How can I stop arguing with my Fiance?
Sometime's me and Brandon will be talking and I just flip out on him for no reason. I dont know why I do it and I know if I keep it up then I will lose him and I love him sooo much I dont want to lose him.
Why are me and my fiancé arguing so much? She’s says it’s my fault because I argue over dumb things. But she seems to never listen to any of them, big or small.
Love shows different colors, flavors, moods and more. The one who injects TLC emerges winnerTLC stands for Tender Loving Care… It’s an art you would recognize best at the time you are in. Between both of you, you may have known this before. If she already knows… bingo… she surely will reciprocate!Please try one or more of these (you need not be rational at this time):Change to a good mood!Shift the frame of reference!Declare a fun break!Think for above you and not from within you!Appreciate her for something different!Returning to the sensitive topic (only if it needs attention) may be considered laterEnjoy this color of life that comes only in close relationship this well!
When my fiancé and I argue and he says he isn't going to marry me, does he mean it?
I read couple of answers and all of them were from people who were once in your position and each one advising you to walk out. Let me walk you through what could be your fiancé(’s?) reason for acting the way he does or in my case, why I threathen.Let me throw some light - I'm scared of commitment, and keep wondering have I made the right decision, but on the other hand he is really sure about us.(I really, desperately wish to be at that point someday.)So, my fear of commitment puts alot of negativity in my head whenever we hit a rough patch, and the first thing that crosses my brain is, ‘it's not gonna workout. We aren't right for each other. ‘ and mostly end up saying that out loud, even when I'm very well aware of my fear and do know I'm just being absurd.Now hear me closely the reason I never walked out is,because he is well aware of my fears and never lets me walk out,I know even if I do walk out and end up finding a better - better half, I'll still be on the same page as a person because something is wrong with the commitment wiring in my head. So my solution isn't about replacing the person I'm in love with but about finding a way to not freak out so very often and fixing my broken self instead of running away .So until something really gravely wrong hits us, and we both mutually decide something, I'm gonna stick, no matter what Rollercoaster goes in my head.I'll suggest you two to have the talk when both are in the best of the moods, and connected emotionally and comfortable in each others arms. My the talk helped me and us alot. Here are some tips for that :Please be sure your fiancé is well aware of what he does.You are either stepping in the war zone, or diving deeper in the ocean he is. Neither of two is easy, be prepared to either get hurt in war zone, it can get really dirty or to find beautiful surprises in the ocean.You should be prepared beforehand about the things you want to say, so that you can reform your sentences in a way that doesn't hurt him and convey your emotions simultaneously.You need to show him that you've trust in him and you two are into this together.While you're at it, you'll get your answers whether he really wants to be together.God bless you.
We argue way too much..help?
I believe your bf really loves you.. you guys can always work threw such petty things such as these. If you truely love him you will let time take its course. i believe in this because my girlfriend and i went threw the same thing.. dont break up with him... give him a chance.. from the sounds of it he truely does love you
Me and my boyfriend argue so much!!?
I've been with my bf for 6 months now, after he had wanted to be with me for 2 years. I love him more than anything in the world, but recently especially I can't seem to stop causing stupid arguments with him. I feel like there's something wrong with me, I'm fine, then all of a sudden I get moody about something, take it out on him, remain stubborn, he apologises, I stay moody, but inside my head I'm battling with my feelings because I end up feeling so bad. Very often it turns in to an argument that that goes out of hand and I always say things I regret and upset him (and so does he) I then start feeling that soon he will get completely sick of me even though he says he never ever will?? We talk so much about this and come up with solutions but inside my head no matter how hard I want to try, I can't stop it from Happening!! I feel like it's an endless cycle which is hurting both of us, despite Us being so in love! Please don't judge or tell me to break up with him because that it something we both do not ever want! Please help, it's ruining my relationship!:(
Why do me and my girlfriend always argue?
Have you tried to sit down with her and talk to her? Start off by telling her what you like about her and the things she does. Tell her how hurtful it is to be yelled at by using curse words. Ask her what you can do to please her. Tell her that you feel you do alot around there and she doesn't seem to appreciate you as a person anymore. Tell her what you want in a relationship and what you loved about first dating her. Tell her you don't want to argue anymore. It is good for a healthy relationship to have open and honest communication with each other, even the not so good things. It generally builds your relationship stronger together. Do you both want to still work on your relationship together, be together. If so, I would suggest some counseling just to help better communicate your thoughts, ideas, and feelings. Best wishes to the both of you. My prayer for you is that you both pray about your relationship to help strengthen your bond you have in each other and with God.
