My father wants me to go to a stripclub.?
we are going to germany and my father wants me to go to a stripclub with him, he said that we wont do anything wrong, its just a good experience for me . is that something wrong? secretely i wanna go to a strip club but not really with my father. Should i just tell him no?? i am 18. my father got caught with messages stating that he hires escorts all the the time. Does he want me to be with him? no rude answers please.
My father wants me to get a job, but I have no talent. What business or job should I do?
You do not need a talent to get a job, you need to go get out there and work and not sponge off your family and be lazy. Obviously you studied to some level, well that along qualifies you to do work in any of the sales or fast food or restaurant work that exists in the world. You could also work as a driver, for taxi and bus services or as a delivery person for companies such as DHL, Fedex etc. You could go work at any of the service industries that hotels etc need. You do not need a talent, and stop using that as an excuse to sit home and live off your parents.
My father wants me to do LLB but I have no interest in that. How should I tackle this?
You mentioned that you want to do what you love, it is very good to hear from someone that they know what they would love to do and a career out of it as many of us realize what they love to do at an age where it doesn't matter as time has passed to fulfill their dream and I guess if you are sure about what you want to do you love to do it then you may be knowing the pro’s and con’s of it and you have had enough research over the subject. I will summarize my answer below:a) Make sure what you love is what you want to do in life.b) There enough future scope in that field.c) You should know where you want to be 10 years and make plans on how to achieve to be there.d) Do intense market research create enough points before picking the career as it is going to be your identity after some years.e) Read about successful people in same field, read about their struggles what they did to overcome those, how they became successful.f) Make plans for you daily routines, gather all the required materials, and make charts about what to do when and how to do it.g) Make sure you are willing to do any amount of hard work to achieve your dreams and work for those.Do all the above points and then show him your dedication in the field and show him how you can achieve success in that field and what is the future and where you see yourself after 10 years, show these to your father he will definitely agree to give it a chance. And at last all the best I hope you know what you are doing.P.S. He is your father and he want you to have a stable career and he is far more experienced and mature than you so make sure what you prepare and show him should be very moving and view changing.
My father wont let me get an abortion and don't want me to put it up for adoption?
You do not need their help for abortion and it is legal up to week 24. You say you were molested but was it rape and is this pregnancy from rape? Because in that case abortion is free and no consent needed (if your state require that) Denying your child medical care is child abuse and neglect and it is illegal to force anyone to birth or abort. Contact a social worker who can help you to a clinic. You get money from private funds at fundabortionnow.org and you will not need anyone's consent, you just tell the clinic you want a judicial bypass so the judge will consent to it. By the time for abortion you will be 15 weeks and not all states have abortion providers past that. You might have to go to another state. You find all abortion clinics at abortion.com including the ones doing it past 15 weeks. Contact these people for help and advice: The National Abortion Federation hotline operators at 1-800-772-9100 Their website is www.prochoice.org Planned Parenthood is 1-800-230-PLAN Their website is www.plannedparenthood.org If you would go with adoption it's entirely your choice and your parents have no rights to the child or to stop the adoption. Good luck sweetie and I hope that bastard ends up behind bars!
Why can't my father understand that I don't want to be a rich man like him?
I live in a country where doctors are rare so they are considered rich here. My father is a very successful doctor makes 250k per year and he wants me to be likw him but I'm not smart enough. I live in a mansion, I admit that I'm spoilt and my father never let me get a job because he says people will start wondering why his farher makes money but he let his son work and says if I need money, I should just ask him. Right now I'm 18 in 12th grade and I'm having problems with studying, I just can't get enough grades. I told my father, just let me get out of this country and let me have an average job and he says that I will struggle being poor with an average job. I told him that I have no problem living in a small apartment and have an average paying job and a good family in the future, I don't want more. My everyday life is go to a small private school with only 150 students then go home study and the gym and sleep. I wish I had the life of a normal teenager, I want to have a job after school, I want to have my own money so I won't ask for my father's permission to buy something, I want to go to a big public school full of people. I don't want all this luxury. I just want to commit suicide.
I think my parents want me dead... :-( Please help me, I don't know what to do?
My parents are doing nothing but criticizing me. My mom calls me dumb, and claims that I don’t want to work hard(because I left Penn State Main Campus and moved to a satellite campus near my house, I wanted to get away from all the partying so I could focus on school). I am not dumb at all though, I get 100s on my tests, and ace all of my papers ( I am an English major). They also call me fat and ugly, and yell at me about everything I eat, even though I pay for my own food and make it myself. I am not ugly at all, I have a pretty face and I smile all the time. Almost every guy I know says I am a cute, sweet girl. I am not fat, I only weigh 120 lbs at 5'2", and have no health problems. Also, they continue to ask me what I am doing about graduate school, and I keep telling them that I plan on studying for my GREs and looking at graduate schools this summer, and then applying during the fall semester, which will be my last semester at college. They think I’m not going to follow through with it, which is not true at all. Also, they tell me that I am wasting my life, and call me lazy. I work as an English tutor on campus, have a professional research position, and am a part of the National Honor Society for English majors, so I not sure where they get “lazy” from. Basically, I spend 8-11 hours a day on campus, going class, studying, and working; as soon as I step in the house, the criticizing starts. My mom usually says something like, “You’re home already?” What can I do to deal with all this? I already have a part time job as a tutor, and am getting another job at Starbucks, but even with those two, it’ll take me a long time to accumulate the money to move out, pay for a car, etc. I have always been confident in myself, I love the way I look, am proud of my accomplishments, and look forward to a bright future, but my parents just kill my happiness and confidence everyday. I am 21 years old, but they have no faith in my decisions at all. I am a good kid too, I don’t drink or party or anything, but they still see me as some sort of deviant. All my friends are away at dorms, and my parents and brother are the only family I have, so I don’t have anywhere else to go. I don’t know how to cope anymore, I’ve been strong this whole time, but I don’t know how much longer I can endure this. Please help!