed to have good boundaries! You can support her by believing her (or believing that she believes it) and helping her find professional support.Something else to think about is that both of you had a different relationship with your father. For some reason known only to him, he may have chosen to molest her but not you. That is another emotional bomb for you to deal with if you choose to believe her. Counseling might be able to help you sort through a lot of confusion and heartache.Good luck.
I’m visiting my father soon. He molested me when I was younger, I’m scared he’s gonna try something. What should I do?
This is going to take some guts. You talk to him about it. You find private time and you simply talk about it. Talk about what you remember. Talk about how confused you were (and are) and how that continues to impact you. Talk about how it was part of the family ‘story’ and that there are no secrets in any family.Most of all, when you have patiently considered this, you forgive him. Not because he deserves it. Not because you got your feelings hurt. Not because your Mother may have told you many distorted presumptions about it. Because YOU decide to forgive him and move on. Period. Do it because YOU are a forgiving person and put it to rest for yourself, for him, for your family and potential children and their families. Just do it.
How do I tell if my father is molesting me or just being “fatherly”?
When I was 6 or 7 years old, my dad just finished bathing me and he suddenly asked me if I have a crush on him. He once took my mom's top off in front of us when we were kids. He also likes beating my brother physically. My parents have been divorced since 2003 but when my siblings and I grew older (around 2008), for some reasons, we are compelled to visit him or see him at the mall every Christmas or summer break ever since then.During the summer in 2011, we went to a mall, and I was already 14 years old at that time. He complimented how my butt looks good and he quickly touched my butt in the public.And one time (I was already 20) we visited him again and I was infront of a laptop and the chair has no back rest, so my dad leaned towards my back and his (private part) rubbing my back and I just froze and couldnt do anything. He then stopped after a few seconds. I havent told my mom or anyone yet. Until now (2018) we still go out as a whole family and eat at goos restaurants and watch in cinemas as if nothing ever happened.I am confused. Did he molest me or is it normal for a father to do that?
Can I sue a Step Father for Sexually Molesting me as a child?
My then Step-Father Sexually Molested me from the time I was 5 years of age until I was 13 years of age. He also molested other small girls as my cousin told on him to others. He lost his visitation rights with me and my mom did nothing about it legally. He was also caught molesting a small girl in a laundromat and I dont know what the outcome was because I was a small child myself and I believe it was very hush hush about his behavior. But now that I am a 39 year old woman I want to know if I can sue him after all of this time?