My girlfriend just broke up with me :( I need advice?
never get back with someone who left you. its just a recipe for disaster reading this reminded me of when my boyfriend of 1 yr 8 months broke up with me. we were so happy and so in love when he just left me. sometimes things just don;t work out i cried and cried and begged and locked myself away for a long time 6 months later i still miss him like hell and love him but at least i now know what you will figure out eventually we can love so many times in a lifetime don;t let her ruin your life, just accept her as a beautiful part of your past she's obviously not mrs right so just keep your chin up and never give up on love i can guarantee you 100% this will happen to you many many times you have to learn to deal and not be bitter put the real important stuff that reminds you of her in a box. throw everything else out and keep a few momento's for when your older and you look back and SMILE and remember how you had fun with her, how bad it hurt, and how well you recovered and learned from the experience
My friend is blinded by "love." I need advice?
My friend dated this guy last year who she broke up with before summer, and theyve been talking ever since. They hadn't been officially dating, but definitely acted like it. He ended up playing her with his ex-girlfriend, who also didn't know what he was doing with my friend (played both of them). Before she found out, he always told her that the ex-girlfriend would talk to him but he wasnt interested. she believe him until she contacted her. She found out he played her and stopped talking to him for like two months. They're talking again as if nothing happened and i wish my friend would see that hes just going to hurt her again. She says that I dont know him well enough to judge and that he used to be a great boyfriend, but someone that knew them both before says she cried all the time then, too. She says that its going to be a while and he has to work to get her trust back but i just know hes going to hurt her again, just like i knew he was playing her. he just needs a person in his life and is selfish. he never quit trying to talk to her even tho he knew that it was hurting her more. he shouldve left her alone...hes just so selfish WHAT CAN I DO to make her see his?
My friend never has any money i need advice please?
Tell her you guys should go job hunting one day and be like I'll even help you make a resume and if we can get a job together that would be sweet. She won't even realize the reason you want her to get a job is cause she mooches you if she asks why just be like well it would be good for work experience and makethe resume look better when you are graduated, be like wouldnt it be nice to have money to go shopping and do things ? And be like it's also something to do and you can save up for whatever like clothes,car, trip, anything that's alot of money
I need advice, its my ex girlfriend.. anyone?
well babe i honestly love you with all my heart but im confused my heart says to be with you and i do think we will end up together im just not sure what to do about Jordynn hes been hurt so many times and ive already hurt him and if i leave him he'll call me a slut and stuff and just ugh!!! he honestly doesn't want me to follow my dreams of becoming a porn star and playboy model so that's a HUGE problem and i don't think me and him will last because we have different goals in life me and him have only known each other for 2 months and me and you have known each other for over a year and we do have something special me and Jordynn idk hes just hot but i don't love him like i loved you and even though he doesn't want me talking to you il still talk to you because your very special to me the thing is i think we moved to fast in our relationship we never became friends and got to know each other very well before we were together but im not sure what to do now :/
My girlfriend left me for my best friend and i need advice?
im 18 and last summer I finnaly got my first girlfriend and my best friend stole her from me...now i hate them both and am extremely depressed and angry...no matter how hard i tried to explain to him after she broke my heart that i didnt want him to date her he would just lie to me and tell me he wouldnt date her. i found out about them wanting to date 20 days after she broke up with me...and he says he didnt steal her from me even tho when i was dating her she would flirt with him and i was jealous but she would cry and tell me she liked me alot and not him at all. Me and my best friend were really close and i trusted him but he lied ALOT right to me and i feel so betrayed and hurt. now they date and they both know i hate it but dont care. They think im overeacting and shouldnt care at all. i told them i would be their friend still because im trying to be happy again. but im hurt so bad and so angry and feel like it was so wrong. I dont no wat to do to feel better...any suggrestions?
How do you handle friends that constantly complain to you?
You know what I do? I cut them off.I just totally stop talking to them. I don't offer an explanation unless they ask.There's also a difference between venting and complaining. Complaining is similar to whining, something you would do when you have a lot of homework. Venting can be either negative or positive, and is usually about less frivolous matters and often involves one person offering advice to the other. For example, when my friend’s boyfriend dumped her she vented to me for a few hours on the phone. She didn't complain about how awful he was, she just talked and I offered advice.
Ex Boyfriend Really Broke My Heart and I Need Advice Please!?
to be honest you don't really seem in the need for advice, you have told him just what you think and he said he is fine with that so let him be, i have been in that relationship of constant lies and when we finally broke up he cryed telling me i was his everything that he would never sleep with another girl. 1year and 3 months later he still swears he has not been with any one else, he has even had my name put on his leg,but im not stupid i know he has had other girls and honestly i do love him but i am no longer in love with him, he lied to me over and over again about stupid things what do i really owe him? and i can tell your not stupid so just don't run back to him he is NOT worth it!!!! you can do better and deserve to be with a man who is not going to walk all over you. Be proud you told him to get lost before its to late, if he wants to be friends tell him no because honestly what kind of a friend is he? good luck :) x
I need advice about my sexless relationship of 6 years
I can really relate to what you're saying. My ex and I were together for the same amount of time. We also stopped having sex after a few years. We broke up about 21/2 years ago and have been best friends since. After such a long time it's hard to imagine life without the other. If there is no relationship, you shouldn't continue to go on living a life that doesn't reflect reality. Ending the relationship doesn't mean ending the friendship. It actually isn't as hard as you might think. It sounds like the relationship has been over for a long time so ending something that has already ended shouldn't be much of a change. It's just the "official" ending that seems so scary and makes couples hold on past their time. You might find freedom in the decision to let go of the relationship and all of the negative feelings we associate with it when things go wrong. You'll both be free to move forward and focus on your bond and friendship rather than on a drowning relationship. Good luck.