Is my friend a slut? How do I tell her?
Ok, my friend Allie is, well a total slut. And she denies it when people cough it to her in the hallway and has no idea why people call her that, it really upsets her. I personally think she is, because of everythings she's done and has. Ok, we're both in 7th grade and are 13. Allie has a boyfriend and I used to, the farthest I'd ever gotten was a kiss on the lips lasting 2 seconds and for 6 months. Allie has been going out with a guy for as long a 9 months and has made out with her two boyfriends she's had. Both of them, and one of them touched her(massive C-cups)boobs. She says she didn't want him to but I think she did, and this is the pervert she used to go out with not her current one. And when she talks at our lunch table she lets her boobs hang on the table and almost out of her shirt, and when we tell her to pull it up she pulls it up an inche then continues leaning over to talk to her (guy) friends. When she talks to her boyfriend sitting down she always pushes her boobs together with her arms and you can totally tell, and they look 10x bigger like that. She always wears the LOWEST shirts ever and never wears a tank top underneath unless totally neccesary. She even let some guys pull out her thong string and untie her swimsuit before, but she claims they were both the guys doing...not hers. Plus she chooses guys over her friends all the time..and we've talked to her about it many times but they follow her everywhere. So do YOU think she's a slut? Because I think she can stop being one, but if I tell her she might get mad. How do I let her know in a nice way?
My friend is a slut. help?
Uh no it does not lead them to sluts. sluts are ladies who've informal intercourse with diverse companions. even even though it makes appear like they're! It additionally makes them flirtatious and makes them: a million) appear like they're attempting too stressful 2) sexually curious 3)appear like they're undemanding.they're in user-friendly terms in the seventh grade and in user-friendly terms 12/thirteen and regrettably going approximately this all the incorrect way!! in basic terms bear in concepts strikes communicate louder than words and it is in many situations reported that birds of a feather flock at the same time. be careful, your social existence ought to alter into sabotaged and ruined via rumors in basic terms via circle of pals you % to embody your self with. in case you attempt to single your self out you may exchange into the traitor to them. or you will be sucked in and alter into corrupted. in basic terms wish for the suited yet be arranged for the worst! those are the toughest years!! additionally the years which will mould you into the form of female you will exchange into!!
How do you tell your friend that she is a slut?
Don't you think she knows she is a slut? I don't think you can tell her w/o hurting her feelings. Is it necessary to tell her? How about when she calls to chat, tell her you can't hang out because her reputation is affecting yours. If she asks what you mean, then you can talk about her behavior. Some things you can ask, "Do you know what the boys think about you?" "Do you know that the boys are paying attention to you because they all know you're easy?" etc. Good luck. I hope you get through to her.
My friend is a slut!?!?!?!?
Well, your friend doesn't know what's elegance, she's so vulgar! Ask her if she has no respect for herself and if she truly appreciates your friendship. Tell her that imperfections are part of human nature; everyone has flaws - including her - and how uncomfortable you feel about his behavior. If she continues like this, and it really bothers you, try to get away from her, then maybe she get some *touch of reality*. "Some people think luxury is the opposite of poverty. It is not. It is the opposite of vulgarity."- Coco Chanel
My best friend is a slut, what do I do?
my best friend is a whore too. But we've been friends for 15 years, so I just put up with it. But it's a little different b/c i'm already married and she's not, we're in our late 20's. When I was your age, my friend tried to hook up with my husband (we were just friends back then), but he didn't like her b/c she was too stupid and trashy and ugly. He liked me instead. A lot of guys used to like her instead of me, but I never liked the guys she hooked up with b/c they were idiots. I realized that if I was myself and not acting like a slut, I would attract guys who I would like. Not all guys are into sluts, but maybe that's all that you hang around with right now. There are a lot of guys who want a clean girl, not full of STD's and care that's she's really beautiful on the inside and out. They care about things like the girl being nice and mature, not just a fat skank. Don't worry, your friend will get what's coming to her. My best friend is still single, and is a single mom and had to move back in with her parents at 28. All she knows about her baby's dad is his name. She's never had a serious relationship and I don't think she's capable of it. How can you develop a serious relationship with a guy when you just sleep with everyone? My advise- drop this "best" friend and find a new one who's not a major slut and realize that you don't really like this zack who obviously cares more about his penis than the girl- he doesn't really like her, he just wants into her pants and she's easy and he knows she'll give it up. Not not a reason to want to be with a guy. Hope that helps.
