Help!!!!my friends dad hates me????
my friends dad hates me and he says that i am a bad influence on her but really all she has done different was starting to flirt with guys!!! thats crazy...he also thinks that juat b/c she likes to dress different from her sister that it was b/c i told her to when really she chose to do it without anyones help!i dont know what to do or think about him....
Why do i hate hanging out with friends?
i love my friends, they are great ppl. and i have so much in common with them. but i DREAD hanging out with them. actually, i dread hanging out with anyone! it takes so much motivation for me to spend time with friends. i just want to spend time in my house, and be safe and with my family. why am i like this? do i find hanging out with friends is too stressful for me? btw, im in my early 20s. i left college to start my therapy because i have OCD AND PTSD. i live at home now.
I hate my best friend but she loves me, what should i do....HOW TO LOOSE HER?!?
I guess at one point you did like her for her to be your 'best' friend. Stop hanging out with her and doing things together. I think she'll get the hint without you saying something like...you hate her...and regret it later.
How do I stop being jealous when my best friend hangs out with other people?
You will grow out of it, but it takes time.It takes a lot of mental work. You will have to realize that nobody is guaranteed to stay with their friends forever. Unfortunately not only friends but families can live in different states, for obvious reasons, like study or marriage etc.It would be healthy to start preparing to cool down and to get used to new people entering your friends circle. Forget being jealous about sharing all of your life with just that one friend. Open up a bit to other suitable people. You will need that.You cannot expect to be the 'chosen one' all the time, besides it puts a lot of pressure on you. If your friend has many interests, which you don't share, you can't run after her trying to develop them only for her. You will have other interests, which she might not share.Sometimes spending too much time with only one person is not the best.Divert your thoughts towards broadening your interests. Find your passion. You will be much more interesting person to be with, if you glow with passion.And, don't worry, we all go through those times. It's fear that is making us worry.
I don't like a guy my girlfriend hangs out with. I don't doubt her, but this guy makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?
We all are going to encounter people like that. Get beyond “uncomfortable” and into the how and the why of it. Then express that to your girlfriend. The point is not to expect her to do anything but for her to be aware of your thoughts and feelings. Then relax and enjoy life. If your suspicions are correct this person will show their true colors. Your girlfriend can handle the rest.When I encounter guys like that I drag them in and draw them out. I have complete and total confidence. If I have to worry about my girl then I have the wrong girl. If I don’t have to worry about my girl then I don’t have to worry about him. Once said dude realizes that he has no chance will go pursue lower hanging fruit. There can be a bit of joy watching someone put on the moves all night and know you are going home with her and he is getting himself burned.The last guy that pulled this kind of crap with me was a good friend. After considerable fighting with my now ex I left her. One day later they married. Now that he is the husband and not the “friend” he is crazy jealous about anybody with a penis. I personally have better things to do with my life than run around fighting every guy who is attracted to my girlfriend.
Best friend always busy with other ppl?
Hellooo...I know exactly how it feels too!! Believe me! She just doesn't have any time at all for me for God's sake! It's like I'm an embarassment to her, ignoring me most of the time, hanging out with her other new found friends(hate them for coming in between us). Anyway it has been 6 months since she has been behaving like this and I've come to accept it, but it does make me cry at nights knowing I'm missing her! But you, neither I have a choice, accept and live with the fact that one of the best buddies life has produced has to leave cos she got bored or got better things to do? But I try to be available for her if she needs something, cos I still respect her for what she means/meant to me not so long back. I hope that she would realize how mean she was to me and how much hurt it caused, and wud eventually come back as the person I knew. I hope for u too. Don't hate her nor ignore her, she is special isn't she? otherwise u wudn't be asking people on the net wat to do! But have a backup of friends for yourself in case nothing happens. Keep me posted on what's happening between u both!
Why does it hurt so bad when your friends hang out without you?
Sometimes it can be hard to put a finger on the exact feeling. Is it abandonment? Worthlessness? Frustration? There can be a variety of causes, but it’s no surprise that it hurts.I remember overhearing bits and pieces about some sort of hangout being planned by my friends. Unassertive introvert that I am, I kept waiting for someone to ask me, but nobody did. The hangout came and went while I sat on the side just hearing about it.Even though it was a small thing on the surface, it brought out some of my deeper insecurities. Did my friends really care about me at all? Was I just some sort of hanger-on, a grudgingly accepted guest into the group? I didn’t really talk that much, anyways, or add anything to the group that I could see. Maybe they never wanted me around at all, they just were too polite to say it. I knew these thoughts were irrational, but they still hurt.I have a very strong sense of loyalty, and sometimes I have to remind myself that not everyone shares that. Just because my friends hang out without me sometimes doesn’t mean that they don’t like me, or that they don’t want to be around me. It just means that they want to hang out, and it’s all right if not everyone’s there.When your friends hang out without you, it’s easy to feel like you’ve just slipped through the cracks, like you’re not important to them, and that can hurt a lot. Maybe your friends need a reminder that this kind of thing matters to you, or maybe you just need to find reassurance that you truly do matter to them. In the meanwhile, remember that your friends are likely to think differently than you do, and that they more likely than not would consider you to be an improvement to any hangout.
Why do I hate the thought of spending time with my friends?
For example: One of my best friends is spending the night with me tomorrow, and I'm getting mad and anxious. Also if one of my friends asks me to hang out with them I will (most of the time) try to find a way not to go. I love my friends and usually after a while of them being with me I'll be glad they're there, but I just get so irritated, mad, and anxious at the thought of spending a whole day/night with them.