My Friend Has Been Really Mean Lately

My best friend has been really mean to me lately?

It feels like she has been dropping me for her like guy friends. She says really hurtful things to me, and I have good comebacks, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. For example:
At her birthday party, she completely embarrassed me. I got there a little late, so everyone was there. She said, " Ew! Why are you here! I didn't invite you!" and she got everyone to say booooo! you stink! I knew she was kidding, but it really hurt my feelings! Im very sensitive, and no one knows this about me. Even though she was kidding, it was embarrassing!


not too long ago, I still had little accidents when sleeping. She was the only person I trusted with this secret. At her birthday party, two other girls slept over as well as me, and I had an accident. One of the other girls said " I saw a little water on the beds. It was weird. I guess someone drank water and spilled it." And my the birthday party friend said , " No! She peed!" I felt like crying. I said I didn't, and she said, " Well why is there pee where you were sleeping." There were tears in my eyes. I told them I had to go to the bathroom, and I cried in there.

She constantly makes me feel bad, yet she is a good friend most of the time.



I don't know what to do! She can be really mean and I hate it!


Thanks in advance

My friends have been mean lately. what should I do?

Long story short, my friends have been mean to me lately, and today made me upset. I asked everyone if they wanted to hang out and my one friend (lets call her Carlie) said she would go if everyone else went. Everyone couldnt go but I asked her if she just wanted to hang out with me and she said "Sorry I'm tired and I have no money. I'm going home" So that was that.
An hour later Carlie texts me and said "Hey im with everyone at the school. We all stayed after for Amber and were going to starbucks wana come?" (This has happened before and ive gotten mad and they shunned me for a week) So I just said yes and I came. Carlie bought something and she told me she had no money.
We stayed for 20 min and my other friend drove everyone home and I was alone.
This literally sounds like were in 7th grade but were 17 years old. Why are they doing this? And should I act normal? Or be quiet and act like somethings wrong? What should I do? We are hanging out later...sorry this is so long

I've been really mean to my boyfriend lately due to pms and i want to call and apologize.?

Simply call him and tell him you are sorry and you wasn't feeling well. Most guys do understand that. If he really likes you he will be there.

My "best friend" is being so mean to me lately!?

I think that's terrible how gossip and jealousy has killed your friendship. There's no other way to fix it than to sit with all of them and *gasp* TALK it out. No arguing. Let each other talk while everybody listens. Take turns. It's important that everybody is there in your little 'talk session' so nobody says bad things behind anybody's backs. Be ready to hear anything good or bad about you.

Ask them what they don't like about you or if they have a problem with you or anybody in the group. I know it sounds really stupid, but trust me -- this is the only way to get your friendship back on track. I know you are a mature person since you still tried to be nice despite their negative behaviors.

If that doesn't work out so well, you can always try and ask your school guidance counselor to set up a meeting for you to facilitate the 'talk'. We were lucky enough to have school retreats / recollections where we open up our ill feelings towards each other. We tell each other in class what we don't like and what we want to change. We have to be completely honest. This form of communication is so important and so crucial especially at your age when you're very moody and still learning about how to build good relationships with your friends.

My best friend has been rude to me lately?

She has become friends with the group of mean, rich popular people, and she judges every single thing i do, (i wanted to eat healthier today, so i packed my lunch healthy, she goes and yells out "WHY ARE YOU EATING THAT? WOW YOUR SO WEIRD." then she'll say "you know i love you and im kidding girl :)" shes been lien to me and im just tired of it, but im not sure what to do, should i just not be her friend anymore?

My friend has been acting weird lately...?

ARE THESE NEW FRIENDS OF HERS, A BAD INFLUENCE ON HER IN A , " SHE'S GOING TO GET INTO LEGAL TROUBLE, OR JUST A GANG WITH A BAD REPUTATION?
IF IT IS THE FIRST AND CAN CAUSE HER TO GET INTO LEGAL TROUBLE, AND HER MOTHER WANTS YOU TO BE THERE ..... YOU ARE HER ONLY LINK TO WHAT NORMAL AND RESPECTFUL IS RIGHT NOW.
IF SHE IS INDEED A DEAR FRIEND , DON'T ABANDON HER, AND BE THERE FOR HER WHEN THEY DROP HER LIKE YESTERDAYS BAD NEWS. IT WILL HAPPEN, IT ALWAYS DOES. SHE WILL NEED YOU THE MOST THEN, AND DON'T SAY " I TOLD YOU SO" BE THE FRIEND YOU WOULD WANT SOMEONE TO BE TO YOU. SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE AND NO MATTER WHAT , THESE FRIENDS ( SAID FRIENDS LITERALLY) CAN'T BRING HER ANY REAL HAPPINESS.
I WOULD IMAGINE THAT THESE PEOPLE WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU GET UPSET AND MAD, THEY LIVE OFF OF THAT , SO DON'T GIVE THEM THAT. JUST SMILE AND ACT LIKE EVERYTHING IS JUST FINE, EVEN THOUGH UNDER YOUR BREATHE YOU WANT TO SAY THINGS THAT WOULD MELT THEIR MASCARA. SO STAY COOL, BE EXTREMELY NICE AND DON'T LET ANYONE SEE HOW YOU TRULY FEEL. SHE WILL COME BACK, AND YOU WILL HAVE TO BE THERE TO PICK UP THE PIECES THEY LEFT BEHIND. I CAN IMAGINE THAT THE MOTHER IS COUNTING ON YOU FOR THAT. IF YOU ARE THIS TRUE FRIEND, AND IF SHE IS WORTH IT, JUST DO IT. DOES THAT HELP ANY?