My friend is turning into a slut?
I'm not sure all the details of your friends life and background on how she was brought up? Are her parents involved in a big part of her life or do they just let her do what she wants? Are they together or divorced? Is her father in the picture? I think there is a reason that everyone is the way they are & a reason for the things they do. A lot of girls go through that stage in their life. I was one of them. I did not have the closest relationship to my mother growing up & my father was not around a whole lot.I think a lot of why I did the things I did is because I was insecure & had low self esteem & I craved attention from the opposite sex & friends. I didn't have a lot of friends & I always wanted to be popular. I hated being alone & I felt like an outsider. I did a lot of the things I did to please others...not to please myself. I do not know if this would apply to her, but this may be some of what she is feeling & why she does the things she does! If you are truly her friend don't judge her! Try to sit her down & tell her that you care about her & it bothers you to see her do the things she has been doing. Tell her that you'd like for the two of you to hang out more often like you used to, but you'd prefer not to hear about the things she's been doing. Tell her you wish she'd stop, because you know she deserves so much more than what she is giving herself credit for. I hope this is helpful!
Best friend is the biggest slut ever. Please help. What should I do?
My best friend is the biggest slut ever. The things she does, absolutely everything disgust me. Just looking at her to long makes me wonder why I'm still her friend/sick. We've been best-friends since Elementary school. In 8th grade we kind of fell off due to her sudden change. She said she wasn't a virgin anymore. People that lose their virginity in middle school lose my respect due to the fact that we girls just started menstruation. We know absolutely nothing about our womanly parts, hell we don't even know why we're really bleeding. Anyways. In 9th grade. She became bisexual. Cool. I'm no Christian. But that's when she started looking for attention. Aka sleeping with a majority of our small town, the next and so on. What bugs me most is our senior year. She let my 15 year old BROTHER and his 13-15 year old friends run a train on her. AT MY HOUSE. Across from MY ROOM. (THEN LIED; and spread rumors about them raping her!!! THE HELL?) Plus, she had intercourse with two of my other brothers who she know are related...again. In MY HOUSE. She gives head to anyone who asks. As long as you're attractive. And even not then. As I type this she's at my house. With my brother, and his friends who ran a train on her. With my other brother she also slept with. She's acting normal, giggling and flirting with them. Should I stop being her friend? I'm no goody-goody. I've did my wrongs. But not like this. No where close. It's at the point where I can't take it any more.
Obviously I'm taking a stab in the dark here but she may have anorexia. If this is the case, there are a few things that may help. Usually, anorexia is about control. At least, it was for me. If her financial situation is bad and there's little she can do to improve it, cutting down on food might be her way of trying to regain some control over it. It might also be a way to punish herself. If the above sounds familiar, try to subtly drop hints that may help her to abandon this belief. Things like how taking enough food and vitamins will prevent you from getting ill (keeps the medical bill down) and makes you more productive because you can concentrate better. Etc. Don't directly discuss it with her, just make sure she's there when you say things like this. If she feels attacked she will not listen. If you suspect her self esteem and the way she views herself might be the problem, do the same thing. But talk about how you can eat healthily on a low budget (again do not direct this at her; instead say that you're doing this for yourself) and invent a model acquaintance who found out that eating enough calories consistently from a variety of foods help her keep the weight off instead of starving herself. I cannot stress enough that confronting someone with an eating disorder about said eating disorder will backfire. The more my family pushed me, the less I listened. Lastly, consider that she might feel really uncomfortable about you guys buying her food. It's very sweet but it kind of emphasizes her 'failure' financially. In any case she is lucky to have such kind and concerned friends.