Why do couples argue so much?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. I love him with everything but we are always arguing about everything almost every single day. He lives an hour away from me, so I only get to see him about once a week. Also, he works six days a week, ten hour shifts, so the only day I can see him is on Saturdays. When I do see him, it's only for a few hours because I have work on those days. Not seeing him a whole lot just makes me feel depressed and I don't feel like I really have a boyfriend that is truly there for me when I need him. I guess I can say this makes me very angry to the point whenever I do talk to him on the phone I just start arguments. This is ruining our relationship, and I don't want it to end. I will also mention, when we are together we are just the happiest couple with no arguing, but it's totally different when we aren't together. Please help.
My boyfriend and I love each other, but we argue so much that it sometimes makes me wonder if we're right for each other. How do you know?
There is never a relationship without arguments. What you need to look into is the type of topics that you people argue about. I know it feels strange to have an argument often. But in reality it's as normal as anything. In your relationship I feel that both of you stand at your point and don't want to back out if any argument arouses. Just try to cool down down yourself and play down any arguments he gets to throw on you. You will surely feel the difference. For a relationship to work out either them have to compromise on few stuff. In your case both of you might be standing still and not ready to compromise or play down any argumental situation. You people really need to work on that rather than thinking if you both are right for eachother or not. Turn your arguments into healthy ones. It's always a good thing to have healthy arguments. Don't confuse yourself. Just sit back and think about it. Just don't come to any conclusion right now and regret about it later. Talk to your boyfriend about this and make him understand that arguments are making you feel bad. Hopefully you both can sort it out soon.Cheers
My boyfriend has too much pride whenever we argue. What should I do?
Whenever my boyfriend and I argue even just bout lil' things, what he do is he often ignores me when sometimes it his fault. He is too upset and will give me cold answers when I try to talk to him lil by lil because sometimes he does not realize that it his fault. I misses him so much that's why even tho he makes me upset, I response to him. He is a nice guy tho. I know he loves and cares me so much. He always makes me feel better and much happy but whenever we argue that's what always happen. I've always been responding my side to him but he'll just response to me, "ok" "I guess" and the worst, "K" I'm like wtf, Idk what's wrong with him. :( I just can't give up our relationship cause I really love him. I'm trying to be more understanding but then sometimes, I just can't take it anymore. We are in a Long Distance Relationship. I know that COMMUNICATION is the only key and its the only way in order for us to survive in this kind of relationship. All I need is just a sincere sorry from him but I got no any response. I don't know how will I resolve this problem. I know this is all nonsense and there are so many things to worry bout in this world but hes just too important to me that I cant afford to lose him. your replies will be greatly appreciated.
My girlfriend and I love each other so much, but we often argue about trivial things and it’s beginning to tear us apart. How can we stop arguing?
The answer is not to just stop arguing. Fighting with your significant other is always going to happen some. But there's good news…It means you both CARE.At least one of you isn't arguing and fighting and the other is just like, “meh, whatever.” If that was the case, I would suggest moving on to a healthy relationship with someone else.Listen.Pay attention when you are fighting. Really listen. Most people are NOT listening, but instead, waiting on the other person to stop talking so it can be their turn. If you listen to what the other is saying, you can learn a lot. If you are fighting about a sock on the floor…most of the time it's not about the actual sock. If you're bickering about small things alot, chances are you're not REALLY. There is something deeper that is not being said directly. Which leads me to..Communicate.The more open and honest you can be with each other, the less room there is for misunderstanding, misinterpreting, and assumptions. You know what happens when you assume! Makes an ASS of U and ME. Don't wait until you are in the middle of the argument to spill your guts and try to make the other person see your point of view. Not the time…they literally will hear “blah, blah, blah.”Fight Fair.No low blows, name calling, or bringing up things that you have previously gave forgiveness for. Women are the worst of all about this. We will bring up something that happened 5 years ago and suddenly you are fighting about something else entirely.How did we get here????Don't say something you cannot unsay. After the fight is over, you want it to be done and finished.Know when to take a breather.If things are getting too heated and you feel like you might lose it and say/do something that will cause physical or emotional damage…step away. It's best to learn when the dispute is headed that way and take a time out before it gets to that level. It's amazing how dumb it will sound when you come back to the conversation after everyone has had a moment to think.Say you are sorry…and mean it.Seriously, this one should be obvious. It doesn't have to be immediately..wait until there is no anger and you can really genuinely mean it. Apologize whole-heartedly. None of this..“Well I'm sorry YOU took it that way.”Not a real apology.Keep fighting :)Healthy squabble can strengthen your relationship. You will learn how to compromise and over come obstacles…together. You are literally fighting for you relationship, so don't give up.Plus, there's always make-up sex!