Have her write a journal every day about her accomplishments. Sound like she could use CBT theraphy. She has a negative loop going on in head and those negative thoughts need to be challenged. Running will help too. Make her strong physically and releases dopamine. I would encourage her to stay away from people who put her down. If they are family members she must tell them in no uncertain terms to stop. If they don't she needs to walk away and not engage. As for you, as her friend, get positive thoughts replacing the negative ones. You encourage and tell her how wonderful she is and the good qualities you see in her. It will be work but all worth it. She might want to get theraphy.
What can I do to stop my female friend, who's on welfare, to not have another baby she knows she can't afford?
Hi all! I have a female friend who's 29 years old and she didn't even finish 9th. grade. She's got two kids from two different men. She told me recently that she wants to have a third baby with a new dude but she has no money, no education, and no job. She told me she can do "whatever the hell she wants to do because the government (meaning me and all you out there paying taxes) will pay for it." She's been abusing the government system for a while now. She said that a woman can have a baby anytime she feels like it even if she has no money. I don't think this is right. The government should order her to get her tubes tied and go back to school to get a job so she can pay for the kids she already has. If she can "play," she can pay!!! These kind of people who want free handouts year after year from working people, like me and you out there, make me sick. Oh, by the way, she's get an almost free Section 8 house, food stamps, and an SSI check every month (But believe me, she can work!!!). What can I do to stop my female friend, who's on welfare, to not have another baby she knows she can't afford? What do you think? Any answers will be appreciated. Thanks!
I am a self hating african woman !?
in actual reality that some black women people are ashamed of their organic hair because of the fact they stay in a society that tells them that something, whether it incredibly is kinky hair, dark skin, complete lips etc., linked with blackness is grotesque. That being stated, hair texture is a cultural mark; we are able to regularly (no longer constantly yet regularly) come across somebody of African phenotype via the feel of their hair. collectively as outfits are no longer unavoidably indicative of background/ethnic id etc. (they may be, yet as a prevalent rule, no). so which you would be able to pastime an Afro with a polo shirt proudly and nonetheless be pleased with your ethnicity. yet individually, I delight in the flexibility of black hair; we are able to do plenty with it. loosen up, lock, braid, blow out, wig it, weave it, etc i admire that there is this manner of variety of varieties to make a call from. and that i do no longer think of it incredibly is honest to accuse people who loosen up or straighten their hair of self hatred while that may not be the case.
How do I get my best female friend to trust me on that?
That was long, haha. But I think that your male best friend understands. After all, he wasn't made at you when you told him that you liked this girl. And the girl likes you too. Maybe wait a couple of weeks, after you and the girl hang out more. Then ask her out. Good luck! <3
My female friend was acting sad today, should I confront her about it?
howdy! I had that style of issues whilst i became in one year 9 ( im in one year 11 now!) i became acquaintances with this female when you consider that 300 and sixty 5 days 2, and we the place ridiculously close, then sometime ( sarcastically on my birthday!) she merely grew to become truly strange, and for here few weeks, all the classes we had at the same time, she might forget approximately approximately me, and that i heard her b**ching approximately me.. just to make certain she hated me... and that i became entering into melancholy because of the fact we did each little thing at the same time... despite if i did produce different acquaintances that i became on the brink of, i became truly unhappy approximately my closest buddy for years hating me! besides, i desperate I cant merely pass around feeling sorry for my self, so I grew to become extra sociable with my acquaintances ( and we do plenty at the same time now!) and, because of the fact i admire song, I even have taken section in particularly some bands in college and out- and that i'm feeling plenty happier! individually, i think of you may merely enable those females pass, i comprehend, Its terrible, yet you may! And pass and be extra sociable to human beings and connect communities ( like Duke of Edinborough, that's exciting!) or do some charity artwork- I artwork in Bernardo's, and that i've got some sturdy acquaintances from there! or attempt to tutor a sparkling leaf- do some thing thoroughly diverse, like be extra sporty or some thing.. or carry out with diverse human beings, yet don't be too desperate and clingy
I hate my boyfriends female friend!?
Nice novel. Anyway... OK, so you don't like your boyfriend's female friend. And he still talks to her, which really psses you off. Well guess what, you and every other girl with a boyfriend who has a female friend. And every guy whose girlfriend has a male friend. Honestly, your situation is about as unique as having ten toes. So let me tell you something, just so you have a comparison. My wife went out drinking and dancing with some male co-workers last year while I stayed home with the kids. I not only drove her to the event and picked her up, I laughed about the guys half her age who were openly hitting on her because she looked good. I used to be in a rock band, and girls at our concerts would regularly give me their phone numbers and (very rarely) flash their boobies at me with my wife right there, and she didn't bat an eyelash. It's called trust, and without it you don't have any relationship at all. And speaking of trust, trust me on this: Your boyfriend isn't cheating. If he was cheating or even wanting to cheat, the first time you would have heard of this female friend would be when you snooped through his phone records behind his back. That's because when guys cheat, they keep your attention as far away from the other girl as possible - even denying that they know her if necessary. No guy would ever let you know all about a girl he's secretly cheating with in hopes that you'll think it's totally innocent between them. Only girls cheat like that.
There could be only 2 reasons.1. She is jealous of your Girlfriend2. She likes you and and may be started loving you these days. [because, you still consider her as just your friend, may be you haven't learned that she has feelings for you]
Take this advise from a girl.If she said , " I hate you " , just leave me alone and she abuses you. leave her alone.Else.Its good news. This girl has a crush on You. I have been there and done that. I have had a crush on a guy where I used to talk a lot and I used to often say I hate you. If you like her. Its your time to ask her out.P.S other hints she likes you.1. She calls You a lot often2. She expects you to call often3. She calls you by the nick name.4. She is looking for more attention
If a woman says she doesn't have many female friends---What does this reveal about the woman?
Partially, yes. Women generally hate each other like a deer hates a shotgun. THEY are the TRUE misogynists. Men don't usually CARE long enough to "hate" a woman. Just look at the REASONS women hate each other. • "OMG! That b*tch stole my earrings!!" • "OMG! That b*tch took my man" • "OMG! That b*tch bought the same shoes!!" We've got other more important sh*t to concentrate on. THATs why we don't "hate" women, and why men don't want women as "friends" either. Who WOULD?? Women go out of their way to present themselves as something they are NOT every day of their lives. They cover up their AGE. Their boobs. Their hair color. Their weight. Their skin. Their motivations. They "say" they like "nice guys" and then bang one of us "jerks". Then they LIE about how MANY jerks they banged. etc etc etc......... You can't take a woman at face value. So who would want to be "friends" with someone who goes out of her way to present herself as something she is NOT??? Not I, says I. Many women say the same thing. And conversely, women who say "they have so many MALE friends" are LYING TOO. These women are just PRETENDING to dislike other women as friends in a lame attempt to GENERATE MORE MALE ATTENTION FOR HERSELF. And she doesn't even put out!! Never let a woman sucker you into the friend zone by ANY method. You've got BETTER things to do. Where it REALLY gets funny is when you ask yourself: "Why can't women just BE beautiful people..... Instead of working SO HARD to PRETEND to be beautiful."